1, the power of dad
Stephen? Porter was translated by Gao Wenhui.
This is Stephen, the authoritative American parent-child relationship expert? Porter's comprehensive interpretation of the influence of fatherly love reveals to us the close relationship between children and fathers in the future in three major fields: occupation, individual and money. The author points out that many of our problems in the workplace come from our father's parenting style. Fathers have far greater influence on children's career choices and work habits than mothers. What career children choose in the future, their future performance in the workplace, and their confidence in work and life are all closely related to their fathers.
Dr. poulter explained to us five basic parenting styles, including what people want most? What kind of tutor? Father, what can't you avoid? Demanding grades, time bombs, passive silence? And then what? Absence type? Father. The same father usually shows many styles. However, every father obviously tends to a certain type. As Dr. poulter said, these types of influences. Throughout the ages, consistent and continuous? .
This book helps you understand? Dad's power? Establish your own parenting style. A comprehensive understanding of father's role can not only bridge the emotional gap between father and son, but also turn his influence into happiness in his career and life and find his own way to success.
2. "Dad, where are we going? 》
Jane. Louis? Translated by Li Xin and Fornier.
This is not a funny book, but it makes people laugh everywhere.
This is not a sad book, but it makes people want to cry.
This is not an inspirational book, but it is full of life power.
Some people say that giving birth to a disabled child is an end of the world, and he has met it twice!
Is he Jane? Louis? Fornier has a high reputation in French literary and art circles and TV circles, but behind his aura are two disabled children whom he has avoided talking about for many years. Today, 40 years later, he decided to give this book to his children to express his apologies and love that he never said before.
However, Fornier told her story in a humorous tone different from that of other parents of disabled children, and even played a joke with her son easily. He said he didn't want the reader to cry, he just wanted to bring laughter, but such a light narrative accurately described his painful struggle as a father.
Compared with many sad stories about life, dad, where are we going? Broke our view of sadness. Fornier chose to ridicule his experience frankly, as he said:? Humor is the best weapon to deal with pain! ? We can overcome the pain and predicament of life in another way without tears!
Step 3 get ready: a practical guide for new dads
Gary. Greenberg, Jenny? Hayden
"Preparation: A Practical Guide for New Fathers" is an essential survival manual for entering the Dad League. The techniques and tricks taught by the author are very practical. They teach a new father to be a qualified father: prepare digital equipment to record the baby's birth, master the skills of choosing a stroller, develop the baby's various skills, take the baby to a hotel for a holiday and experience life, and take the baby for an outing.
This book is full of interesting pictures and detailed explanations, and the author's sense of humor can give the most important guidance to the new father who is sleep-deprived and drowned in jam.
4. untouchable love
Nathaniel. Translated by Rushmore Liu Jing.
Contactless Love: A Journey of Father's Struggle with Madness depicts a portrait of a crazy father. His writing is full of sympathy and frankness, which provides humanistic and emotional care for schizophrenia from the literary point of view. It is an emotional work that can give people great comfort.
1995 65438+ 10, the 25-year-old author suddenly received a notice from the police that his father, who had been divorced from his mother for many years, died of heart disease and loneliness in a dilapidated apartment.
After his father died, Rushmeyer decided to embark on a journey to explore his father's inner madness and loneliness. Holding the short messages sent by his father, he followed limited clues and shuttled through the towns where his father had been, looking for people who had contacted and talked with his father. Gradually, my father's inner world, which has been full of doubts and ambiguity during his growth, was slowly pieced together. The author recorded his father's lifelong yearning for eternal truths such as love, kindness and justice, and his struggling mood of despair and fear. He hoped to express the redemption of his lost father's love through these touching words, truly expose the inner world of mental patients and tramps, and let the world understand and sympathize with those who need care.
5. "Dad actually loves me."
As small as a bamboo
Does dad love me or not?
After 30 years of hard questioning, she finally realized with tears that her father had died for three years.
