First, the four principles of educating boys 1, understanding gender consciousness
When boys were four or five years old, they already had gender awareness. He already knows that he is a nobody. At this time, parents should consciously cultivate their children's masculinity.
Step 2 make friends with boys
More understanding and support for boys, less coercion. All the boys' parents must keep this teaching method in mind. If you don't make friends with your boy now, he will treat you as an enemy after puberty!
The development of children's social skills will also be of great help to the future society. 3. Rich and balanced
The wealth mentioned here includes two concepts, one is that parents spoil and arrange too much, and the other is the abundance of money. Parents' excessive love makes them selfish and irresponsible, and makes them lose their ability to work and resist setbacks.
4. Cultivate personality from an early age
When parents meet a boy who obeys Nuo Nuo, they always comfort themselves. When he grows up, he will understand, but this is not the case. Therefore, to educate a boy, parents need to guide him to accumulate the ability and quality of success when he is very young.
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Second, the key problem of cultivating boys 1, to support poor boys.
As the saying goes, since ancient times, there have been many rich ladies and never many great men. The connotation of a poor boy is the cultivation of boys' qualities such as hard work, courage and firmness, sincerity and frankness, wit and determination, and sense of responsibility.
2. Gold quality cultivation
As the saying goes, be a man in advance. Quality largely determines the success or failure of a person's work. Therefore, parents should cultivate boys' honesty, integrity, diligence, self-esteem and positive gold quality from an early age.
3. Pay attention to independence.
Mr. Tao Xingzhi once wrote a poem: drop your own blood, shed your own sweat, and do your own thing; I'm not a hero. This poem humorously expresses a wise saying: standing is the most precious wealth in life for boys.
4. Multi-ability training
Childhood is the best time to cultivate many abilities of boys. Whether it is thinking ability, cooperation ability, decision-making ability, competition ability, adaptability or imagination ability, it is an essential capital for boys to achieve their future life.
5. Attitude towards learning
Whether a person can succeed in learning depends largely on whether he loves learning and has the ability to learn. Therefore, cultivating boys' enthusiasm and initiative in learning is the foundation of scientific tutoring.
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6. Be brave in taking responsibility
A boy who doesn't understand the importance of responsibility will never grow up. As Churchill said, the price of greatness is responsibility. Therefore, parents should subtly influence and cultivate boys' sense of responsibility and cultivate them into a responsible person.
7. Adolescent education
Adolescent boys are full of energy and active thoughts. Boys in this period are prone to some problems due to some physiological and psychological changes, so parents must pay more time and energy to pay attention than before.
8. Broaden boys' horizons
Xu xiake once said: a gentleman is a blue sea, and dusk is also. If a boy stands at a higher starting point and has a broad vision, he can overcome more difficulties and achieve greater success in his future life.
9. Learn to master financial management
In modern society, it is equally important for boys to learn financial management knowledge and master scientific and cultural knowledge from an early age. These are all necessary skills for boys to survive and develop in the future. Therefore, parents must not treat the cultivation of boys' financial quotient lightly.
10, good social skills
Carnegie said: A person's success 15% depends on his professional knowledge, while 85% depends on his interpersonal relationship. For boys, good social skills are not only an important part of their own development, but also an important guarantee for a foothold in society.
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Third, the problem of the boy's growth stage 1, misled from an early age
There are also some boys who are a little more feminine from their mothers and praised by people around them. Children are easily misled when they are young. Children's standards of right and wrong are all given by adults, and guidance as a child is very important.
2. Teachers are almost all women.
The child finally went to school. At this stage, the child's imitation is very strong, and the teacher has a great influence on him. However, the current early education institutions or kindergartens are almost all female soldiers and generally lack masculinity.
3. The son is too rich.
As the saying goes, if a son is poor and his daughter is rich, his son still needs more frustration education to inspire self-cultivation and achieve a career. But at present, the material conditions have become more affluent, and the one-child family has become common. Parents care for both men and women in their hands.
4. Growing up without fatherly love
Nowadays, in most families, the man is outside the house and the woman is inside. More and more stay-at-home mothers take care of their children at home, while fathers are too busy to take care of their children's growth, resulting in men's masculinity, courage and tenacity not fully affecting their children.