Your child entered the park at the age of 4, and then asked him if he would wipe his tears alone, indicating that you really love your child and have a strong desire to let go.
Let's share my feelings about this issue.
I am the father of the child. Dabao is now 14 years old, in Grade 2. When I was a child, her mother was basically in charge of her. I didn't care much about her when I was busy at work. I just played with her at most. Then on 16, I had Bauer, and my mind changed. Those who feel indebted to Dabao want to make amends. Then I saw the problem of the old man taking care of the baby. 17 years, I moved my mind to quit my job and go home to take care of my baby. Until the end of 18, I officially resigned and came back to be a full-time nanny.
When I first started to take care of my baby, I was full of interest, playing with my children, cooking for them, and doing everything was full of energy and of course full of expectations. Because children are very clingy when they are young, and old people are very fond of them, children's language ability develops slowly. By the time I am 1 8 months old, that is, when I take over, I can say no more than 30 words, and I prefer to express my demands with actions. I don't like playing with other children. As long as you go out, you must hold it, especially timid. At that time, I especially hoped that I could change this situation quickly by taking care of my baby, but after working hard for more than a month, I found that there was little progress, so I was particularly depressed and even began to feel depressed.
Suffering for more than 1 month, constantly suppressing, trying, suppressing, and rethinking. Later, I felt that this was not enough. I had to send my children to a crowded environment to get familiar with the experience, so I began to look for suitable child care institutions, because the children were less than 2 years old at that time, so I could only find private child care, early education and kindergartens. After visiting more than a dozen such institutions, I finally found a Children's Home in Montessori. Acceptable/kloc-children over 0/year old. After talking with the teacher, you can take your children there every day to get familiar with the environment. When Bauer 1 year-old, 1 1 month-old, you can send your child to kindergarten for half a day.
To be honest, the first feeling at that time was relief. Although it is a half-day class, I have to pick it up after lunch, but at least I can relax for half a day and not be nervous. However, that time was not easy. I cry my eyes out when I send my children there every day. Other children cried for 10 days and a half at most, and they adapted to the environment. Our baby cried 1 month and a half.
Perhaps because I am a father, I am cruel and principled in this process. I gave the child to the teacher, waved goodbye and left. I won't complain to my children, because children are like this and can perceive their parents' emotions. If parents are sticky, children will cry to you more and more. Later, for such a long time, I sometimes saw other parents send their children to kindergarten, and the children cried and refused to go in, while the parents watched.
Three years have passed in an instant. Now the little guy has been in class for three years and will soon be promoted to a large class. He has already grown from that shy little guy to a naughty, smart guy who has nothing to do with me. Watching the child grow up, he really has a sense of accomplishment.
My baby was sent to kindergarten at the age of three, and now he is in the middle class at the age of four and a half. In the first few days of sending the baby to kindergarten, he really felt uneasy. My children are the kind that are easy to send. On the first day of going to kindergarten, he didn't cry or make trouble. He walked into kindergarten with a small bag on his back.
At that time, I sighed in my heart, secretly glad that the baby had finally grown up, and now I can finally regain my freedom. But I stood at the door for a long time, watching the baby being led to the classroom by the teacher's little hand, but tears fell down unwillingly, and suddenly I felt so reluctant to part with him!
I was out of shape when I went back to work. I have no intention of doing anything. I always stare at my mobile phone from time to time. After reading the teacher's announcement of the children's dynamics in kindergarten, my uneasy heart can relax a little. In fact, the children had a good time in the kindergarten.
This kind of life lasted about a week. Now I watch my children go to kindergarten every day and have fun with my friends. As an old mother, there is nothing to worry about. This time is finally a real breath!
Four years old? My family goes to kindergarten at the age of two and a half. Just because I passed a kindergarten, the children saw that all the children were playing in it. When they went back, they clamored to go to the kindergarten and finally went directly. Other people's children cry and don't go, and my children cry and don't go to kindergarten [covering their faces]
I must have been very happy before I entered school. When I sent my children to school, my eyes filled with tears, and I was very sad. All kinds of worries and emotions are very complicated. I'm glad that the child will finally step into the kindergarten gate and wipe my tears. Worried that children are not used to going to school, eating badly and sleeping badly …
Relax? Practice thinking class, English class, reading class and writing at once. There is no time. There are still two years to study, and if you don't hurry up, the first day will be very hard.
At that time, my daughter was sent to the "doll class" when she was one year old and seven months old. After days of cajoling. That day, she was brought into the garden by the teacher with a full face of excitement. I turned around and burst into tears (both my parents and my wife had died). At 5 o'clock in the evening, she cried and ran to me. I thought, didn't the world move at that time? The memory is fresh, and Vientiane has already been updated.
If you stay with your child 24 hours a day and don't do any housework, if your child is too adaptable and doesn't cry or give up at all, then you are a little lost. When children walk into the kindergarten and look at their backs without looking back, you will find yourself standing in the wind, with nowhere to put your soul and wandering around.
That's the idea when I didn't go to kindergarten before. You don't have to bring it every day when you go to kindergarten. It's really an unspeakable joy for my mother. Now I send it to cry every day, and when I wake up, I will cry and say, Mom, I don't want to go to kindergarten, okay? When I get to school, I will cry even more when I hold her for the teacher. I will pull your clothes and cry for mom. The scene is comparable to the scene of robbing a child. I am very sad at the moment, thinking about whether I will eat well and sleep well at school, and I am very worried. I cried the moment I saw my mother after school. I shed tears at this moment. But when you grow up, you will get out of this step sooner or later. My mother can't bear to part with it. I hope you grow up slowly, for fear of delaying your growth. [Ross] [Ross] [Ross] [Ross]
On the first day my eldest brother sent me to kindergarten, I began to cry when I got out of kindergarten. I cried as I walked. When I came home, I saw an empty house. I sat in the living room and cried all morning. On the first day of sending my second child to kindergarten, I was still a little sad when I came back, but I didn't cry. My two children grew up without leaving me for a day, so I felt together every day and suddenly went to school. It takes time to get used to it.
My son went to kindergarten at the age of three. Tell me how I feel.
I brought up my son, and it is rare to be apart for a whole day. My daily life revolves around my children. After getting up in the morning, wash and eat breakfast, take him out to play with friends, come back for dinner at noon, take a nap, and wake up to go out to play. Almost every day for three years, our relationship has been very close.
On the first day of sending children to kindergarten, I stayed on the sofa for a long time after returning. The first time I found my home so quiet, I was a little at a loss. Suddenly I didn't know what I was going to do at home, and I was a little panicked.
Then I began to think, I don't know how the little guy is at school, how he gets along with his classmates, whether he eats well, whether he cries or not ... I thought a lot. ...
Then I wanted to cry, my heart was empty, and I was fidgeting all day. If it weren't for the customer consultation of the online store, I was a little distracted. It is estimated that that day will be even more difficult.
In the following days, as children gradually adapt to school life, I also began to learn to adapt and slowly began to enjoy this life. I'm busy eating three meals a day, opening an online shop, and chasing plays. The day passed quickly.
Unconsciously, the child has been in the second semester. Every day when he comes back from school, he will tell me what happened at school today and the games he played with his classmates and teachers. Communication is something we all like very much.
Children are stronger than we thought and have good adaptability. Therefore, sending them to kindergarten when they are old, whether adults or children, is a good growth process.