Although the economy has risen steadily, I can't see my parents all the year round and can only live with my grandparents.
Beyond and his parents are also very strange, and their academic performance is not good. Later, they stopped studying early and did business with their parents.
As an adult, when he went beyond supporting his family business alone and went back to struggling alone, his house, car and old man were all heavy burdens, leaving him too busy to take care of others and he could only work hard in the future.
At this time, he met his wife, who was also an only child, and they worked together to keep the family business. In a few years, their children will be born, and the family will be happy for four generations.
There are old people in the world and villains in the world, and the burden is on one person's shoulder.
However, with the arrival of the financial storm, the influence of online e-commerce has been constantly changing itself and trying to catch up with the times. The old people at home have been doing business and have no social security for the aged, so there is a small burden on the old people, which is beyond one's shoulder.
Children are also growing up day by day, and the daily consumption of early education classes, interest classes and cram schools is also huge.
The financial storm has finally survived, and the days are getting better and better. The national second child policy has been liberalized, and the wife who is a few years younger than herself has some ideas.
Because both husband and wife are only children, they know how the only child feels and always want to have another baby so that the two children can have a companion. Therefore, the husband and wife gave birth to a second child.
The wheel of life is rolling forward, and there seems to be no idea of stopping for a moment. Sometimes I think that the times I catch up with are really unprecedented, and there will be no one after me.
It is said that the post-80s generation grew up in a honeypot, but the transcendental experience is a portrayal of countless post-80s generations. Is the superior economy of childhood really the honey of children?
As the writer Zweig wrote: I was too young to know the fate of all the gifts at that time, and I had marked the price in the dark.
In fact, each era has its own unique memories, and the only-child generation also has its own unique characteristics:
1) easily frustrated, blx
The post-80s generation are generally brought up by the older generation. With the changes of the times, double-income families have no time to take care of their children's growth.
Most of the other children of the elderly have grown up, and their children have grown up. Only the youngest child needs his own help to take care of the child, and he also needs the care of the child.
Therefore, after getting along with each other day and night, it is very easy to tolerate your grandson or grandson, and parents are not good at interference, which makes it easy for children to form a fragile blx, which is easy to be frustrated.
2) easy to be arrogant and unsociable.
The connivance of the elderly will also cause the child's proud personality and make him feel extremely uncomfortable when he integrates into society.
They are independent and make their own decisions. When society needs their division of labor and cooperation, they have to learn from scratch and share what they didn't learn when they were young, which is also one of their characteristics.
3) It is easy to have a baby girl and a little princess.
In social work, they have to change, but when they return home, they may return to the state of little princess and baby boy, which is one of the reasons for the soaring divorce rate after 1980s.
Parents over-arranged, adults over-intervened, unable to solve family conflicts, etc., are the characteristics of the generation after 80.
The life that needs to be faced after 80.
Today, the post-80s generation has entered the age of no doubt. Looking back, this generation of only children faces many difficulties:
1) loneliness is accompanied by life;
When they were young, they grew up with themselves, and their families were busy making a living. They only care about their grades, so they don't have time to stop and ask themselves if they are tired of studying and how late they stay up at night.
As adults, friends become their spiritual comfort, and girlfriends and Lan Yan are also their ways to seek mutual support and get rid of loneliness, because parents still can't understand them.
2) Great economic pressure;
After 80s, the cultivation of children has been improved. Every family is a child. Naturally, all the emphasis is on children.
But did the child achieve anything as an adult? The answer is no, when they are adults, it is obvious that just going to college will not bring them much help, and they need more efforts to gain a foothold in their work.
When they get married, they should use their meager income to support the house where their parents pay the down payment, as well as the entertainment, overtime and performance they need to face at work, the expectations of their wives at home and the daily expenses of their children.
Sometimes it is even necessary to pay the medical expenses of the elderly, and the pressure is not small.
3) The pressure of life is great, and there are old people and small people;
In addition to the pressure of money, there is also the pressure of life. For the sake of performance, they often treat guests and give gifts, and have no time to accompany their children to grow up, have no energy to appease their accompanying wives, and have no extra time to take care of the sick elderly.
For more income and more stable jobs, they keep spinning like gyroscopes and don't know where the road is.
They tried their best, but they didn't get much understanding from their families. They are doomed to be lonely.
Forty, this is the year of no doubt, which means that you have your own understanding of life, but how can people born after 80 rush forward more and more hopelessly? The worldview you think you know has long since collapsed.
Facing the family? 42 1? Mode, they are deeply tired, the second child policy has been liberalized, but the data shows that the proportion of people who have a second child is not large.