In college, there will always be some negative people around us. They exist in any environment, and these negatives will also occur in a more comfortable environment.
When a person is negative, it will be uncomfortable to see that others are working hard and their behavior is not in line with their own. It must be uncomfortable to see others better than themselves.
So, we want to grow up and try to make some achievements. In the process of growing up, we must constantly get rid of such people, so as to grow faster. This is what we should study hard in the process of growing up.
In college, a lot of decadence is not a person's. Because a person is easily influenced by his surroundings, if his surroundings are positive, he is certainly uncomfortable. It will also become positive.
But if the overall atmosphere is lazy, then everyone feels that their surroundings are like this, so they won't care too much about so many things. Then the overall atmosphere becomes like this, so it is very important to choose a good circle.
When we find that the circles around us are lazy, what we have to do is to jump out of such circles as soon as possible and then continue to work hard. When we become excellent, we will also come into contact with many excellent people, and we will quickly integrate into the good circle, which is also a very common phenomenon.
Of course, we will meet all kinds of people when we grow up. We don't need to be in touch with every circle. What we have to do is to avoid some bad circles interfering with us. At the same time, there are many lonely experiences in the process of growing up. We must be able to withstand loneliness and cultivate our self-cultivation at an appropriate time.