1. Learn to grow by yourself
Author, He Yunfeng, Dr. Peking University, Dean of Dacong Education Research Institute. This is a book about growth, telling people that your life is up to you, and no one can grow for you.
It involves seven inevitable problems in the process of teenagers' growth: self-problem, study problem, emotional problem, behavior problem, interpersonal problem, emotional problem and target career planning. This is a self-help manual for teenagers tailored by Dr. Peking University and Mr. Feng Yun. There is no attitude of seniority, no stereotyped preaching, a completely equal and sincere attitude, full of humor.
If some words in the book touched you and some words in reading inspired you, then these are just the beginning. The most important thing is that you should apply this knowledge to your life. No matter how good the method is, it needs to be realized. Learn a little every day, change a little every day and stick to it. After one year, the change is beyond your imagination! I believe that in this book, you can find ways to solve problems and help you have a beautiful and challenging adolescence.
2. Seven habits of excellent teenagers
The strength of the United States begins with cultivating excellent and efficient teenagers. This book is an intensive training program, which has the greatest influence among American teenagers, and it directly affects the quality of American teenagers.
This book is full of clever ideas, great aphorisms and amazing life experiences. It is an indispensable good book for young people. This book is also a must-read for parents, teachers and any adult who can influence teenagers. When it comes to teenagers' adaptation and success, this book is the most important one in America.
Who are you reading for?
This book educates and entertains through novels and letters, and shapes five teenagers with different personality characteristics. They encounter many difficulties and interesting stories in their study and life, and their personality defects are fully displayed. Under the guidance of "favorite", they experienced a painful process of self-transformation, and finally achieved "the best self"-trying to overcome their own personality defects, giving full play to their strengths and becoming the best self.
4. Standing on Peking University
In recent years, the author has been studying and writing in Peking University, writing his own mental journey and traces of struggle, and becoming an inspirational model for the bottom people. From the "inspirational brother of Peking University", we know what the real "knowledge changes fate" is, because he explains another possible mode that little people can't become talents. He is a vivid grassroots legend.
5. "What to study in college" —— 26 suggestions from a post-80s chairman to college students.
This book has been the best-selling guide book for college students in China, and has been reprinted for more than 50 times, which has greatly helped at least 3 million college students in their study and employment.
Now, this book has been completely rewritten from beginning to end, and it is divided into two volumes with 26 topics (Volume I 12 and Volume II 14). As a successful entrepreneur and a folk observer of higher education in China, the author wrote this book, combining his own experience and thinking of studying, applying for a job and starting a business, and comprehensively discussed 26 important topics related to college life.
In the first volume, the book not only discusses the topics of "what to study in university" and "methods and paths of career planning" in the old version more deeply and rigorously, but also increases the civic awareness, language ability and the road to university for the civilian class. Each topic is accompanied by correspondence between the author and the reader, which answers questions that are of general interest to college students but not elaborated in the article, such as how to treat double degrees and whether to be a student cadre.
6. My little sadness
With the growth of age, children's life field gradually expands from family to school, and the emotional problems they encounter are becoming more and more complicated. I am afraid of going to school because I quarrel with my good friends; Seeing my parents quarreling, I guess it must be my own fault. Without proper communication, children's hearts and emotions are easily hurt unnecessarily.
Starting from the common troubles in life, including inferiority in appearance and quarreling with friends, it gradually expanded to the discussion of parent-child relationship: what should children do when parents let their children's expectations fail, or adults quarrel or divorce? Just like every family's essential medical care package, My Little Sadness, a series of 8 books, is a kind of emotional health care book for children, taking good care of their little sadness in the process of growing up.
Topics include: self-development, peer relationship, parent-child relationship, life problems, etc. The title of the eight volumes is: ① Dad is always away ② Mom is ill ③ Strange Ninon ④ Unfair ⑤ You are no longer my friend ⑤ My dog died ⑤ It's really not my fault! I have two families. "
7. "38 letters Rockefeller left his son"
He is the first billionaire on earth and the richest American in human history. He is the earliest oil tycoon in the world. He once monopolized the American oil industry through magnificent merger and expansion, and was called the "oil king" by the world. He is an unprecedented business giant and a "man who knows God's secrets". There's an old saying in China that "you can't be rich for three generations", and the Rockefeller family showed no signs of decline for six generations. What made this legend? He has such great wealth and such a long and rich life. What will he choose to share with all the present and future generations in this world?
8. Talk to God
Dialogue with God was published in the United States on 1995. At first, the publishing house didn't do any publicity, so the sales volume didn't improve; But almost every reader who has read this book will feel extremely shocked and recommend it to people around him. With good reputation, Dialogue with God reached the most authoritative The New York Times bestseller list in the United States before Christmas 1996, and stayed on the list for 137 weeks. Up to now, Dialogue with God has been translated into 37 languages around the world, and sold120,000 copies, making it one of the best-selling books after World War II.
This book appears in the form of a dialogue between "I" and a fictional "God". Walsh skillfully arranged for "I" to ask many puzzling questions and answer them through "God". In the book, the author puts forward various feelings about life and teaches readers how to treat life correctly.
Ideas, such as love and fear, are the fundamental starting point of all human behaviors. Life is not a process of discovery, but a process of creation. Pain is the result of wrong thoughts. This experience is created by yourself, and so on. In this book, Walsh tells his understanding of theology, philosophy and psychology with irrefutable logic and easy-to-understand writing, which is very enlightening and instructive to readers.
9. Best gift for boys at West Point Military Academy
West Point Military Academy is the most influential military academy in the world. Its influence lies not in the battlefield, but in the fact that it has produced many politicians and entrepreneurs. How to do this, of course, is directly and closely related to its motto.
This book introduces and romanticizes the motto of West Point Military Academy from seven aspects. Strong and brave will, the principle of responsibility and honor, prudent wisdom, tolerant and modest demeanor, team spirit, hard-working attitude, lofty aspirations, plus many small cases of successful people, are presented to young people, especially boys, as seven gift packages to help them become a leading lion, a real hero, a little gentleman in the eyes of others, a real man and a pride in the eyes of parents.
The author of this book, Yang Lijun, is an expert in the field of management and success. This book is another masterpiece of the author after the best-selling classic law of West Point Military Academy, Building Great Team Spirit and the Power of Unconditional Execution.
10. Growth is more important than success.
"Growth" is a topic related to education, talents and even the whole society. This book is about the growth of a group of the best people in China. They don't have smarter brains than us, and their education system is no different from ours. So, why did they become different from us?
The growth stories of 30 "Microsoft boys" prove a truth; All geniuses are educated. The most important thing is not to "beat others", but to "be your best self". The author summarizes those students who can become E students: enjoyment (happy learning), emotional intelligence (emotional intelligence is more important than IQ) and Excellence.