Why do parents force their daughters to fill in the college entrance examination and choose universities in this province?
When Xiaoshui was in Fujian the year before last, he met the doorman of the community every time he went to the provincial library. His granddaughter scored about 580 points in the college entrance examination that year. According to this score, you can choose a very good university in Fujian Province at will. Xiamen University, a 985 university in Fujian Province, had a minimum admission score of only 562, so it was possible to sprint at that time. Fuzhou University is also a 2 1 1 university. Although Fujian Normal University is not a 2 1 1 university, it is also a well-known university in Fujian Province, and it is also very popular in the province after graduation.
So at that time, according to the idea of the girl's parents, I chose between Xiamen University and Fuzhou University. The first choice is Xiamen University, the second choice is Fuzhou University, and so on. However, girls don't think so. She has been entangled with her parents for a long time and wants to go to college in other places. Even if you are not in Beijing, you have to be in Shanghai, at least to see the outside world.
Parents believe that it doesn't matter how far a boy goes, he can experience it and let him grow; Moreover, girls are effeminate and their parents are not at ease. It is best to study in this province. Their example is that a colleague's daughter went to Jilin to go to college and was afraid to go out in winter. She wanted to come back before the winter vacation of her freshman year, and her hands and feet were particularly frozen, mainly because she was not used to life there and had no basic life experience. Being frozen is a tragedy.
The girl was indifferent and stubbornly chose a university in Beijing. At that time, the uncle outside the door mentioned this matter with a sad face, because as long as he was studying in a foreign university, he could not see his beloved granddaughter until the winter and summer vacations. As the girl's parents, they had a big fight with the girl at this time, but they compromised because they were eager to love their daughter. The compromise condition is that after she goes to college in other places, she must find a job in Fuzhou, or at least in this province.
Is it better to choose a university in or outside the province when filling in the college entrance examination? Is the choice given by parents correct?
There are thousands of colleges and universities in China. As long as you take the college entrance examination and achieve something, you will definitely find the university you want to study. Parents also have their own considerations about whether to choose a university in or outside the province for the college entrance examination, and candidates also have their own ideas. Especially for girls, it is not unreasonable for parents to worry about her.
Now that there are more only children, parents have devoted all their love to their daughters. Of course, they are afraid that their daughter will suffer from being far away from home. If you study in the province and stay close to home, you may not be able to come home at weekends. You can go to school when you miss your daughter. Parents also have a layer of worry, that is, if they find a partner in a foreign country and marry far away, it will be difficult to meet each other in this life. Of course, this is another story.
However, do parents have to make the right choice? Actually, it is not.
Xiaoshui suggested that parents communicate with their children more to see if it is suitable to study in other provinces or stay in this province. Give full consideration to your child's thoughts before making a decision. In particular, some candidates are too busy studying to take care of themselves. Num thinks they can choose a strange city, learn to live and learn to be independent.
Isn't it a life experience to study abroad? Stay in one place for four years, experience the local cultural scenery different from my hometown, and write a colorful stroke on my own life path. It will be a good thing to do something in your hometown and come back to protect your parents after your studies!