Yu's comments on his speech 1 I like his words very much: do things like mountains, be like water.
Work like a mountain. If you have a goal in front of you, which is very important to your life and your progress, then we must pursue it unswervingly, that is to say, we can't change it casually, we can't move it casually, we can be as strong as a mountain, and we should be as fluid and changeable as water. Water can be bypassed when it meets an obstacle. It flows downwards. Then you will be bigger and bigger, you will hold more and more things, and finally you will become more spacious, that is, you will hold more social things and purify yourself in it, which in turn can provide more clean water for the society.
His definition of success is worth thinking about and reasonable.
Success is the place where you set a goal, no matter how big or small it is, but in the end you still achieved that goal, and after you achieved that goal, you were happy for a moment. This is called success.
The first is that there is a target ahead. If you want to achieve that goal, you will succeed. This kind of success may bring you joy or satisfaction, but it may also bring you losses. Why? The so-called loss means no goal, and the so-called confusion means not knowing what to do.
Success is a process, so to succeed, you must do two things. The first is to achieve that goal, and the second is the process of moving towards that goal. No matter how you turn the corner, it is also successful, as long as you can always keep your eyes on that goal and go forward bravely.
The ups and downs of life are much like stocks.
Life is a lot like stock trading. You can make yourself a junk stock, a blue-chip stock or a startup stock.
A. Keep going downhill in the ups and downs, and finally go away. Actually, many of us are like this. We walk repeatedly in the middle of the stock market, and life has ups and downs, but in the end, we become old, less youth, less dreams, more dull, not only dull, but also mediocre.
B. Go flat. Relatively speaking, for example, our salary will increase a little every year, and our work will become more and more skilled every year. However, this state is that you have lived a lifetime and your life is still relatively stable. In the end, you may be able to buy a house, an inexpensive car, or a better and more expensive car, but when you look back all your life, you will have a smooth life, you will find that you have made some money all your life, and you will find out what your life is like. You didn't leave any thoughts for the world, you didn't help others except yourself, you didn't contribute to society, you didn't innovate and create, you didn't leave a book, such as your own writing, or you didn't leave a scientific research achievement. All you do is work for others, work and make money.
C. There are risks, but knowing that this stock is likely, possible and will eventually develop rapidly, there are two ways to know this stock. First, the company you buy shares has a very stable and long-term business goal, that is, when you think about its company and its goal, you are very excited, so you are very excited. The person who leads us to this goal is consistent with that goal, and it is definitely not a wretched or despicable person who is pursuing a lofty goal. Therefore, buying any stock depends on two things. The first is the company's strategic direction and market space, and the second is where the person who wants the strategic direction of this market space is, and that person is undoubtedly the strategic team.
There are many words that inspire your life. I hope you can take time to look at them. Maybe there is an idea that will be useful to you all your life.
I first admired Yu from my heart after reading Yu's speech at the opening ceremony of Peking University published in Speech and Eloquence magazine. There are two paragraphs that are still fresh in my memory.
"People often say that there are only two kinds of animals that can reach the top of the pyramid. One is the eagle, which flies with its own talent and wings. The other is a snail. It falls, gets up, falls and gets up again. As long as you climb to the top of the pyramid, the world you see in its eyes and its achievements are exactly the same as those of the eagle. "
"If we don't leave ourselves some crying days in our life, your life will be in vain."
One is a clever metaphor, and the other is an understanding of real life, which embodies the accumulation of life for more than many years. At that time, I took these two paragraphs as a guide to life and kept them firmly in mind. Teacher Yu, whom I met in the school gymnasium a few days ago, is already a world-famous social entrepreneur and successful person, but his speech is still permeated with an optimistic spirit of endless struggle for life.
"I do what others do in ten years for twenty years, what others do in twenty years for forty years, and what others do in forty years for a lifetime. I won't leave until I have sent everyone else away. "
As soon as the voice fell, applause broke out from the audience. The relaxed and humorous humor explains Yu's persistent perseverance and firm belief. Yes, as long as our life is long enough and we have enough perseverance, miracles will come at any time. When Jiang Taigong was 80 years old, he was fishing in a stream and happened to meet Zhou Wenwang. Qi Baishi has been painting for decades, and his youth and kung fu have matured. As he said, he didn't expect to go to Peking University. He didn't expect New Oriental to have today. He failed in the college entrance examination several times, but he was not discouraged. After graduating from college, his classmates went abroad in succession. He stayed in school to teach, remained silent for seven years and thought for seven years. At the beginning of resigning and starting a business, human capital was scarce and faced with many difficulties. He can go to today, relying on the spirit of never giving up and unremitting efforts.
I feel more deeply that Mr. Yu's experience itself is a rich book and a touching book worth reading. He condensed the trivial days of life into greatness through ambition. Besides his struggle experience, Mr. Yu's eloquence also left a deep impression on me. He is good at explaining his feelings with vivid metaphors.
