People say that the heart is as big as the stage!

I want to say, where is the heart, where is the harvest!

Different choices, different safe places, different gains. Different sowing will lead to different lives. You penetrate the darkness with your eyes, and you will reap the dawn; Look at the late autumn with your eyes, and you will reap golden fruits.

Many parents often envy others' children. They are sensible, smart, filial to their parents and have excellent academic performance. Eighteen kinds of martial arts are not enough to describe the Excellence of other children.

Looking back at your children, you have to go to the toilet to do your homework, yawn when you pick up the book, and you are eager to copy the guy when you talk about learning, and you are at the bottom of the exam. Accompany homework. First of all, you should prepare a bottle of quick-acting rescue pills, plus a bottle of fire extinguisher, and keep your mobile phone at your side so that you can call 120 for help at any time. If you don't accompany your homework, you will be interviewed by the teacher every day, and there is no place to put your face.

Excellent children are excellent because their parents have made extraordinary efforts and effective companionship. Children attend early education classes from birth, parents and children read them before going to bed every day, and children go to interest enlightenment classes when they are older. What children learn, adults follow them and grow up with them.

Adults spend all their time and thoughts on children except going to work. They send their children to class rain or shine, don't sleep late on weekends and don't stay up at night. Exercise every day, 365 days a year, and set an example of self-discipline for children.

Behind excellent children, there must be a pair of excellent parents. They are making progress every day except for 8 hours. They spend all their time playing mahjong on the wine table with other parents and talking about the mountains. After more than ten years of hard work, they are bound to gain an enviable "other people's children"!

Careful parents not only make demands on their children, but also strictly demand themselves to walk in front of them and lead them to a wider world.

Usually I am a very casual person. I have to take care of my children. There are no other basic animals and plants at home. This has nothing to do with whether I love or not, but my heart is not there.

Last year, my husband asked me to tidy up the flowerpots on the balcony when I was free. I hope we also have a small balcony garden.

In fact, only one orchid is alive in the flowerpot on the balcony, and the others are dead branches and leaves.

A small balcony garden, with red leaves and green flowers and butterflies shuttling through it, is beautiful to think about.

I got up the courage to contact my friend who often shared flowers in my circle of friends and asked her how she had a balcony garden.

I started by buying flower stands from Taobao, and then I went to the supermarket to buy flowerpots for watering, flowerpots for literary models, shovels for loosening soil and so on. When the hardware tools are ready, I will go to the flower market to pick flowers.

Because I am a flower grower, I may forget to water and fertilize, so I must buy flowers and plants that are easy to grow, such as: tenacious vitality, drought tolerance, love yin and yang, and it is best to bloom.

My friend grows flowers. He helped me choose flowers and fertilizer according to my requirements. And carefully explained to me her experience in planting flowers, how to change flower pots, how often to apply flower fertilizer, when to water them, and so on.

I kept it in mind and soon decorated my garden.

With flowers and plants at home, the whole house looks full of spring and vitality, and both husband and children are delighted and full of praise.

Now, I have been planting flowers for almost three months. I watered them patiently and carefully removed the dead leaves. Flowers and plants are red, fat, green and thin, which often attract butterflies to fly around.

In the warm winter sun, I sat on the balcony and felt the fruits of my efforts with joy.

If I have any hobby, it is that I like writing.

In the past few years, I only kept a diary occasionally. My writing ability has always been original and has not been carefully cultivated. I was born endlessly, just like a malnourished young tree, which is not big and does not grow well, with few branches and yellow leaves, and stubbornly wants to grow taller.

Under the influence of my friends, I joined the club and wrote more than 70,000 words in two months. My level has not improved, and my reading is low. I am depressed and unyielding. I expected that my stupid insistence on code words might be a turning point in my writing career.

Read thousands of books and take Wan Li Road. Wan Li Road is not as good as a famous teacher.

I was lucky enough to join the Jiuzhou elite training camp, where I not only taught writing, but also served as head coach, chief instructor and teaching assistant, leading the students to make progress every day.

The elite special training camp started for three days, and I was crushed every day, happily following everyone. From squeezing 1000 words every day before, I can't stop writing more than 1000 words. From inspiration, another flash, to the idea of a theme, there are a lot of ideas. From prose structure to daydreaming, to writing a 2000-word story in 40 minutes, it has been recognized by the chief tutor.

I think the elite training camp is starting the second pulse of my writing. I study hard with the special training camp and complete the daily exercises of the special training camp as required.

I believe that if you pay sincerely, you will gain precious friendship. Paying time and energy will definitely improve the writing level.

If you don't forget for a long time, there will be repercussions!

Keep talking, you're getting married!

I promised myself that I would study hard in the special training camp for 30 days, and I would gain an elite writer.

Life is not somewhere else, but where you want it!

How much you pay, how much you get

Whether it's raising children or flowers. Whether you want money and fame, or health and happiness, you need to take the initiative to pay, so that you can stand firm in the autumn of harvest.

What do you want, ask your heart, where is the heart, where is the harvest!

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