Parents are heartbroken for their children's marriage. I don't know when it started, and the drama of urging marriage continued to be staged.
So every holiday seems to be a blind date season. Especially in the Spring Festival, it's really the Eight Immortals crossing the ocean, showing their magical powers.
Cousin Wen Wen, 1993 chicken, went to work in the south after graduating from college. After work, she studied as an on-the-job graduate student, and now she is a good hand in the workplace.
Watching children of Wenwen's age get married and have children one after another, parents began to worry, and urging marriage became a common practice. At first, Wen Wen occasionally responded, and slowly, urging marriage became her parents' one-man show.
Seeing her daughter step into the ranks of leftover women, her mother gave her an ultimatum: If you can't find someone before the age of 30, go home for a blind date!
Wen Wen thought that her mother was just talking, but she didn't know that she went home for 8 days during the Spring Festival and was actually arranged for 9 blind dates.
This matchmaker is also capable, and he has a lot of resources in his hand, from 24-year-old fresh meat to 45-year-old middle-aged uncle, one by one.
Wenwen is curious about how she ended up like this. I haven't graduated from junior high school, divorced, widowed, half a head shorter than myself, weighing more than 200 kilograms, lying flat at home without a job ... In short, I will bring them as long as they are men.
As a result, Wen Wen ended his holiday early and ran away. Before going out, she told her parents that she would find her other half. Before the age of 35, if you don't meet the right person, you won't get married. Anyway, her salary is enough to support herself. If you want her to go home in the future, don't arrange blind date activities again.
Tao Tao, my cousin's son, is 34 years old. After graduating from college, I drifted north, Shanghai and Shenzhen. I have no idea what he does. Anyway, he has traveled all over China.
This young man is very energetic. He is 1.8 meters tall, well-dressed and fashionable. The biggest advantage is that he can talk about everything from the world pattern to history and humanities, from stock finance to daily necessities. How can you not find someone so young? He should be short of girlfriends. It turns out that he does have a lot of girlfriends, suitable for marriage, no.
My parents were anxious and gave a dead order: "No matter who it is, as long as it is a woman, as long as you bring it back, we will arrange a wedding for you immediately!" If you really can't, just have a baby and bring it back! "
To tell the truth, Tao Tao doesn't want to get married at all, and she has mentioned her thoughts to her parents many times. However, two generations have different ideas. After repeated communication failed, a blind date was arranged directly.
Tao Tao began to comment that his skin was too dark or he was too short, even his mouth was too big and his eyes were too small ... Finally, he used it without making eye contact with his family.
Cousin threw out a card: "There are 300,000 in the card. As long as you get a marriage certificate, this card will be given to you. "
Tao Tao likes to ignore it: "You can leave it to the old people. Money is a good thing, but I can't enjoy it! "
Cousin jumped up with anger, and aunt twisted her son's ear and asked him what he really wanted to do.
Tao Tao said in a word: "I don't want to get married!"
My best friend Mao Mao is almost forty years old. She runs her own small business, has a house and a car, and has a good life.
I talked about an object a few years ago, and as a result, a man cheated. Since then, Mao Mao has been flaunting himself as a bachelor.
Mao Mao's marriage is a thorn in her parents' side. It has been mentioned for many years, but she is unmoved.
Seeing that people around are planning blind dates for their children, Mao Mao's mother also leaned in and listened to a few words: "She Zhang Yi, what did you just say about that man?" Have you got any pictures? Introduce me to Mao Mao! "
Zhang Yi smiled: "Don't join in the fun. This man Mao Mao doesn't like it. The money he earned in half a year is not enough for Mao Mao to buy a bag! "
Mao Mao's mother was unwilling, but she took a glance at the photo on Zhang Yi's mobile phone. The man was wearing a hat and glasses mask, and he couldn't see anything.
Even so, Mao Mao's mother asked Zhang Yi to send her the photos. She wants to go back and ask Mao Mao. What if her daughter likes this type?
Mao Mao rolled her eyes at her mother, picked up her mobile phone and made a phone call to the customers on the sofa.
I heard a lot of such things this Spring Festival.
Let's not talk about why marriageable young people don't actively get married. After all, everyone has their own life and ideas.
I just want to say a few words to my anxious parents. Your feelings are understandable. However, marriage is a big event, which is related to the happiness of children in the second half of their lives. This matter is really urgent.
You said that young people are excellent. They all have their own work and life circles and have their own ideas about life.
Children's lives are far from what their parents think. Those so-called blind dates are inappropriate at first sight, and we have to arrange to meet. What's the point of such a blind date?
Only when you meet the right person at the right time can you achieve a love and contribute a good story.