How to help children like reading? We all know that parents' behavior will exert a subtle influence on their children. It is a good thing to help children enjoy reading. So how can we help children like reading? Let's see how to help children like reading.
Ways to help children like reading 1 1, and often take children to bookstores or libraries.
Bookstores or libraries have an "aura"-the aura of books and reading. Go to many, not to mention children, even adults, will naturally like reading.
Go at least once a week as long as you have time! Have a good look for half a day or even a whole day!
You don't have to ask anything to read. Read it. Reading more books will improve your natural taste. Forcing children to read what books will make them lose interest in reading. If your child wants your recommendation, recommend classic literature.
Parents should not play too hard. Children always go to these places when they are away from home, not shopping malls, restaurants or amusement parks. Basically, he became a delicious ghost, a funny ghost, cry baby, and a liar. After playing too much, there is basically no hope of getting back the child's heart.
After a long time, read another fart book! Even the interest in learning is gone.
Where is the child's responsibility? This is your parents' fault!
2. Buy more books for children.
Family decoration, don't always think about luxury, that's a thing of the past. Of course, if you have money, you can pretend whatever you want, and no one cares.
But don't forget the bookcase.
There should also be a scholarly atmosphere and "aura" at home, with bookcases, bookcases for adults and bookcases for children. If the house is not big, at least there should be a children's bookcase.
A bookcase is not enough. The bookcase should be full of books! Buy more books for children.
Don't be reluctant to drink hundreds of bottles of wine, but be reluctant to buy books for tens of dollars.
If you drink alcohol, it will turn into carbon dioxide and water, and then it will be excreted. It's gone
After reading the book, it is extremely "nutritious" and benefits for life! You read, I read, everyone reads, and you get something.
Put fewer bottles and jars of decorations and more books at home. Bottles and jars are smells, books and even smells.
If you put a bottle, just throw it away!
Be sure to buy genuine books! Don't buy pirated books with typos in order to save so little money, it is misleading children! I was really worried, so I went to Xinhua Bookstore to buy it. It's a little expensive, and it's worth it for the children!
An author, a series of books, especially recognized classics, can be bought. Children often have a high degree of recognition of their favorite authors' books and will read them repeatedly.
3. Let the children see that you are reading.
Couples never read books, so it is really impossible to let their children read.
There are two kinds of inheritance, gene inheritance and meme inheritance. Genetic inheritance is beyond our control, but memetic inheritance is determined by the behavior of being close to people.
Your children just watch you every day. If children want to love reading and family, they must have a strong reading atmosphere.
It is a good model to set up family reading time so that children can see that you are reading.
Children are the best imitators. Parents fall in love with reading, making books pervade the family. This is a silent education for children, which is better than your words.
It is best to fix reading time, such as after dinner and before going to bed. After a long time, it becomes the same needs as washing face, brushing teeth, eating and sleeping. It is difficult to stop children from learning.
Some parents just want to watch TV leisurely and don't care about their children, let alone read books.
The most direct way is to spend some money to send children to remedial classes, and there is nothing wrong with it.
This is very selfish!
If parents insist on reading a little every day, slowly, reading will become a part of their lives, and slowly, reading will also become a part of your children's lives.
Why not do such a win-win thing?
Don't say busy, just busy!
Step 4 read with children
Reading is far less interesting than TV, computer and games. Persistence in reading requires perseverance.
Therefore, parents should guide their children to read.
The most direct way is to study with children.
Reading aloud to children is the simplest and most effective way to cultivate children's reading habits, which can immerse children in a rich, organized and interesting language environment.
It is not difficult to read aloud to children, but it is difficult to persevere. Read for at least 20 minutes every day. As long as you persist, you will find changes in your child.
The point is that many people can't hold on! Educating children lacks patience!
You can read your favorite books to your children when you were young, so that you will have the same memories and more languages.
You can also talk to children about books. Parents and children reading a book together, talking about the content, details and feelings of reading, must be much more rewarding than reading by themselves.
Pay attention, speak casually, pay attention to artistry, grasp the child's thinking and speak slowly.
Pay attention, talk on an equal footing, don't be condescending, don't impose your ideas on your children, and don't ask questions to your children in the form of exams. This is not allowed!
5. Join a book club or reading club.
Reading alone is really monotonous. Don't blame the children, it's hard for adults to insist.
Therefore, reading should create a situation and have a good situation.
