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Comments on how to stimulate children's potential 1 In modern education, some parents always mistakenly believe that if they set higher learning goals for their children, even if they can't reach them temporarily, they can reach a level not too far from them. With this mentality, parents often set their children's short-term and long-term goals too high and unrealistic. But in fact, if the learning goal is far beyond the child's ability, it is likely to lead to the result that the child continues to achieve the goal but fails, which is undoubtedly a heavy blow to the child, and it also invisibly kills the child's interest in learning and self-confidence.
It is necessary to exert appropriate pressure on children's learning to stimulate motivation, but it should not dampen their self-confidence and enthusiasm for learning. So what should parents do? Here are some suggestions:
1. Leave room for the goal. When setting goals for children, parents should fully consider the physical and psychological endurance of children, and set the goals within the range that children can bear, leaving some room. If your child only got 40 points in this exam, it is unrealistic for you to force your child to get 90 points in the next exam. Set the goal a little lower, so that children can easily achieve it through their own efforts, unconsciously? Only by crossing a series of "thresholds" and then meeting new challenges with confidence can we succeed step by step.
Don't compare your children with others. Some parents always like to use the standards of the best children to demand their children, hoping that their children can be as good as others, and the results often backfire. We might as well tell our children not to compare with others, but only with their own past. As long as you can make a little progress every day, it is success. Then, the child will unconsciously move towards further goals. On the contrary, if a child compares with a classmate who is much better than himself, the more he compares, the less confident he is, and he always feels that he is inferior to others. On the contrary, it is easy to breed the psychology of "I am not as good as others anyway".
Comments on how to stimulate children's potential 2 Teacher Wang tells us how parents treat their children and how to make them fall in love with learning with easy-to-understand stories. The first is interest. As parents, we should be good at discovering, respecting and stimulating children's interest in learning. If children want to succeed in their studies, they must first have a heartfelt love for learning. As Mr. Wang said, cultivating children's interest is not only the key to their healthy physical and mental growth, but also an important guarantee for their learning progress. Once a child becomes interested, it will stimulate his unlimited potential. As parents, we should try our best to make children feel that learning is a pleasure, not a burden. Some parents only pay attention to their children's test scores and seldom pay attention to their children's feelings and experiences in the learning process. When parents unconsciously impose their wishes on their children, they gradually let their children regard learning as a painful and terrible thing, and regard learning as a torment.
Teacher Wang also said that there are no children who can't teach well. In fact, every child has an upward force in his heart. No child doesn't want to be an excellent person, and no child wants to be an underachiever. Children don't want to learn, and they are lazy. It is because of lack of motivation that children need our encouragement and respect. Children want us to look at their advantages with appreciation and pay attention to their progress, bit by bit. In fact, this is very simple, that is, never compare your children with other children, because each child is an independent individual and they will create their own differences. I once read a passage in Weibo, a teacher in Wang Jinzhan: A person who often fails to make progress can only develop his potential to 20% to 30%, and once he makes progress, his potential will develop to 70% to 80%, so a good boy is bragging. Every child has the potential to succeed, and the reason for his failure is often not in the hands of students, but in the hands of parents.
Education is a science for our parents. We are children's first teachers and lifelong teachers, and the role of parents is very important, and no one can replace it. Since we can become parents without any training and qualification certificate, we need to study and research with our children. I believe that as long as we do it seriously, we will definitely make our children enjoy learning happily and fall in love with it.
Comments on how to stimulate children's potential 3 When guiding children, experienced mothers always give children some reasonable suggestions that children can complete. After the child feels that it is easy to complete, he will take the initiative to complete it.
In general, people like to be praised, to surpass and to be encouraged. Parents are always nervous and anxious when facing a student with poor grades. Some parents will blame the children, and some even say that the children are so hopeless. So much will give them hints that I can't, and my mother says I can't, so I can't do anything. If you can't do it, why do it? I am a bad person.
When parents face a child who doesn't make progress every day, they have a headache and feel that this child has no hope and no future, and there will be a series of influences. You should have heard of the cat kicking effect. A father was in a bad mood at work and lost his temper with his wife when he came back. My son was speechless and began to kick the cat. The cat broke the vase without help. This effect often occurs in life.
