Look at the baby at this stage. Why can't you see any promising future at all? It's really worrying that the baby can't concentrate!
My aunts all boast that they love reading and playing with toys. Well, that may only be at some point. Your little cutie will also have a helpless side to her mother.
Asked a circle, the editorial department of hemp also has its own troubles:
@ A Xing: What a mess ... My baby 1 3 months old, doesn't concentrate on anything! When you play with toys, you will run away at the slightest sign. Although we also know that children are inattentive, we are still worried that such a character will not like learning in the future, which will be more troublesome!
@ 舵舵舵舵: My baby has read 150 picture books, and I am obsessed with it myself. I want my daughter to read two picture books a week, so that she can read one hundred books a year. !
However, the reality is skinny. When reading a picture book, if dad brushes his teeth outside, she will ask, "Where is it ringing?" . In addition, if you are in a hurry to turn the page, or read the second half, you will suddenly be asked about the previous content. Time and time again, a thin book always feels endless.
This is just the tip of the iceberg. After investigation, many mothers talked about letting their babies concentrate on playing with toys, reading picture books, and many ng clips, which were funny and distressing.
In fact, you really don't have to worry too much about your baby's concentration! Look at the following chart of the development law of concentration duration, as long as you have the number in mind ~
Because from the perspective of the baby's development stage, at this time, you can't ask him with the concentration standard of older children or even adults. The baby itself is still in the primary stage of exploring the world, and it is normal to be distracted and distracted everywhere.
But good habits can always be guided and edified. Today, the focus of the "early education box classroom" we contributed is how to guide the baby correctly and let them develop a good habit of concentration from an early age.
In addition to "reducing the interference of parents" that mothers will pay attention to, there are the following points that cannot be ignored in cultivating the baby's concentration:
Reduce the interference to the environment
There are mountains of toys at home, but when you play with your baby or have early education at home, you only take 1~2 toys that you can play with at a time, and the rest are stored in your daily life.
Every time he plays games, there are basically no other toys that will disturb him.
The surrounding environment is simple, there are no toys piled up in disorder, and the baby is more focused ~
Gradually cultivate some fixed habits.
We don't want to destroy the baby's concentration, but we suggest starting with some small habits and gradually establishing a sense of order.
For example, starting from the basic necessities of life, with the increase of age, there will be more small tasks such as brushing your teeth in the morning and evening, reading picture books before going to bed, and having a parent-child play time every day. These habits will also improve our baby's concentration.
Choose more open toys.
@ Xiao Shu from the editorial department shared with us that the snowflakes that her son's giant panda has played for the longest time are freely spliced and combined.
Toys with sound and light, robots that can be controlled, etc. I bought it myself every time, and my relatives gave it to me. It looks cool, but if I play for a long time, I will get tired easily because of excessive stimulation!
The giant panda said that on the right is a monster with a knife. We have glimpsed its symmetry and structure.
Nowadays, with more and more things to know, Panda Kai often creates an imaginary world in her mind through snowflakes, which not only cultivates her concentration, but also develops her color perception, spatial thinking and practical ability.
Therefore, we have always advocated that toys are "not good enough". Toys with high openness, such as building blocks, snowflakes and reference books, are playable, and it is easier for babies to cultivate their concentration after falling in love with them.
Focus on the baby.
We ask ourselves, when the baby is playing with toys and reading picture books, will we occasionally like to wander away and play with mobile phones? Parents are not fully committed, but also want to play by themselves?
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Emmm…… ............................................................................................................................................................................... Parents are the best teachers to stimulate the baby's concentration ~