This is a real book, and all the contents in the book come from the author's real memories.
? Me? Introverted from an early age, he was separated from his father at an early age, and his emotional desire for his father was alienated. When his sister was born, his father loved his sister more than he loved him? Me? Cause me pain for many years? Dad doesn't love me anymore? And pain. Until my father died, many warm and sweet memories poured in. With the gradual deepening of my life experience, I learned more and more about my father and finally realized and felt his love. My father actually loves me very much.
6. "80 letters from fathers to their daughters in prison"
Li ao
Mr. Li Ao, a famous writer in Taiwan Province Province, is one of the most influential figures in the literary world at home and abroad. His rigorous scholarship, familiarity with Chinese and western literature, rich and colorful writings, unique works, bold and graceful, humorous and witty, have attracted the attention of readers at home and abroad.
These letters from prison are full of knowledge and interest, showing the great father's greatest kindness and care for his daughter. Although these letters can be regarded as some exceptions in the pattern. I have felt the love between father and daughter all my life, and the book of troubles will certainly laugh at Sven.
7. Dad loves Xihe River
Author: Cai Chunzhu
When Cai Chunzhu posted a letter to my son on his blog, almost overnight, the letter was viewed hundreds of thousands of times, and was forwarded and commented on tens of thousands of articles. What about Cai Xiao? Dad loves Xihe? The famous Weibo fans also increased by 10 times in a short time. After his son Xihe was diagnosed as? Autism? Later, in Weibo, Cai Xiao carefully avoided the whirlpool of tragedy with humorous language and dramatic details, and showed his optimism and love for life with tears in his smile.
The text of this book is divided into two parts. Hero phrase? Father's article? It contains Cai Xiao's feelings after learning that his son has autism, especially the change from unacceptable reality to brave commitment; ? A father's guess? Xihe article? It is unique to simulate the language of my son Xihe in the form of keywords to see relatives, family and the world, which makes people laugh and reflects the special relationship of special families.
This book is prefaced by Liu Yiwei and inscribed by Cai Ming. Cui Yongyuan specially wrote a letter to Xihe, which Zhou moved to recommend.
8. The Book of Harmony
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This book contains 6 1 letters to sons, including the relationship between men and women, first love, don't blush with shame, why love should be loyal, Engels' paradox of love, sex and love, who is greater, maternal love or fatherly love? "another way to purify the mind" and so on.
9. "Father plus daughter equals memory"
Zhu Ziqing and Ba Jin are waiting.
A back, a childhood past, an unfulfilled promise, and family affection pervaded the warm words. Even conflicts, injuries, misunderstandings, small things between relatives will brew a sweet taste in future memories.
The father is worried that his daughter in love will be hurt; Children tell about their love and guilt for their parents; Brothers recall priceless friendship. Affection is a small piece of fire reflected by the mouth of the stove, which gradually precipitates in time and years, making people inadvertently think of it.
10, "Daughter's Taiwan Province Province, Father's Mainland"
Chen Haozhu
This is a heavyweight work that is both vicissitudes and delicate and euphemistic. As a child from other provinces who actively participated in the non-party movement in Taiwan Province Province in 1970s and 1980s, and as a single father who raised two daughters, Chen Hao devoted his feelings about Taiwan Province Province and tenderness for his daughters in this book. As for Chinese mainland, the hometown of his parents, his experience of traveling many times since the end of 1980s has given him a unique and in-depth observation, and at the same time, he has also glimpsed more secrets of his parents.
From Xinying Town in Tainan to my parents' hometown in Changchun, from non-party magazines in Taipei to jokes told by Beijing taxi drivers, from the story of my parents' migration in the war to the passionate cry for political change, childhood memories in the 1960s, atmosphere in the 1970s and 1980s, media work experience in the 1990s, and the warm affection between my father and daughter are all reflected in the text, with different feelings and deep double homesickness for Taiwan Province Province and the mainland.