When faced with children's poor grades, how should parents help their children complete and help them complete a study plan?
First, the goal should be clear and short-term goals can be set. For example, when the child ranks first from the bottom, you can tell the child that as long as you surpass the second, it means that you have made progress. If you set more than the first place, how much do you really think you have accomplished? For example, if we lose weight, do you decide to lose 2 kg or 20 kg?
Second, when the child's grades are not good, tell the child that his mother loves you. You can't learn the knowledge represented by your past grades, but his mother still thinks you are a promising child.
Third, every time you communicate with children, you should stand on an equal footing. Don't let the child stand, sit down, or you will stand. This will give children a sense of command, not equality.
Fourth, let children develop their own things and do them themselves. They should be responsible for their own things.
Comments on How to Stimulate Children's Potential 4165438+1October 19 In the afternoon, I received a book from President Yang entitled "How is it so difficult to learn talents?" I was both surprised and surprised when I received this book. President Yang goes out early and comes back late every day, and his work is as busy as a bee. He is still thinking about which teachers' children are in high school and helping us recommend books suitable for us to read. I am very moved and grateful, so I read this book carefully.
I benefited a lot from reading this book. This year, my daughter is in high school. I think going to high school is a child's own business. Our parents just pick up and drop off the children every day, feed and clothe her, and be good logistics ministers. Although it is very stressful to watch children study every day, there is nothing I can do. I can only worry, and there is nothing I can do. But after reading Mr. Wang's book, I was shocked and moved. Miss Wang is an excellent teacher with rich teaching experience. It is admirable that he can implement his own unique teaching methods according to the characteristics of each student, so that each student can develop his own potential and develop his own disadvantages.
Mr Wang is a very talented teacher. In the first chapter, he tells the story that he won the first prize in the speech contest. He said people should have confidence. Yes, as a speaker, if you think you lost before you go on stage, the result will not be much better, but Mr. Wang is confident, avoids his own shortcomings, works hard on the content and finally wins the first prize. Yes, everyone has his own shortcomings. What we should do is not make excuses for our shortcomings all day, but try to find our own advantages and carry them forward, so that we can finally achieve something.
In his book, Mr. Wang teaches students to use their brains scientifically and learn by methods, instead of studying hard at school without purpose and efficiency. Learning is a very happy thing. If you finish it scientifically with a happy mood, your grades will rise unconsciously. For teachers, we should also be an excellent teacher, be scientific, pay attention to teaching methods, regard teaching as a happy thing, have no burden, and have no other distractions. We should study every lesson with our heart, so that students can study happily and with interest, because interest is the first motivation for learning.
In the book, Mr. Wang mentioned instructing his daughter to review math, which made me admire. He spent less than 2 hours explaining to his daughter, but in the end, her math score improved by more than 20 points. Teacher Wang has rich experience in mathematics teaching, and his review is very targeted. This is also the result of his careful study. When reviewing the probability for his daughter, he came up with eight questions. He said confidently that this year's probability questions will definitely not run out of these eight questions, but he just played a guiding role. The rest is for the children to analyze themselves. Such a father and such a teacher are admirable. As an excellent teacher, he just gives students a guide, and he has to walk the road by himself. However, this guide is really crucial, and the road he leads must be correct and effective, so that others can reach their destination smoothly.
Teacher Wang's college entrance examination experience is very touching. He worked hard to overcome all kinds of difficulties, created conditions for self-study and finally succeeded. His spirit stems from his motivation to enter the university. With this kind of motivation, he will persist no matter how hard it is, which many of us lack. Teacher Wang said: "The so-called success means that even if there is only 1% hope, you have to work hard at 100%, and finally turn 1% hope into 100% result." This sentence is not only useful to students, but also beneficial to everyone. Through hard work, Mr. Wang has changed from the last in the class to the first. This is not an easy task, and it requires great determination and perseverance, as well as long-term perseverance to succeed.
Many words in Mr. Wang's book are worth thinking about. His educational methods, teaching strategies and clever communication are all worth learning. He has his own unique educational ideas and scientific educational methods, which make students and parents admire him very much.
