Letters from Fu Lei is a book written by Fu Lei, Zhu Meifu and Fu Cong, and edited by Fu Min. First published in 198 1, reprinted by Yilin Publishing House on 20 18. This book is an exchange of letters between Fu Lei and his wife, Fu Cong and Milla, which reflects the father's painstaking care for his son, runs through Fu Cong's growing experience from studying abroad and playing ball to getting married and having children, and also reflects the ups and downs of Fu Lei's translation work and his family's fate.

The following are three model essays with the theme of "Letters from Fu Lei" for your reference.

An inch of grass does not give birth to three spring scenery —— Thoughts on reading Fu Lei's letter

I hold Fu Lei's letter with gratitude. This book embodies Fu Lei's deep love for the motherland and his son. What the letter emphasizes is how a young man behaves and how to treat life. Fu Lei showed his point of view with his own experience and taught his son to be modest and polite. Don't be discouraged when you encounter difficulties, and don't be proud of winning the grand prize; We should have the sense of honor and disgrace of the country and the nation, have the dignity of art and personality, and be an "artist with both ability and political integrity and outstanding personality".

Letter from Fu Lei is full of a father's expectation, care and strict requirements for his son, and full of deep affection between father and son. It makes me feel like a traditional opera with refined atmosphere and endless aftertaste.

Fu Lei regards educating children as a glorious obligation and responsibility to society and the motherland. Not every parent can improve education to this extent, but the care and love for their children is eternal.

My father's education level is not high, and he has accumulated rich life experience through years of hard work. My father regards education as his primary task, and the energy and painstaking efforts he has spent on me are obvious to all. Whenever friends and relatives praise my achievements, I never forget to praise my father as a "great hero", and my father's old face full of gullies will always show a happy smile.

I don't know when my father began to "nag" in my ear, probably just some philosophy of life and ways of doing things. I just always feel unreasonable, often perfunctory and annoying. I wonder if Fu Cong has refused this kind of "nagging"? But I don't think so. He kept his father's letters intact and this spiritual wealth. Now, I gradually understand my father and attach importance to his persuasion. Although my father's sermon cannot be preserved in the form of letters, it will always be priceless in my heart.

My father is still busy, still "nagging" and still staring at me with expectant and stern eyes. Inadvertently, I saw a flash of silver on my father's head. I took a closer look and found that my father's hair was a few more white and the wrinkles around his eyes were a little deeper. At this time, I want to say: "father, you have worked hard for most of your life." It's time to rest. " But I'm too stupid to talk.

Father, in my heart, you will always be great and successful. Under your example, I will have greater courage and strength to overcome all kinds of evil influences and embark on my own growth path.

Reflections on Rereading Fu Lei's Letters

Letters from Fu Lei is an excerpt from the letters written by Fu Lei and his wife to Fu Cong and Fu Min. From 1954 to1June 966.

This is the best reading for art apprentices and a textbook full of fatherly love. Mr. and Mrs. Fu Lei are models of China's parents. Their two children, Fu Cong, a famous piano master, and Fu Min, a special English teacher, are the successful embodiment of their educational philosophy of being a man first, then getting married, thinking independently and teaching students in accordance with their aptitude. What is printed in this little book is not an ordinary letter from home. In his letter to Fu Cong, Fu Lei said: "Writing a long letter to you is not empty nagging, not inexplicable chatting, but has several functions. First, I really take you as an opponent to discuss art and music; Second, I really want to inspire the feelings of some young people, so that my father can get some fresh nutrients, and I can also indirectly spread them to other young people; Third, it's not just your writing that exercises you through communication, especially your thoughts; Fourth, I will always be your warning and be a' faithful mirror' everywhere, no matter in life, in the details of life, in artistic accomplishment and in playing posture. " The affection that runs through all the family letters is to let the son know the honor and disgrace of the country and the dignity of art, treat everything with a serious attitude, and be an artist with both morality and art. Parents' inculcation, sincere communication between children and parents, and deep affection between the lines have touched parents and children all over the world.

Letters from Fu Lei and Fu Cong inspired me a lot. Many of our parents have neglected the friendship with their children, and have raised them for more than ten years, but they have never really enjoyed the fun of being parents. Because they are eager to make their children succeed, their attitude towards their children has been distorted, and all kinds of encouraging measures have come out. Some parents blindly imitate Fu Lei's practice of "showing filial sons under the stick", but have they ever thought that they have the quality that Fu Lei's example is more important than words and deeds? Can optical Frey's word "hit" produce good results? So the child tasted abuse and fists, as well as the pain of studying under pressure and fear, and his golden childhood was eclipsed. Fu Lei realized that although he suffered from political movements in his later years, he was happy at this point because he and his son became the closest friends.

Now, many parents are also scrambling to imitate Fu Lei's way of educating their children. Therefore, this has become a mode of parenting education.

Thoughts on the Third Reading of Fu Lei's Letters

This summer vacation, I read a book that benefited me a lot-a letter from Fu Lei.

It not only lets us know how to be a good boy, but more importantly, lets us know how to be a man. How to look at life also helps me to know more about what my parents are thinking and communicate with them better. At the same time, it should be a good book for children to know their parents. Children can learn about their parents through this book, and parents can learn about their children through this book. Every word and sentence written by Fu Lei in his letter has become a classic and an immortal classic.

From the book, we can see that Fu Lei is a person who is strict and even mean to himself. It is precisely because of his life experience that Fu Lei lost his father and his mother's strict tutor in childhood. Cultivate one's moral character in details. Although there are many words in the family letters to educate his son, actually Fu Lei himself has done it, that is, in Confucian culture, moral character cultivation is better than words. Of course, this is inseparable from the Confucian culture with Confucian connotation and the idea of accepting materialism from beginning to end.

As a father, Fu Lei has rich feelings for his children. In fact, the parents around us are as ordinary and great as Fu Lei. Our parents often turn their hair white, and work hard for our livelihood, for our study, for us to go to a good school and for us to get a good grade. This is the real greatness, this is the real father! Fu Lei can be said to be an outstanding representative among the ten thousand fathers of Qian Qian and Qian Qian. His love for children makes them grow up healthily.

From this, I think the education of parents to their children is really worrying now. Many children's autonomy is getting lower and lower, so that today's children can't adapt to society, can't take care of themselves, and can't do something within their power. This is the sorrow of China's parents. Therefore, it is best to train children when they are young and let them take risks. . Don't spoil him too much, let him take on some things by himself. Tell him everything he should know about his world, country, society and family. Never say, "You will understand when you grow up." Something like that Then he won't cherish his childhood. Nothing is the best. It will only be better. Besides, people can't understand themselves all their lives, and sometimes they can only let nature take its course. You gave him life and responsibility. Every parent, every family, is only a temporary haven. A ship that wants to go to sea will eventually go to sea, and the wind and waves it will experience are inevitable after all. There are many roads and dark nights in life, which can only be faced alone. Parents can't replace and undertake their children's lives. Tsinghua University once expelled a student because he didn't know how to dress and tie his shoelaces at school. It is also reported that a girl didn't know how to cook eggs at school, so she had to go home crying with two eggs in her arms. Isn't it strange that such a ridiculous thing is still alive in real life? Not surprising! Such education will lead to such children.

Flowers in greenhouses are fragile, and trees in nature can withstand wind and rain.