Then, first of all, people with high emotional intelligence will leave room for speech, not too full, and will not draw conclusions to anyone or anything at once. You can achieve a state of being able to advance, attack and retreat and defend by talking like this. No matter how you refute the theory, no matter how you agree with it, he will not be forced to say nothing. This is the most basic and obvious point. If you observe, you will find that most businessmen are like this. In business, they kick the ball back and forth, which is almost the so-called emotional intelligence.
People with high emotional intelligence speak tactfully and tortuous. Don't let them go straight, they go straight, and such people can easily offend people when they speak, because advice is hard to listen to, and truth is more painful. Then the same thing is put on people with high emotional intelligence, and their way of speaking may be different.
For example, if a person asks if it's okay to eat my noodles tonight, maybe that's what a frank person said. Pick out how bad his noodles are first, and then say what he wants to eat. Then people with high emotional intelligence may find another way to say what they want from other angles such as nutrition and diet balance.
But these two effects are different. Although both can achieve their respective goals, the latter is definitely more comfortable.