Hello! Today, I opened the school website of my alma mater and saw that the new semester had begun. Freshmen come to school one after another to report for duty, and it is very touching to think that they are no longer one of them. I have a lot to say when I think of myself four years ago. I'd like to take this opportunity to nag your freshman, hoping you can understand something from it! ! Listen carefully to what someone who has experienced!

First of all, congratulations on your struggle for more than ten years, and finally your college dream has come true! Maybe before you enter the university, you may have heard others say that college students are of low quality and can't learn anything at present, so it is better not to go to college and it is difficult for them to find jobs. This is a negative message. What happened to this society? Is it abnormal? We have struggled for more than ten years to go to a worthless university? Be a high diploma that society hates, moron? These problems are realistic and exist, but we don't need to avoid them. On the contrary, we should face them positively and recognize them. This is also a problem that all college students in China have faced, are facing and will face soon! )

Brothers and sisters of freshmen, you have entered the university. First, ask yourself a few questions: "Why do you want to go to college?" "How should I spend my college years?" "What kind of report cards will I give my parents, relatives and friends in four years?" "Can you fulfill your life wishes?" Wait a minute. These questions, you will feel nothing now. Why should I go to college? Do you need someone to tell you what to do? Actually, you are wrong. I can tell you now: you graduated from the senior year, and these problems may not be fully understood. Although you understand it, I think you will miss something, because many problems can't be kept, and you won't know the truth until you pass it. What did you learn in your youth? What you really understand is the day of graduation. Looking back a few years later, you will be left with more or less emptiness, boredom, regret, regret and so on.

As an experienced person, I think it is necessary to go to college at first. It is also the greatest blessing in your life to have the opportunity to go to college! Because this is the most important stage of your life wisdom accumulation. Don't think that four years of college leave you with boredom, emptiness and regret! In that case, I think your college is really a failure! Because you not only didn't understand the university, but also delayed your youth for several years. In fact, the university has given us too many opportunities, too many opportunities, too much time and too many choices. These are all very precious wealth in life! ! The main thing is to catch it or not. Grasping it is "dragon and talent". Lost is a "worm fool". Before this result, we must first make a good choice. What kind of process you choose, in fact, there will be results. Remember not to take any chances. This is a no-no! If everything is a fluke, there will be no truth. Even if you get temporary benefits, I think you lose more in other ways! ! Be sure to understand what "causality" is.

I often ask myself, "If I want to live a college life, what will I plan?" ? How to spend it? "In fact, there is no need to ask such a question. Such a question is actually regretting that I have lost a lot of things, which is unnecessary! I hope my brothers and sisters can master the university for a few years, learn to choose, learn to be human, learn to think and learn to do things. Dare to do what you want, dare to try what you want (including the pursuit of your love), without any consideration. Only when you have experienced it, will you have the most authentic experience, so feeling your experience is the most important thing for you! ! I remember thinking about taking the postgraduate entrance examination, taking an examination of civil servants, going to the army for experience, and so on. But in the end, I made the road that suits me best.

Next, I want to talk about the relationship between doing practical activities (such as being a student union cadre, participating in community organizations, taking part-time jobs in society, internship, etc.) during school. ) and study! First of all, remember one thing: no matter how comfortable and powerful you are in the student union organization; How much extra money you earn part-time, and so on. Failure to improve your academic performance is failure! "Being a qualified college student is the most basic and the most important capital for you to compete in society after graduation. Some people may say that everyone has his own ideas and there is no need to be so rigid in what he does. Actually, you are wrong. You do things without certain knowledge and accumulated ideas, which must be a lack of standards. For some students attending school, it is necessary to organize exercise after finishing their studies and get some exercise. However, this exercise is an exercise for your birth, an exercise for your life, an exercise for you to communicate with someone, not to get anything, but to give yourself a platform and do things by hook or by crook. Now that I have graduated, my biggest experience is that as long as you are sincere and frank and have great potential (average ability), you can be reused. Much better than those flashy things. This is the most real thing! -Remember! Remember: grades are always the best way to please others and win their respect.

That is, the problem of falling in love at school: I don't think this fate can be forced. Falling in love at school is different from after graduation. There are no substantive problems and no pressure. It seems that some of them are so natural and so "happy". But please remember a few things: if falling in love delays your study, please don't talk about it; Please don't talk about falling in love in order to get many things; If falling in love is for your happy life in the future, I suggest you talk about it, really! ! This is very rare! Worth cherishing! ! Don't delay your study for falling in love, but talk for a moment of loneliness! Remember that we are together for the sake of mutual progress, mutual appreciation and mutual respect. If this is the premise, you must be a happy couple forever. Not that you can't fall in love during college. Bottom line: What are you in love for? )

That is, the confusion of finding a job after graduation. Now I solemnly tell you that education does not mean how strong your ability is. Non-famous brand, non-key university graduates, or junior college students are not bad at all. If the school can't give you anything, you blame others and the streets there. In fact, that is shirking responsibility, which is a sign of ignorance. It's your own problem that your grades are not good. Not all talents are trained by universities, and quite a few are inferior. As long as you run your university with your heart, you will certainly get the knowledge you want and you will naturally get a good job after graduation. What kind of job to find depends on connections, and things must be done well with money. Actually, it's not necessary No matter how evil and cruel this society is, truth, goodness and beauty will always be the mainstream, as long as you have this ability. ! No matter how unpredictable this society is, we must learn to have awe of "truth, goodness and beauty"! Only in this way can you see the problem clearly, solve it more rationally and not be confused by the external environment!

I just graduated, and I came to work in Qingdao. My work unit is not very good. It is a Sino-German joint venture, and our department has recruited 8 people, 5 of whom graduated from the so-called "prestigious schools" (I am one of the top ten famous brands, and there are two graduate students). Only I am from two schools, but I don't feel my ability. I am worse than them and feel much better than them, so is the natural treatment. (just joined:)! Remember! ! This is what my brother said. Please remember to plan your college life for several years. Don't leave it behind, or leave less regrets for yourself! Sincerely make like-minded friends all over the world. Myself QQ: 42796390) A disciple's heartfelt motto.

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