Encourage and praise children in time.
Children's good performance, achievements and slight progress should be discovered in time, expressed, appreciated and praised! Only by caring, encouraging and appreciating can children grow up healthily.
Young children can always use "you are great" to motivate their children! Praise children for their good performance, and the method of praise should be practical, and you can't praise them casually!
Don't compare other people's excellent children with your own children and belittle your own children. It is the wisest parent to discover children's hobbies and specialties (bright spots) in time and develop them so that children and life can get the greatest value.
Praise the benefits of children: it can stimulate children's self-confidence, get rid of inferiority, and be cheerful! Get along well with others and life will develop in a good direction!
Cultivate children's ability to distinguish right from wrong
It is important for children to distinguish right from wrong at an early age. A child who can distinguish right from wrong has a clear concept of right and wrong and knows what is right and wrong; What to do and what not to do. With a clear view of right and wrong, children will not deviate from the correct track of life!
Methods of training children to distinguish right from wrong;
1 Children's good performance should be praised, appreciated or rewarded in time.
If the child does something wrong, he should be reminded in time and adopt the sandwich criticism and education method to let the child correct his mistake, with clear rewards and punishments.
If the child takes the initiative to admit his mistake, parents should not pursue it, do not sprinkle salt on the wound, and give the child time and opportunity to correct it; Children make mistakes repeatedly and cannot tolerate them; Willfulness is a common problem of children. Children make trouble without reason. Ignore him when they are willful, but don't beat and scold him. The only way is to give him a cold shoulder, make him feel neglected and restrain his bad temper.
The consequences of children's bad behavior should be borne by children.
4. Make a code of conduct for children, and point out what things should never be done. Let children learn self-discipline and cultivate self-control ability.
Parents will not treat their children lightly, but praise, satirize or punish their children at will.
If you praise, satirize and reprimand your child at will, the child will be at a loss, have a vague concept of right and wrong, and don't know which is right and which is wrong. Children who grow up in this environment are either timid or opinionated, or unruly and opinionated. Even ruined the child's life!
Cultivate children's ability to live independently
People are social animals, but there are also independent individuals. People who can't survive without the group are the most vulnerable! Therefore, it is equally important to cultivate children's ability to live independently. Ways to cultivate children's independent living ability;
1 Let children do some housework or things within their power from an early age. Such as serving tea, sweeping the floor, buying food, washing dishes and cooking.
What children should do must be done by themselves as much as possible.
Parents should never take responsibility for him.
Let children have the right to fully express their opinions at home.
5 When encountering problems, let the children solve them themselves, or ask for their opinions, help them solve them, improve their ability to deal with problems, and help them grow.
6 give children independent space. For example, let the children sleep in separate beds early, wash their faces and make their own life and study plans. Let the children do what they like by themselves. Let children have the space to study alone. On the premise of ensuring children's safety, let children have time and freedom to do activities at will, and so on.
Don't stifle children's naughty nature. The children of "troublemakers" have flexible brains, strong curiosity and strong thirst for knowledge. Indulge a child's certain thinking and behavior within the allowable range, which is the best time to tap the potential and open the door to creative thinking!
Children who can live independently have strong ability to adapt to society and life, strong ability to resist setbacks and strong vitality.
Cultivate children's good living habits
Children's good living habits are developed from childhood. Good living habits are conducive to the healthy growth of the body; Good living habits are conducive to the formation of good character. And a good personality determines the success or failure and happiness of a lifetime!
So parents must have good living habits and set a good example for their children. Through subtle influence, let children develop good living habits and have a healthy body from an early age, laying a good foundation for shaping a good character.
Cultivate children's good character
Personality determines life. A good personality will bring a happy life! Personality is so important, how can we cultivate children with good personality?
1 Cultivating children's good living habits is conducive to the formation of good character.
The good character of parents, what children hear and see, will be passed down imperceptibly.
Giving children a good growth environment plays an important role in cultivating their good character.
