During the holidays, I enrolled my children in various remedial classes, running from east to west, and I was as tired as a dog every day. When I go home, I have to wash clothes and cook. Once children make mistakes, they start to blame and complain.

Many people, especially some wealthy families, often confuse reading with spending money.

I think you can learn better in expensive training courses, and you have to go to expensive schools to sell iron.

There must be many such examples around you.

Learning is important, but playing is a child's nature. If a person didn't enjoy the wonderful time of childhood, then she will have corresponding behavior to make up for it when she grows up.

Take myself as an example. When I was a child, the family conditions were average, and my parents never wasted money on toys. Usually, buying a small toy for a few dollars is considered a luxury.

I liked playing with toys at that time, but my father said it was a plaything.

After going to college, I finally have my own money, and my parents can't see what you bought. After more than ten years, I finally realized my dream of buying toys.

One more thing for parents with girls. If a little girl didn't eat ice cream, buy a nice skirt and go to an amusement park when she was a child.

If a boy does this for him when he grows up, you can definitely guess the result.

Isn't it a pity that many pleasures that should have been enjoyed in childhood have been delayed until adulthood? So, why not give children a free time when they are young? I think a lot of people are saying that this is not good.

Because if you don't study and other children are studying, then we will fall behind. If you fall behind, you will not be admitted to high school, university or a good job. I don't want this!

In fact, it is more important to give children a good learning environment and cultivate a study habit than to go to a training class.

Spell it out, there are many free study materials to learn!

One is external learning pressure, and the other is internal yearning for knowledge.

Can children learn well if they are asked to learn while playing mobile phones? If you look impatient when your child asks you questions, why do you scold your child for pointing fingers?

Learning should be a happy thing, and the essence of learning should not be distorted because of too much pressure.

Suppose a more extreme situation, two children, one growing up, were oppressed by their parents to study, and their academic performance was very good, and finally they fell in love with Tsinghua. The happiest thing about his college entrance examination must be that he finally doesn't have to study. I am so happy and free.

Another child also loves learning. Besides the knowledge in textbooks, he often likes to read all kinds of extracurricular knowledge, but he didn't do well in the college entrance examination and only got into two colleges.

So a few years later, will the child admitted to Tsinghua be better off than another child? The answer is not necessarily.

No matter what school you come from, you have to re-learn on your own when you come to society, and the motivation of this kind of learning comes from the active learning ability cultivated as a child, not from external pressure.

If you go to work or start a business, will someone force you to learn? Colleagues hope you won't.

Cultivating children is sometimes like an investment process.

The more you invest, the more you hope to get a big return. It's like buying stocks.

Why is this happening? It is a question worth pondering. ....