The individual is the cell of the family. To build a clean society, we must first build a clean family and build a clean family. First of all, we should advocate a clean personal style. Next, I carefully collected the title of the article "Clean Family Style" for your reference.
Lu Xun and Xu Guangping had only one son, namely Zhou Haiying. When his son was born, Xu Guangping showed signs of dystocia. When the doctor asked Lu Xun whether to raise people or children, he replied decisively: "Raise people." As a result, mother and child are safe.
In the process of his son's growth, Lu Xun basically carried out the idea of "how can we be fathers now" and made him "completely liberated". He said, "What I take for granted now is nothing but love." According to Zhou Haiying's Seventy Years of Lu Xun and Me, Lu Xun's educational model is "let nature take its course, try not to give him too many blows, or even disobey his love, unless it is extremely unbearable and unreasonable". One day, Zhou Haiying refused to go to school anyway, and Lu Xun spanked him with a newspaper. Later, Lu Xun wrote to his mother and explained, "It was loud during the war, but it didn't hurt."
Qian Jibo is a master of Chinese studies and the father of scholar and writer Qian Zhongshu.
Qian Jibo is very strict with his son. When Qian Zhongshu was sixteen, he also gave him a beating. 1926 From the autumn to the following summer, Qian Jibo went north to Tsinghua to teach, but did not return to Wuxi during the winter vacation. At this time, Qian Zhongshu is studying in middle school. Instead of reviewing textbooks, he plunged into the world of novels. Father came back to ask his homework, but Qian Zhongshu failed the exam and was beaten.
1929, after Qian Zhongshu was admitted to Tsinghua University Foreign Languages Department, Qian Jibo often wrote to him. A letter said, "Being a benevolent gentleman is more important than being a scholar." Then a letter said: "Now foreign things say that your article is better than mine, and I am glad that you have learned from me;" However, let's just say that you have always been loyal to me and practiced for me. I am particularly comforted. "I hope Qian Zhongshu can be" indifferent to his ambition, quiet and far-reaching ". "I hope you are Zhuge Gong, Tao Yuanming; Unlike you, Hu Shizhi and Xu Zhimo ".
Qian Jibo kept his distance from the New Culture Movement at that time and devoted himself to studying Chinese studies. He warned Qian Zhongshu in this way because of a Confucian cultural standpoint.
Liang Qichao has nine children. Under his education and guidance, they all became experts in a certain field, and even produced the story of "one academician and three academicians". The three academicians are architect Liang Sicheng, archaeologist Liang Siyong and rocket control system expert Liang. Besides, the fourth son Liang Sida is an economist, the second daughter Liang Sizhuang is a librarian, and the third daughter Liang Siyi is a social activist.
Liang Qichao's love for his children is all-round, not only in study, in dealing with people, but also in financial management, current affairs and many other aspects, with a peaceful and equal attitude. After reading Liang Qichao's letters, you will understand that Liang Qichao's performance in educating children in A Letter to Children is exemplary.
Liang Qichao made no secret of his love when writing letters. In a letter of June 1927, he wrote: "You know, your father is the most emotional person, and his love for you is extremely enthusiastic. No matter how busy your homework is, you must write at least once every few months, and just a few words will tell you that you are safe. "
In studying, Liang Qichao didn't value diplomas at all, but emphasized laying a good foundation and mastering the "temperature". He said to Liang Sizhuang, "It doesn't matter if you don't get into college. A diploma is not a diploma. The thicker the wall, the better. " And teach children how to ask questions and learn-"there must always be two working cycles of' strong stew' and' slow stew' alternately."
At the same time, Liang Qichao emphasized the importance of responsibility. 1923, he wrote to his eldest daughter, Liang, saying, "No matter how big or small the cause in the world is, as long as you do your best within your responsibility, you are the first." Of course, Liang Rengong did not forget to praise his son-in-law and daughter-in-law while writing and teaching his children.
1918165438+17 October, three days before committing suicide, Liang Ji asked his son Liang Shuming, "Will the world be all right?" Liang Shuming, then a philosophy lecturer in Peking University, replied, "I believe the world is getting better every day." "It's good to be good!" Say and Liang Ji left home.
Liang Shuming tried to commit suicide twice, but in the end, China and life problems haunted him, and he kept thinking and actively left. Liang Shuming has two sons, Liang Peikuan and Liang Peishu, who are given the greatest freedom. Liang Peishu said in an interview: "We may have the freest education and the greatest autonomy that others do not have." This kind of education is also related to Liang Ji's "trust and letting go" of Liang Shuming. It can be said that this is also a kind of "China heirloom".