Suggest attending a book club. Not all book clubs are aimed at adults. Some libraries, bookstores or publishing houses also regularly organize special reading clubs for people of different ages.
It's just that Shuyang is a small city, and Mr. Xia hasn't found such a book club with a little scale and influence.
All schools and Xinhua Bookstore can organize such reading parties. At least, we Chinese teachers should have this idea and go hand in hand. This class should have a small library and its own reading club.
Parents should find their own way. Friends, relatives and colleagues should organize a book club or reading club to bring children from different families together. Under the guidance of adults, children can read and discuss together.
Teacher Xia has always wanted to set up a reading club to lead a group of children to study together. Unfortunately, the hospital doesn't have time for dialysis four times a week.
Parents with ideas can do it by themselves, not difficult.
6, often send books to children as gifts.
It is not impossible to send valuables such as toys and electronic products, but it cannot be the norm.
Because it doesn't mean anything, it can only prove that you have money, which is often a waste, and it will also cultivate children's comparison psychology.
It is suggested to send a book as a gift to children often.
There was once a man who gave a cloth book as a gift to others. As a toy, cloth book has the characteristics of "no pulling, no dragging, no biting and no making" and has multiple functions of recognizing characters, numbers and colors. It is an ideal toy for babies to explore the world with their mouths or hands.
Such a gift is very good!
When delivering books, you don't have to force your children to study. Just buy it, deliver it, and put it there so that they can get it when they want to see it.
Especially in childhood, once you get into the habit of reading, you will take the initiative to find books to read in the future, and then you will naturally have less troubles when you go to school.
Buy the original classic, never buy the abridged version.
For example, the original text of Ugly Duckling is more than 6,000 words, but now the textbook has become hundreds of words, so a good work is so useless. You all thought you had read Ugly Duckling, but you actually read compressed biscuits.
We buy books for our children, but we can't buy books with this story outline. It's not good.
7. Good reading is pleasant reading.
Nowadays, many people don't like reading books. People who study are often full of utilitarianism, mostly for bragging and chatting.
This is the enemy of reading!
Don't let children's reading have this kind of utilitarianism.
Only thinking about utilitarian things, I am afraid that reading will lose my original happiness, and if one thing becomes unhappy, no one will really invest in it.
So are children. If children study for a certain purpose, such as exams, they will only gradually stay away from reading.
Therefore, tell children to study, not always linked to exams, and not always linked to Chinese. Reading is an all-round improvement for people.
When you really fall in love with reading, you are not linked to exams or Chinese. In fact, you have hooked up, and your exam results will naturally be fine.
If you love reading, you will gradually love learning.
8. Don't overemphasize reading posture.
What is the correct posture for reading? There's nothing.
However, it is not good for some parents to overemphasize reading posture.
It's tiring to sit at your desk and read like this. It won't last long.
There is a disadvantage for children to read books. How can they feel comfortable? At this time, don't turn into an emotional confrontation. He wants to lie on the sofa and read a book. You forbade him, but he insisted. You throw books. How can I study for a long time?
Give children full freedom and let them see whatever they like. When he is tired, he will naturally change his posture.
Also, it doesn't matter whether children read fast or slow. Parents should not emphasize that children should read and understand when reading, and it doesn't matter.
I sometimes attend classes and see children with their hands folded on the table. The teacher said that it is necessary to start reading, and the posture of children holding books is the same, which shows that it is a unified requirement.
Well, it's really unnecessary. Formalism kills people!
Learning is thinking and taking notes', which will unify the requirements and seriously affect the learning effect.
I went to learn knowledge, not to train for military parade.
Rules are necessary, but don't be so rigid
9. Don't limit your reading.
Adults can guide children what they like to read and what they don't like to read, but they should not be too restrictive. You can't say that you like watching One Hundred Years of Solitude, and you can't hide that children like A- Decline Comics.
When children study, they just read whatever they like. Unlike adults, they can consciously choose some books to supplement their knowledge and broaden their horizons.
At first, leave him alone and watch whatever you want.
After a long time, you can guide it appropriately, but don't force it.
When children study, if they choose, they often read only their favorite types. In this way, their thinking will be limited to a routine.
Therefore, books, whether astronomical geography, literature, history, classics and philosophy, novels, essays and comic picture books, should be eclectic, that is, they should buy enough knowledge.
Although Mr. Xia suggested reading more literary classics, children may not be interested. So all of the above can be bought and selected for children to see.
