I found this question particularly interesting on the forum.
To tell the truth, even if kindergarten is not compulsory and the tuition is particularly expensive, I'm afraid no parents want their children not to go to school! Children are so expensive now, not to mention kindergartens. I was sent to early education at the age of two, fearing that my children would not learn knowledge, and they would not be proficient in English since childhood, and they would also know all kinds of martial arts.
Let's get back to the question. Don't go to kindergarten, okay?
Sure!
The country has always advocated the "zero starting point" teaching model, which is to appeal to kindergartens not to teach children the contents of primary schools. After entering the first grade of primary school, children will learn from scratch. Chinese begins with pinyin literacy, and mathematics begins with the understanding, addition and subtraction of 1~5.
Therefore, it is ok not to go to kindergarten at all!
Even if you don't study for a day, you can keep up when you enter the first grade of primary school. Because everything has to be learned from scratch, and some private kindergartens are not standardized. Although the teacher teaches something, it is not standardized. After entering primary school, they had to correct it. Isn't it more trouble?
And now there are more and more kindergartens, which are mixed. In addition to charging fees under various pretexts, there are still news of child abuse in some kindergartens, or some kindergartens have too many students and are too concentrated. A classroom with fifty or sixty students can't guarantee the quality at all. In order not to make trouble, the teacher will gather the children together and try not to engage in too many activities. I believe that this kind of kindergarten can only give children safety. Like all kinds of habit cultivation and thinking exercise, I'm afraid it can't be achieved at all!
So, do parents still think it is worthwhile to go to kindergarten?
Kindergartens with high fees, guaranteed quality, few students, small classes and strong professional teachers are worth reading. After all, it ensures that children can get adequate training and initially adapt to collective life. But can ordinary people afford such a high standard kindergarten?
In short, there are still great contradictions.
There are many vivid examples in life. Some people really don't send their children to kindergarten, but they are tutoring themselves. But such people don't need to work to make a living, and ordinary people can't reach it.
More parents have no choice but to choose a nearby kindergarten and send their children there. As for what can be learned, it's up to fate. If you are a little anxious, you should sign up for various remedial classes, such as singing, dancing, piano painting and swimming, and sign up for a lot, regardless of whether your child likes it or not. In short, it is right to spend money on it.
There are also misunderstandings in this practice.
Let's see what our parents and friends say.
Support the cancellation of kindergarten, because you really can't learn much, and it's expensive!
Yes, although kindergarten is not a nine-year compulsory education, it should be standardized. However, it is up to parents to decide whether to go to kindergarten or not!
However, we should also see that going to kindergarten has certain advantages, which can cultivate children to adapt to collective life, learn self-discipline, learn to abide by the system, exercise and cultivate thinking. ...
Anyway, it depends on how you choose.