Excellent parent-child relationship is the most important thing for a family and the foundation of all families. As parents, they always rack their brains to let their children receive better education and make them become excellent. However, it is neglected that we are first an intimate combination of one life and another life, and we have sex with children before we have education. Through the contact with parents, children feel their own existence, their parents' love for them and a stable sense of security. Only in this way can he feel at ease in the part of his inner life that needs to be built.

If a child can maintain a communication channel with his parents, he will have enough courage to support him to do what he is afraid, anxious and worried about. That connection is a kind of strength and support for him. Good parent-child relationship is the source of children's self-development, and children naturally desire to be "seen" by their parents. When parents and children have established a good parent-child relationship, they don't have to spend a lot of time looking for "parents". Children can gain growth strength from their parents, fully release and construct themselves, and release their vitality. When a child's vitality is unfolding, it is hard to think of Excellence. Children have a sense of security, feel love and love others. Parents are the original source.

According to the statistical reality, the status of family relations in childhood will have a certain impact on children's sense of security throughout their lives. For a child, it is a terrible thing to have no sense of security and no ability to perceive love. From the psychological point of view, the parent-child relationship we encountered in childhood will be internalized into the children's hearts and become an internal relationship model, which will form our character and determine our destiny.

Compared with education, the relationship between parents and children is much more important and will have a greater impact on children's life. Good parent-child relationship will also make children feel more secure and become people full of love and energy. As Mr. Shoko of Shinagawa said: "The relationship between children and their parents is the key to the changes in children's life, and it is also the basis for them to step into society and treat people and things basically in the future. Care about your children and don't forget to pay attention to your relationship with them. "