In addition, children of different ages have different interests in reading.
Buy more books and leave them at home. Children will naturally watch it when they need it.
10, increase reading pleasure for children.
Reading is a pleasure. Don't take reading as a punishment for children.
When you stipulate that children must read several pages a day and several books a month, you always use forcing them to read as punishment when they make mistakes, then you plant emotional seeds of resistance to reading in children's hearts, and you are even more resistant to reading.
Reading should be a kind of physical and mental pleasure, and children should be positively guided to enjoy and experience that kind of fun, so that children naturally fall in love with reading.
For example, read his articles, post his articles on blogs or Weibo space, and send them to WeChat friends circle, and so on.
This has a miraculous effect on children's motivation.
If children like writing and write well, they can also contribute, regardless of the size of publications, schools, places and networks.
Children see their own articles, or print them in type, or publish them online, but it is a great promotion!
Therefore, children should be encouraged to write their own articles and feelings, and share these articles and feelings with friends around them.
When the interest in reading comes, nothing can stop it!
1 1, take the children to watch movies and TV series.
After reading the book, you can also take your children to watch related movies or TV series, which will give them a further intuitive understanding.
Now that the internet is developed, you don't need to go to the cinema, just the computer at home.
Movies and TV plays are more attractive than books.
But you must study first, and you can't watch movies or TV plays first. Film and television dramas are adapted from books, but they are often short.
Watching TV dramas first, preconceptions are not conducive to reading.
After watching Fortress Besieged, you can watch the TV series Fortress Besieged, and the feelings and gains are different from reading.
Parents, stop being groupies and watch some boring family dramas, love dramas and historical dramas. Many of those TV dramas are full of loopholes, which are simply misleading children.
How nice it is to watch some classic movies and TV series with children!
Especially on holidays, many classic film and television dramas are playing. You can take this opportunity to guide children to read the original.
12, you are going to Wan Li Road to study in thousands of books.
Guiding children to fall in love with reading is not to cultivate children into bookworms.
We should not only study thousands of books, but also take the Wan Li Road.
We advocate reading, but we don't approve of children staying at home all day and burying their heads in reading. For children, colorful activities and daily life practice are even more essential.
Montessori, a child educator, said: "Children need activities almost more than food." Therefore, parents should often take their children outdoors for various physical exercises, such as running, jumping, rolling, crawling, etc., which is not only helpful for the growth of children's bones, but also the best way for children to vent their depressed emotions.
You can also take children to nature, let them observe the sun, the moon and the stars, let them collect leaves, catch insects, make specimens, origami, draw pictures and relax their minds.
You can also let children help with housework, improve parent-child communication and enhance children's sense of responsibility.
Children should be encouraged to go out to find a partner and create opportunities for children to communicate. Children can only grow up healthily with their partners. In communication, they can exchange information, promote gender roles and strengthen self-awareness.
"The ultimate goal of education is to cultivate students' thrilling feelings in the face of a bunch of wild chrysanthemums. "This is the purpose of reading thousands of books and taking Wan Li Road.
Ways to help children like reading II. Make reading a routine for your children.
In this way, reading time becomes a special time that you and your child look forward to together, and children absorb far more nutrition in story time than parents think. They can learn how to get books. Reading is the rule of reading from left to right. They will learn what some specific symbols in the book stand for.
Buy books with special materials.
Buy some cloth or waterproof books, preferably books with bright colors, simple graphics and common things. A highly detailed illustration may make a child not understand what it is for a while, but you can guide him to pay attention to animals, vehicles and people in real life, such as firefighters, policemen or parents. Books with various pictures stimulate children's vision and extend this feeling to touch when children point with their hands.
As children grow up, enhance what they have learned.
As the child grows up, he may have been able to open the book effortlessly and seem to be reading carefully. It is also possible that he already knows the letters and numbers on it, and he may even make up some funny-looking children's songs when he is happy. These are all his learning processes.
Fill the house with books.
Put some books in the car and some waterproof books in the bathroom. Let your child see that you are reading, tell him some books you like, and let him know that you cherish books so much that you will consciously develop the habit of reading.
Use local reading facilities.
Most libraries and community activity centers will provide reading materials for children, which can increase their reading experience. Spending time with children to participate in related reading activities is also a way to enhance parent-child relationship. You accompany your children to study and enjoy warm leisure time. When your children grow up, they will think of that time when reading and get in touch with you.