When Liang Peikuan recalled Liang Shuming, he often mentioned an exam. At that time, Liang Peikuan got 59 points in the exam. He showed his father the notice that the school asked for a make-up exam. "He only took one look and gave it back to me." Liang Peikuan said that he later understood his father's intention. "I am responsible for my own affairs."
Compared with the classroom results, Liang Shuming is more concerned with teaching people to live a social life and "the education of life itself"
Hu Shi and his wife Jiang Dongxiu have three children. The daughter died at the age of five, and the eldest son Hu Zuwang and the youngest son Hu Sidu surrounded Jiang Dongxiu. Hu Shi is too busy with official business to take care of. Although Jiang Dongxiu was born into an official family, he only studied in a private school for a few years, and he likes playing cards. For children's discipline, he devoted less energy and blamed more, and the effect was not very good.
In the aspect of family education, although Hu Shi advocated "independence, sociability and emphasis on learning", he was also suspected of not knowing how to love children. 1929, Hu Shi wrote a letter to Hu Zuwang, hoping to cultivate him to live an independent, gregarious and hardworking life. The letter said, "What is that?" Class one should catch up with the top row of class one and school one should catch up with the top row of school one. Homework should be the best, conduct should be the best, and life should be the best. This is the ambitious child. "At this time, Hu Zuwang was ten years old and left his parents to go to school alone. With such high expectations for his father, I'm afraid he will only feel "at a loss". The following year, Hu Shi was disappointed and received a report of "poor grades" from the school. He said angrily, "Your grades have eight' 4s', which is the worst grade. Aren't you ashamed? Look at this watch yourself. "
Finally, although Hu Zuwang went to college, he fell far short of Hu Shi's expectations. Hu Sidu studied in two universities and didn't graduate, but he got into many bad habits. In his later years, Hu Shi said to his secretary: "To marry a wife, you must have a higher education; A wife with a high degree of education has shortcomings in other aspects, but she will certainly manage her children well and educate them well. The mother is patient and the child is not bad at teaching; If the child can't teach well, it is an impatient relationship for the mother. " It can be said that language is painful and meaningful.
Hu Shi also reflected on himself in his letter to Jiang Dongxiu: "I really don't deserve to be Lao Tzu. I don't make out with them at ordinary times, but I blame them for their poor homework and bad habits. Joe wants you to give it to me, don't scold him, and be friends with him. "
Feng Zikai has seven children. He believes that childhood is the golden age of life and strongly opposes the cultivation of children into "little adults."
In life, Feng Zikai called going out to do things "boring". When he was with the children, he was full of joy, holding the children, feeding them, singing and teasing them, drawing and making them laugh, and being very close to them. On one occasion, Zhan Zhan, the eldest son, asked Feng Zikai to carry him to the station to buy bananas, "grabbing hands all over the floor before coming back". When he got home, he fell asleep on his father's shoulder, and the banana in his hand had long since disappeared. Feng Zikai sighed in the article "For My Children": "What admirable truth, nature and enthusiasm! The so-called virtues of silence, implication and profundity in the world are unnatural, morbid and false compared with you! "
In addition to letting children grow up freely in the air of love, Feng Zikai also attaches importance to cultivating children's independent spirit. 1947, he entered the age of knowing his destiny and made an agreement with his children. The most important thing is "independence". One of them wrote: "Children live independently after graduating from college, and they have no obligation to support their parents, and parents have no obligation to support their children." At the same time, children should be separated from their parents after independence. "People who live together by mutual consent are neighbors, not obligations."
When I was a child, my father often taught me to do things instead of abuse, and to learn to extract the essence from the rough. But for a child who has not yet entered school, it is obviously beyond his ability to digest and absorb this theory of "being tall". Until one day, he took me into a field.