It is also important for children to have a good learning environment and a good circle of friends.
Parents should be honest in their words and deeds, and their promises to their children should be "as good as a promise". Only when you can't break your promise to your child, can your child do what he says and does.
Children with good living habits and good personality are generally mentally healthy. In real life, most parents only pay attention to their children's academic performance, but ignore the cultivation of their healthy psychology and excellent personality. In fact, mental health and good personality are more important than academic performance!
Ways to cultivate children's sense of responsibility
Parents should not do everything that children should do.
Let the children take on some family responsibilities and do what they can. Such as feeding dogs, raising chickens, serving tea and water to guests, offering cigarettes, washing dishes, sweeping the floor, buying vegetables and so on. Develop a good habit of diligence and responsibility from an early age.
If the child does something wrong, let the child take responsibility.
Let children know that they are responsible for what they have done. Tell children what they can and can't do! Only when children don't mess around can they control their bad words and deeds and be responsible for their actions.
The children trained in this way can become useful talents in society when they grow up.
Let the atmosphere of love fill the environment where children grow up.
Love is the lubricant of interpersonal communication, and love is the necessary product of children's growth. Teachers' love for students will stimulate students' enthusiasm for learning; Parents' love for their children is conducive to their healthy growth and becoming caring people.
Family harmony, loving parents, caring family members, children feel that adults love him very much since childhood, and children who grow up in this loving environment are generally gentle, warm, caring and grateful; Honesty, self-confidence and sense of responsibility are of great benefit to the healthy growth of children.
If the family is not harmonious and there is no loving growth environment, children will feel lonely, helpless and insecure. They don't trust others, demand perfection, are timid and difficult to get along with; Withdrawn, paranoid, selfish and introverted. Or grumpy, which is extremely unfavorable to his growth.
Parents are the children's first teachers and the objects that children imitate. Parents' words and deeds directly play an exemplary role for children; Every moment has a subtle influence on children's growth. Therefore, in order to cultivate outstanding successors, especially parents should set a good example for their children!
1 loving and warm family.
Children cultivated in this environment are more caring, more secure, more responsible and more team-working!
Parents are honest and reasonable.
Honest and reasonable parents generally have the same excellent qualities as their children. Rarely become a liar and an unreasonable person!
Respect the old and love the young, care about others and be ready to help others.
Parents with this quality will cultivate children who are responsible, caring, filial, open-minded and helpful!
4 hard-working, self-reliance and self-reliance.
Parents with this spirit, most of the successors they have trained are able to endure hardships, stand the test of setbacks and have inspirational spirit!
Good living habits, cheerful personality and enthusiasm for people.
Parents have such good behavior and good character, which plays an extremely important and positive role in children's growth and character formation! Their successors are all positive, enthusiastic, extroverted, sunny, subconsciously healthy and of excellent quality.
6 can tolerate people's mistakes and have an inclusive heart.
Both parents have this idea. Their children are broad-minded, good at dealing with people, won't haggle with people, and can avoid a lot of trouble. Most of their lives are happy!
7 Grateful and optimistic.
Parents often lead by example with gratitude, and children will copy them correctly, with few complaints and troubles! Look at things with an optimistic attitude and bring him a happy life.
Parents' good role models and role models will create a good growth environment for children and lay a good foundation for their growth! When there are problems in children's growth, parents should not put the blame on schools and society. First of all, they should find their own reasons, correct their own shortcomings, improve their educational methods and create the best growth environment for their children. This is their obligation and responsibility! Let me share my baby's literacy experience with you again. I have been reading with my baby since he was 3 years old, but my child doesn't like books that can't be moved. Later, I began to look for animation education materials, and used many kinds of early education applications before and after. Advertisements are frequent, and children start to charge if they don't know the learning effect until they find that cats are small. Handsome, academic, from China; Words, application, can accumulate literacy, form good reading habits, and quickly adapt to young convergence.