Many things in life are impossible, which are determined by our will and ability alone. Many times things happen like this, and you never seem ready, including the last thing in your life-death.
Harry, the little hero, died suddenly in a car accident. He didn't have time to say goodbye to anyone. Death, which he hardly thought about, should not be something he should face at a young age, especially when he happens to himself alone.
Before the car accident, my sister who quarreled with him every day had another big fight. The last sentence he left her was "If I die one day, you will regret it!" Harry really died in such an accident. Should he call himself a crow's mouth? Finally, I left such hurtful words for my sister, which made him feel guilty all the time. After his death, I can't let go, and I always think of this sentence from time to time.
In the story, everyone who dies will go to a sky-blue shore. I think this is actually the same as the "Naihe Bridge" in China. When you go there, all your memories will disappear and you will no longer be yourself (whether you can be reborn is another story). The premise of going to the other shore is that you have to let go of all your heartfelt concerns about the world, and you need to be willing to say goodbye to people who care from the heart (but you must understand that as long as you say this "goodbye", you will never see it again, at least in form. Even if they can't hear your voice anymore, you can at least put it down, put aside everything and bravely stride to the other side of the sky blue.
Little Harry in the article never got up the courage to walk to the other side (although blue was very attractive that day). He still has too much hope for his short life, and he doesn't want to say goodbye to his beloved good friends, classmates and family at all. Although he often makes his father angry, although he always quarrels with his sister.
So he made a decision-to go around the world to see what it would be like without his own school, and whether everyone was very sad. After he came to this world, he couldn't wait to go to the school where he was alive, the cinema he once loved, and the home where his body could never go back.
At the end of the story, he floated home and went to his sister's room. He found that the warning sign in front of his sister's house was missing (it was full of her dissatisfaction and warnings about Harry), and the walls in the room were covered with photos of Harry, including photos of him playing with his sister when he was a child, and photos of Harry alone. When he saw the picture of his sister touching him, it seemed that it was not a picture of chemical coating, but a life of flesh and blood. He was helpless and even collapsed. At this moment, he concentrated all his thoughts on the pencil in his sister's hand. As he wished, his sister's pen, driven by all his thoughts, drew many sentences about his sorry for his sister and his deepest love. At last Harry couldn't write it. He really had no strength. He knew that his sister knew his mind, so he also realized that it was time to leave, and it was time to put everything down and go to the other side.
When Harry flew to the other side of the blue sky, the story was over. These two paragraphs in the article left a deep impression on me. "Never wait for the sunset angrily. In other words, never go to bed with anger and hatred for someone, especially the one you love. (Because no one may wake up the next morning. It's true that anger can't solve the problem, it will never make us live better, it will only hurt our health and the people we love deeply. This reminds me of a sentence I have often seen in public recently: "You are the most beautiful when you are peaceful. "Maybe I am not peaceful enough (this is true), and I have always kept this sentence in my heart (I hope that I can treat everyone peacefully one day, especially my relatives and lovers). The best state of man is peace, and the best state of life is nothing but peace. I really hope I can keep these words in mind, give myself more time when I want to be angry, and don't always hurt each other because of impulse.
Another sentence is, "if you have said goodbye, everything will not be too bad." You will feel that everything can be handled and everything can be solved. " This reminds me of a picture book I read recently, Grandpa Becomes a Ghost. The theme of this picture book is also "Goodbye". Grandpa died, but he has been dreaming of his grandson, and he is reluctant to leave the people he cares about. In the dream, he and his grandson recalled their happy times in the past, but in any case, grandpa still couldn't remember the most memorable thing, so he stayed here all the time (the sadness, sadness, happiness and happiness we had spent together were not the most important at this time, but the most memorable). Finally, at the end of the story, grandpa remembered the most important thing, which is what he should do most, and that is to say "goodbye" to his favorite relatives (grandchildren, etc.). ). Once this goodbye is said, it means that he put down the fetters of the world and bravely went to another world. I think the grandfather in the picture book was reborn as Harry in this book.
To sum up this book with five key words, I will say "The other shore, love, death, farewell, rebirth". We are doomed to death from the day we were born, and we are running towards death every day, and no one can avoid it. But please believe that death may also be another way to continue life (rebirth). (self-deception? )
Finally, I want to say that the ending of this book is beautiful (especially the children's books here), but life is not always like this. We didn't have the chance to return to this world like Harry, let alone say sorry to those who were hurt in the past after death. But we are also lucky, (yes, there is always a "but", and it is not necessarily disgusting. We read this book one day in order to reflect on and save ourselves from all inappropriate behaviors in the past (for example, we often show our bad side to our closest and favorite people &; Get angry easily and swear &; Ungrateful, take everything for granted, just like casually treating daily gifts-rainy days and so on. )
Then please learn to embrace yourself, live with your heart, and believe in rebirth (I have lost my loved ones, and I believe in what I once denied more and more). About life, about life, everyone has his own answer, and everyone has endless words and stories. If I use plain words to express what I hope I can do from now on, that is: fight less and care more; Complain less and cherish more. Live hard, affirm my own value, cherish the company of others, and hope that life can give me unexpected experiences and gains.
Just be brave ~