Regarding how to choose, there is an example of taking ears of wheat. In a wheat field, you can't decide which wheat is the biggest before you walk all the way. So what should we do, which is the optimal solution at present? The correct way is to determine the approximate size of wheat ears through short-term observation. Don't do it first, just observe. Go when you are sure, as long as you meet the pile that is still very big just now, you can start directly.

What enlightenment does this example have for the choice of life crossroads?

1. Observe, fully observe and make judgments, and define standards. Every intersection appears at a certain stage, so on the way to these intersections, it is to observe the process of wheat ears. You must find all kinds of environments and resources in your life and what you want. Only by collecting all these independent variables that affect your choice can you establish a formula. At the crossroads of life, it is possible to make a choice because there is a problem to be solved.

2. Direct start, as long as it meets the standards, decisive start. Try on a small scale, make bold choices and devote yourself wholeheartedly. No matter which choice, only the input can guarantee its correctness.

Of course, facing the important choices in life is not as simple as an experiment, nor will it be easy. But we must be sober and try to stand in the future and look at the present. Find out what you want, what you have now, and where the gap is in the future, so as to choose the right way to achieve it.

I have also met some people who have never made any plans and are not so cautious when they need to make choices in life. Compared with those seemingly rational people, they are more willing to respect their hearts, follow their hearts every step, and be free and happy.