After reading this book, I told my daughter the classic cases in the book, analyzed and discussed them with her, and looked for suitable learning methods, so that children could learn with happiness, master the correct learning methods and maintain a good learning mentality. As long as the child has time, I will show her the story I chose in the book. The child said sincerely, "I wish he were my teacher!" " "I also want to change my previous point of view. I can't just be the logistics minister, but also be the child's mentor, be her loyal audience and help her solve her confusion.
Finally, I encouraged my children with the words in Mr. Wang's book: the decline in grades is not terrible. The terrible thing is that when your grades drop, you don't have the courage to improve. The process of learning itself is the process of enriching life. Success is happy, failure is happy, success is happy, and failure is unforgettable. Only those who are not afraid of failure deserve the final success.
Comments on how to stimulate children's potential 5 Falling in love with learning is the wish of every student and every parent. "How to make every child fall in love with learning" is an educational topic of the Middle School affiliated to Wang Jinzhan, China Renmin University.
This morning, I accompanied my daughter to watch How to Make Every Child Love Learning, which was broadcast by Shandong Agricultural Science Channel and lectured by Wang Jinzhan, a middle school affiliated to CUHK. After reading it, I really benefited a lot. As a parent, I feel ashamed and really need to reflect.
After listening to Mr. Wang's words about how to improve children's grades, I summed up two points. First, review and preview, repeatedly consolidate the basic knowledge taught by teachers, and read more extracurricular books, which will help to strengthen understanding. Second, their own psychological problems, lack of confidence in themselves or the more they want to do well in the exam, the more afraid they are, the worse their grades, and the heavy psychological burden. All these will lead to a lack of love for learning and poor grades, which must be overcome. In the future study, as a parent, I believe that as long as parents pay serious attention to education, they will definitely let their children enjoy learning happily, thus falling in love with learning and taking exams easily.
It is not difficult to be a parent. It is really difficult to be a qualified parent. Qualified parents will not let their children eat well, dress well and play well. Teacher Wang said that qualified parents are the key to open the energy warehouse. If primary schools can't do it, it will be too late for universities to do it again. So start small. This is called "if you don't work hard, the boss will be sad."
Teacher Wang gave us many examples, all of which show that parents should respect and encourage their children's study. As the saying goes, "good children are boastful." All kinds of examples given by Teacher Wang also fulfilled this sentence. In the past, when a child made a mistake or failed the exam, I was in a hurry. I lost control when I was in a hurry, so I scolded him loudly. The more confused the child is, the harder it is to start, and it is useless to explain to her. Teacher Wang said that children should be treated with appreciation, and once they find advantages and progress, they should be praised in time. Why don't we try taking preventive measures?
Love is true love, but not love is hurt!
Comments on How to Stimulate Children's Potential 6 This morning, I watched How to Make Every Child Fall in Love with Learning with my daughter, which was broadcast by Children's Channel of Zhejiang Radio and Television Station and lectured by Wang Jinzhan, a middle school affiliated to CUHK. After reading it, I really benefited a lot.
Teacher Wang tells us how parents treat their children and how to make them fall in love with learning with easy-to-understand stories. The first is interest. As parents, we should be good at discovering, respecting and stimulating children's interest in learning. If children want to succeed in learning, they must first have a heartfelt love for learning. As Mr. Wang said, cultivating children's interest is not only the key to their healthy physical and mental growth, but also an important guarantee for their learning progress. Once a child becomes interested, it will stimulate his unlimited potential. Parents should not impose their wishes on their children, but learn to share the joys and sorrows of their children's study and let her know that you care about more than just exam results.
Teacher Wang gave us many examples, all of which show that parents should respect and encourage their children's study. As the saying goes, "good children are boastful." All kinds of examples given by Teacher Wang also fulfilled this sentence. I used to be anxious when my child made a mistake or didn't do well in the exam. I can't control it when I'm in a hurry. I scolded her loudly and compared her with other children. Teacher Wang said that children should be treated with appreciation, and once they find advantages and progress, they should be praised in time. Why don't we try taking preventive measures?
