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The tense university dormitory relationship scares me. Even if I am not a contradictory party, the stiff and cold atmosphere is still very uncomfortable. What should I do?
There are six people in our dormitory from four provinces. In fact, there have always been contradictions. During the cold war, two students in the dormitory hated one. Now, those two people will talk with a smile, but there will still be close friends behind them who say that the other is not good. In fact, the university is really not that pure. Now I feel that the dormitory atmosphere is very harmonious. Especially when other students in the class looked at our dormitory, they all felt very good. Our relationship was super good. In fact, most of the time it's superficial, and I'm sure I can get by on my face ~ ~ I'm a very peaceful person, and I don't have much contradiction with anyone, but there must be many minor problems in the details, but I don't pay attention to them. When I am really bored, I will tell my best friend (my primary school classmate) about it, and then I will be fine. I am an optimist.

I don't think you need to worry too much about this relationship. Actually, your role now is very good. Never stand on the side of contradictions and conflicts. Try to be on the side of the majority. Neutral is neutral, cold is cold. It doesn't matter. I don't like staying in the dormitory if the library must go more. We always like to fight in the dormitory, and we can't learn at all. I prefer a quiet environment. I will go back to the library or study room whenever I have time. Go back to the dormitory and do your own thing, but if someone wants to chat with you in the dormitory, try to be friendly. How can I put it? University is very different from before. It's enough to have a few real friends, and others have a good relationship. You see, in six provinces, there will never be too many opportunities to meet after graduation. Universities will learn by themselves, not adjust from their own perspective. This mediator will be very bad and deal with others a little.

Therefore, I have always been the best and closest girlfriend who can say anything except my primary school classmates. Friendship at that time was the most real. Even if there is a contradiction, it is not a contradiction in principle. Quarrel today and play together tomorrow. Although they are now distributed in several parts of the country, their friendship is still increasing ~ ~ to hell with the thorny and annoying relationship in the dormitory.

Just be yourself and mind your own business ~ ~