This is a pepper field. Due to the dry weather, pepper seedlings are sparse and deeply hidden in weeds. Without careful observation, I thought it was a grassland. Father said that if these weeds are not cleared, it will not only rob the nutrition of pepper seedlings, make the seedlings grow slowly, but also affect the year-end harvest. In the next year, weeds will still grow wildly because a large number of grass seeds are buried deep in the soil, which requires great trouble. My father taught me to pull up weeds and warned me to pull them up by the roots, otherwise weeds would grow again when it rains in summer. Later, when I passed a "unique" cornfield, I couldn't help but stop and watch by the ridge. The sight in front of me suddenly surprised me. The corn in the neighboring area is thick and handsome, but the corn in this field is more than a foot high, and the scattered corn seedlings begin to turn yellow, just like the weather-beaten old man, which is close to the day when the lights run out of oil. However, before they grow up, they will die, which makes people feel sad. They want to save them, but they feel powerless. I don't understand this. Since the soil of the two plots is very good, why do the crops grow so differently? When I came back to ask my father, I realized that it was because the owner of this land was lazy and didn't weed, loosen the soil and fertilize, so it was not surprising that the growth was not good. From then on, I seem to understand the meaning of getting the essence from the rough.
Today, with the gradual increase of anti-corruption efforts and the increasing purity of cadres, those office workers who are corrupt, unhealthy in style, lack of motivation and perfunctory have gradually grown into "weeds" around the masses. If it is not removed in time and allowed to grow and spread, it will inevitably split the flesh-and-blood ties between the party and the people and shake the party's ruling position and the people's confidence in development.
Since the Party's meeting, the CPC Central Committee with the General Secretary at the core has always been committed to fighting corruption, promptly eliminated a number of black sheep, and broke the "hidden rule" that "punishment is not a doctor". According to the website of Bijie Municipal Government, since the implementation of the "alternating inspection and interview system of discipline and style" in Bijie City, more than 65,438 clues about "four winds" have been found, more than 500 problems have been verified and notified, 278 problems have been investigated and dealt with, 335 people have been dealt with,165,438 people have been given disciplinary sanctions, and 65,438 disciplinary funds have been collected. These real cases fully show that the anti-corruption struggle is serious and uncapped, which has a great deterrent effect and further purifies the atmosphere of cadres.
However, anti-corruption work has a long way to go, especially in rural grassroots, and it is even more difficult for the masses to safeguard their rights. Not to mention that it takes a lot of efforts to fully exercise the supervisory power of criticism, suggestion and accusation and safeguard their legitimate rights and interests. Therefore, the key to anti-corruption work lies in the effective supervision and restriction of power. In addition to constantly improving the power supervision system, it is necessary to strengthen the supervision of the party and the government. More importantly, it is necessary to give full play to the social supervision role of the masses and the media, reduce the space for rent-seeking power to zero, and tighten the system cage with a few tightropes in Dozza to prevent the once powerful power from being "released from prison" again.
The development goal of our city is to achieve a well-off society in synchronization with the whole province by 2020, and to achieve the goal of a well-off society in synchronization smoothly. We must resolutely win this tough battle against poverty with tight time and heavy tasks. In order to ensure the effectiveness of poverty alleviation work, our city has set up a special poverty alleviation line, which is another effective attempt to play the role of social supervision. As long as the willful hand of power is stretched out, it will inevitably be severely beaten back. Looking at the previous poverty alleviation model, we just blindly "topdressing" and neglected the efficiency of "fertilization", which led to the "nutrition" that should belong to the poor people being robbed by some "weeds", and the people did not really get benefits, which led to a great discount on the effectiveness of poverty alleviation.
Vigorously promoting the spirit of literature is not only the need of economic development, but also the need of the progress of the times. Comrade Wen, an outstanding cadre of the Party and a good party branch secretary of the masses, devoted his whole life to changing the ecological environment and the poverty situation of the masses in the puffin village, leading the puffin villagers to constantly turn barren hills into green spaces, giving the puffin village a blue sky and clear water, and building a road to prosperity for the poor and backward puffin village, which is similar to those lunatics who embezzle and misappropriate people's "life-saving money", often robbing people of "relief food" and making people "malnourished" for a long time.
Even with this fertilizer, we still need to topdressing in time and effectively, weeding carefully and patiently, weeding first and then fertilizing, so that seedlings can grow sturdily, crop yield can be improved, and people's quality of life can be improved, so as to realize the Bijie Chinese dream of "accelerating transformation, promoting leap-forward and synchronizing well-off" in Bijie Experimental Area.
Who can tell me how many great women there are on the earth, a drop in the galaxy? Who can tell me, our 9.65 million square kilometers of land, in the bustling city, in the stormy island, where there are no female footprints and laughter? Who can tell me, the family is harmonious and happy, neat and warm, how can there be no sweat and hard work spilled by women?
