1 Teach parents the correct way to communicate with their children through parent school teaching, so as to cooperate with the school to do a good job in children's education.

Teach parents some strategies to educate their children, so that parents can coordinate their education with school education.

Build a bridge of communication and educate children correctly.

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How should parents communicate with their children?

Parents are children's first teachers, which are very important for their life development. Therefore, communication between parents and children is very important. Regarding how to communicate with children, I will say the following:

1. 1 example is more important than words and deeds.

Parents should first pay attention to their own cultivation and establish their own prestige. A parent who doesn't like learning and only cares about eating, drinking and having fun, a parent who knows nothing, a parent with bad conduct, vulgar behavior, selfishness and disrespect for the elderly, will not cultivate good children.

1.2 Pay attention to parenting education.

Children are very concerned about whether their parents have made great efforts for their growth. Although some parents are with their children all the year round, they don't always communicate with each other. Most parents neglect parenting education on the grounds of being busy. Parents' parenting education should be ahead of their children's physical and mental development, so parents should devote themselves to their children's education, keep learning and improve their ability to educate their children, so as to win their respect and love.

1. Create a good knowledge environment

Children should have a good small environment for learning, not for luxury, but for atmosphere. Students should avoid unnecessary family chats, friends' gatherings, etc. when studying, and try to be less received at home. In addition, we should create a harmonious, peaceful and stable family atmosphere. Parents should not fight often, which will affect their children's psychological development.

1.4 Trust children unconditionally

Parents are children's first teachers and role models for their lives. Children's strengths, weaknesses, good habits and bad habits basically come from the influence of parents and the surrounding environment. Therefore, parents should first do what their children are asked to do. Appreciate the child's advantages as much as possible, tolerate the shortcomings as much as possible, and look at the child with a magnifying glass. You know, there are no perfect children in the world, even perfect children have their own shortcomings. Parents' unconditional trust in their children is an important basis for communication with their children.

1.5 More praise and less criticism

Appropriate praise is a stimulant and lubricant for parents to communicate with their children. Parents always understand, appreciate, praise and encourage their children, which will enhance their self-esteem and self-confidence. Remember: praise and encouragement make children progress, and criticism and complaints make children fall behind.

1.6 When correcting children's key shortcomings, we must pay attention to maturity and choose the best place and opportunity.

Finally, please remember the following sentence: the premise of educating children is to know them. Appreciation leads to success, and complaining leads to failure.

How should parents say "no" to their children?

When children make unreasonable demands, parents say "no" is more influential than accommodating. I wonder how many children are left unattended on weekends. My parents went out and wanted to put them among my grandparents. The child was slightly dissatisfied and gave in, saying, "Well, just stay at home by yourself!" " The child looks satisfied at first, but over time he will feel abandoned.

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Saying "yes" casually to children is indifference and connivance, while saying "no" appropriately is real care and love. The firmness of parents is absolutely non-negotiable, even shouting "I hate you!" " But children are aware of their parents' dignity and authority while resisting. Children need an antithesis to distinguish beauty from ugliness. If they are allowed to wave their little fists aimlessly, they will never be able to tell right from wrong because there is no feedback of information.

It's really not easy for parents to say "no" nowadays. The difficulty is that parents love their babies too much or have no time at all. On the other hand, education experts insist that parents should say "no" and "punish their children appropriately" if necessary. Of course, this does not mean returning to the old tradition and arbitrarily managing children. The "no" in modern society should be the understanding between adults and children, and the blending of their hearts. In this regard, we should pay attention to the following:

1 Never blackmail children.

Parents must think twice before making a commitment to their children. They can't break their promises, they must keep their promises to their children. If you can't fulfill it, you should explain it to your child in time, apologize to your child, and make self-criticism, so that your child can understand and forgive his parents from the heart. Afterwards, parents should make efforts to fulfill their promises. Because what children say to adults always counts. Otherwise, over time, children will distrust their parents and think that what they say can be broken, and gradually they will learn to do so ... "You must make your promise to your children."

When you ask your child to do something, you should tell the truth for the sake of the child, instead of saying something like "so that mom and dad will be happy".

If children only know how to please their parents, they may lie or do other stupid things.

Don't let children have an eye for an eye and a tooth for a tooth;

"If you don't listen to me, well, I won't meet your requirements!" Parents will lose their dignity and induce their children's revenge.

If one parent says "no", even if there are some unreasonable things, the other parent should not refute them in front of the children, otherwise the children will easily develop the bad habit of opportunism.

After saying "no", patiently explain to the child why, and let him or her understand the truth of "no".

You can "negotiate" with your children, but parents must take the initiative and be decisive, and can't bargain endlessly. For example, in the arrangement of daily life schedule.

Signing a contract is also a good way. The contract consists of two parts: self-training project and daily willpower training table. Parents' duty is to supervise. If the self-training plan is well done, check it. If you don't do it well, you will be punished according to the contract ... how to improve your child's work efficiency?

In a harmonious atmosphere, make rules for children from a positive perspective. Make time to have dinner with children and tell interesting stories to each other, and then there will be another opportunity to entertain and educate.

Family games are a bridge for family members to achieve good communication. Children are naturally fond of games. They need to find happiness in the game, maybe grow up in the game, and their parents will regain their lost childlike innocence in the game. The game integrates family members, makes everyone have more interesting topics, and makes communication easier and more interesting ... "On the Interesting Strategies of Parent-child Communication"

Eight orders are forbidden. After saying "no", parents' compromise with their children means reneging on their words, losing their prestige and not saying it, which also makes their children get into the habit of not keeping promises. Breach of promise is a taboo in life.

A "no" or an appropriate punishment may initially trigger a storm, but if handled properly, the rain will clear up.

After that, the relationship and feelings between your child and you will undoubtedly sublimate to a certain extent, which is exactly the meaning of saying "no"