"We should live like a continuous mountain range. Success is a mountain peak and failure is a valley. Our life course is constantly moving from the bottom of one mountain to the top of another. "
"There are two ways of life. The first way is to live like grass. Although you are alive and growing every year, you are still a grass. You absorbed rain and sunshine, but you didn't grow up. However, trees are different. Even if we are nothing now, as long as you have the seeds of trees, you can still absorb the nutrients from the soil and grow up. Every year, the grass is still grass, but the trees grow up. Approaching you can give people a piece of green. Living is a beautiful scenery, and dying is still a pillar.
Yu's comments on his speech II. I don't know when love in college turned into a love game, which doesn't make any sense. But if you like it, you have to be brave in pursuing it. There are often such students in universities. Seeing that the girl you like likes another boy, you repeatedly think that you are not qualified not to pursue it, and finally you become unrequited mental illness, but that girl doesn't know that you have become a mental illness for her. Think about it! Therefore, if you love someone, you must chase them bravely and bravely tell them that I love you at the right time! Once rejected, it is definitely not possible, and we must continue to pursue it. Yu said: ten times as the standard, chasing ten times is unsuccessful, and it can only be said that there is no fate. Because chasing too much, chasing has become a mental illness, and being chased has become a mental illness, which is not good. If you don't succeed, you should reflect on yourself and correct your shortcomings. Keep looking and see if there is anyone you like.
Students should be single-minded when falling in love. What is singleness? You can only love one in your life. What is it like to be in love, and how can you succeed? That's how love feels. My eyes are full of tears, because I love you enough. Love should be generous. What is generosity? Did I give my girlfriend to someone else? No, we are all in a university with thousands of people. Today we are with you, and tomorrow she will meet someone better than you. You can't help her to love someone who is better than you and has feelings than you. If the other person doesn't love you, even though you still love each other, please give up! Swallow the pain in your stomach and grow up gradually instead of saying you can't love others, and you can't stab others or yourself with a knife. Love cannot be betrayed. It's normal that others don't love you and you don't love others. Even if you are separated, bless them and bless them until they come together! Please believe that you will be loved when you come to this world. Maybe the person who loves you hasn't appeared yet. But she and he will show up at some point. The only thing you can do now is to go on seriously until you reach the person who will accompany you for life. Not in pain.
According to statistics, there are nearly 1,000 students in China who committed suicide because of failed love, with an average of one in each university. Sadly, these 1000 students lost their precious lives because of love. I am a person who loves life very much. I dare not step on an ant, because I am thinking, if I step on a male ant, what will the female ant do? I don't like fish very much, because I'm thinking, what should I do if I eat male fish? So I don't usually eat fish. I'll eat two if I want. Love in college often only pays attention to the process, not the result. Talk too much and talk too little. Yu said: More than a dozen couples in our class became three pairs, divided into two pairs in two days, and finally only one pair was left. Each of us has a growing process, and you may encounter financial difficulties like this and live without love. You may like all the girls in college, but no one likes you.
Now let me tell you the rest of my love story. A 25-year-old college student who has never been in love is completely abnormal mentally and physically. Therefore, Yu chased girls everywhere with his schoolbag on his back in college. Finally, he finally took a fancy to one, but she didn't know for three months, because Yu was always more than 200 meters away from her. This girl has an excellent feature, that is, she goes to the library of Peking University to read books every night. The girl reads books in it, but she is always more than 300 meters away from her when she is looking at her. This life lasted for three months, and it was really well-intentioned! (Hehe ... One day, God did him a favor. The fuse in the library has blown. Students should understand that it was not Yu who broke it, but it burned itself. After dark in the library, everyone left with their schoolbags, but the girl always couldn't find her schoolbag. At Peking University, Yu likes smoking and drinking, and his pockets are full of lighters. Lighters can finally come in handy. Then I helped her find her schoolbag and started chatting with her, only to find that she was in her own department. I think such an opportunity should not be missed. The next week, she went to the dormitory and knocked on her door. As soon as she came out, she couldn't see Yu, because she didn't see me clearly that night. Then I said, "I'm the one who lit the fire for you that night." Can you go boating? " Finally, she agreed. There is a park called Yuanmingyuan behind Peking University, and there is a lake called Living Sea in Yuanmingyuan, where the scenery is beautiful, the waters are vast and sparsely populated, which is a good starting point. There is no one around. I think it's up to her now, either promise me or push me to drown, you know, student. After two or three months, she thought Yu was a nice person and became his girlfriend. After graduation, she became his wife, and she is still his wife.
So students, people's road is all the way forward, growing up slowly, working hard slowly, rising slowly, and overcoming the difficulties and obstacles in life slowly. Just like a river flowing from its source to a small place, it begins to run all the way to the sea. Make your life more magnificent and meaningful. Make yourself more and more useful to yourself, others, family and society! Every student should have such a mind and such a strong heart! If we can do these four things, we will be worthy of three or four years in college! So students, people's road is all the way forward, growing up slowly, working hard slowly, rising slowly, and overcoming the difficulties and obstacles in life slowly. Just like a river flowing from its source to a small place, it begins to run all the way to the sea. Make your life more magnificent and meaningful. Make yourself more and more useful to yourself, others, family and society! Every student should have such a mind and such a strong heart! If we can do these four things, we will be worth spending three or four years in college.