Women's feelings are rich, gentle and delicate, and they have built a warm spiritual home for each member and cared for the physical and mental health of their families. Faced with the scourge of "pornography, gambling, drugs and evil", many female compatriots bravely took up legal weapons, moved them with emotion and reason, and pulled their misguided families out of the deep swamp; When the powerful people who were carried away by money and beauty were preparing to extend the black hand of corruption, the "gang leaders" won justice, sounded the alarm, built a defense line, became "supervisors" and "goalkeepers", and saved those "souls" who were on the verge of degeneration ... Women beautified the home environment, improved their cultural taste and purified their families with the heart of truth, goodness and beauty.
Zhu Hongyan, the wife of Kuang Guanghua, deputy head of Anyuan County, Jiangxi Province, is one of the "Top Ten" incorruptible wives. She always remembers the old adage of "honesty and health" and always helps her husband to be honest and self-disciplined. In 20XX, a distant relative came to my hometown to thank the county magistrate for sending 200,000 yuan. When Zhu Hongyan knew this, he urged her husband to return the money to others, but after he promised, he still put the bag containing the money in the desk drawer, and often sat in front of the desk with the bag in his hand and full of worries. Zhu Hongyan knew that because his father was diagnosed with terminal lung cancer, he needed drugs for the first stage of treatment, and the money was like a lifeline. Do you want it or not? When her husband hesitated, Zhu Hongyan offered his own idea: this 200,000 yuan must be returned. As for medical expenses, they will use their savings for many years to solve them, and then borrow them from relatives and friends. But on the seventh day after the operation, Zhu Hongyan's father refused to take medicine and injections, insisted on leaving the hospital, and even opposed chemotherapy. When his daughter cried and begged him for another treatment, he reached out his bony hand and grabbed her sleeve and said, "Stop fooling around, son. I understand what this disease is. You have done your best. " Zhu Hongyan ran out of the ward sadly and secretly shed tears. At this time, her husband stood behind him and whispered, "I'm sorry." I made you lose your filial piety. If the money is not returned, your father will be saved. " But Zhu Hongyan said firmly, "You can't take that money." Two months later, Zhu Hongyan's father died of a serious illness. It is painful for her to lose her loved ones, but she can feel at ease without taking ill-gotten gains.
A clean family style is the foundation of family prosperity. If "domestic workers" always remember that they are the spouses of leading cadres and support their husbands' work in a subtle way, they can create a good family style of "being proud of honesty and ashamed of greed" and build a happy family. At present, the corruption of some corrupt elements has both personal reasons and the role of "greed to help others". For example, Xue Yuquan, former director of Shandong Gold Industry Bureau, has asked for and accepted money and goods from 83 units and individuals for 248 times, with a total value of 2.06 million yuan, of which one third was accepted by his wife. His wife also publicly said to people: "I don't recognize anything else, I recognize money." It can be seen what role Xue Yuquan played on the road of crime. Zhang Yafei, the wife of Ma Xiangdong, former member of the Standing Committee of Shenyang Municipal Committee and executive deputy mayor of Liaoning Province, flew to Hong Kong and Southeast Asia several times after the "accident" in Ma Xiangdong, transferred stolen money, and entered into an offensive and defensive alliance with relevant foreign businessmen. At the same time, she found a reporter from a major newspaper to write "internal reference" and "explain the situation" to the central government. She also spent a lot of money to find someone to "manage" in Beijing many times. She bribed the prison guards, and directly telephoned Ma Xiangdong three times to report the progress of her activities. Finally, Ma Xiangdong was sentenced to death and his wife was investigated for criminal responsibility. If they can always be vigilant, often blow the "integrity wind", manage the "integrity account" at home, and remind their families in time to "go to work honestly and go home with clean hands", will it eventually lead to a tragic ending?
"Living with good people is like entering Lan Zhi's room and not smelling it for a long time; Living with the wicked is like entering an abalone restaurant and not smelling it for a long time. " Being in the same room, a good woman is like Lan Zhi. She has been in Mika for a long time. The influence of "honestly helping your wife" on your husband can be seen. Fortunately, at present, China's reform and opening up has ushered in a golden age full of vigor and vitality. A large number of "good wives", "good mothers" and "good daughters-in-law", as well as "good police sisters-in-law" and "honest help" stand out, carry forward the tradition, keep pace with the times, interpret the rich connotations of these honorary titles, and make them "women".
Goethe, a great writer, has a classic poem: eternal women lead us upward. Female compatriots! In the new century, let's vigorously create a clean family style and make our home more warm and beautiful. We believe that modern women will lead our home towards harmony and happiness!
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