Teacher Wang also said that there are no children who can't teach well. In fact, every child has an upward force in his heart. No child doesn't want to be an excellent person, and no child wants to be an underachiever. Children don't want to learn, and they are lazy. It is because of lack of motivation that children need our encouragement and respect. Children want us to look at their advantages with appreciation and pay attention to their progress, bit by bit. Since we can become parents without any training and qualification certificate, we need to study and research with our children. I believe that as long as we do it seriously, we will definitely make our children enjoy learning happily and fall in love with it.
Comments on how to stimulate children's potential 7 This morning, according to the teacher's request, it was 7: 50. I sat in front of the TV on time and watched the lecture by educator Wang Jinzhan. Out of curiosity, my mother waited with me.
At first, Mr Wang Jinzhan appeared on the screen and talked generously about his own views on learning and education. After listening to teacher Wang's lecture, I benefited a lot.
Teacher Wang said that before the age of fourteen, it is the golden age to cultivate children's intellectual development. A good learning environment is very important for children's study. It not only affects children's learning, but also affects their physical and mental health development. Another non-intellectual factor that affects children's learning is mentality. If you have a good attitude, it is not difficult to get good grades, but if you have a bad attitude, it is hard to say. Parents should cultivate their children's interest in learning if they want their children to get good grades in school. If children are not interested in learning, it is futile for parents and teachers to try again. In the process of getting along with children, don't always be strict. Learn to understand and respect children, communicate with them more, cultivate their hobbies and discover their advantages. Children need the encouragement and respect of their parents, and the most important thing for parents is to look at their children with appreciation.
Teacher Wang also said that exams should not be stressful, the psychological burden should not be too heavy, you should not always aim too high, and you should always think about comparing with the first place, which will only make your academic performance decline. We should make a study plan for ourselves according to our actual situation and try to compare with many students who study better than ourselves but are similar. In this way, our psychological pressure can be reduced and our goals can be easily achieved. With continuous progress, we can easily achieve our original goal.
The real liberation and relaxation of parents should be from the moment their children are admitted to the university. Every child wants to become a dragon and a girl a phoenix. This is an undeniable fact. We should learn from girls for ourselves and for our parents. Of course, parents will and should choose a good method.
Comments on How to Stimulate Children's Potential 8 At 8 o'clock this morning, I watched a program on how to make children love learning on TV Legal Channel, which was given by Teacher Wang Jinzhan.
Teacher Wang mainly talked about the first, don't regard learning as a crime. Teacher Wang Jinzhan talked about two decisive factors that affect learning. The first is the intelligence factor, and the second is the non-intelligence factor. Non-intelligence factors include: a student's personality, psychological state, self-confidence, physical condition and the harmonious relationship between parents at home; The core of non-intelligence factors is mainly mentality. Second, there are no children who can't be taught well. Teacher Wang Jinzhan said: Parents' expressions and tone, if not handled properly, will do the greatest harm to children. I think what Mr. Wang Jinzhan said is very reasonable. Teacher Wang Jinzhan added: Parents should cultivate their children's self-confidence, and the most important thing is to look at their children with appreciation. Find advantages, find progress, praise in time, and give him your praise at the moment he makes achievements.
From this I know that it is an interest to make children fall in love with learning. If children are not interested, even if you let them learn, they won't learn anything. The best and most important thing this semester is to adjust your mentality. The teacher also said that the Olympiad is not only to calculate well, but also needs methods. If you have no idea, it won't work. If the teacher asks questions in class, you should speak boldly. If a small idea leads to another, it won't work.
If a student studies a subject he is very interested in, his intelligence will be greatly developed. If he studies a subject that he is not interested in, his intelligence will be very great and he will be hungry. If the child doesn't want to learn, don't force him to learn, because the result will be very bad. Don't regard learning as a sin. Parents can't force their children to study all the time, but they should care more about their children. be sure of oneself
In the future, we should love learning, try to adjust our mentality to learn primary school things, don't force children to thank what they don't want to do, don't beat and scold them, manage them well and try to make them fall in love with learning.
Comments on How to Stimulate Children's Potential At 8 o'clock on Saturday morning, family and children watched Wang Jinzhan's lecture "How to Make Every Child Love Learning". Through teacher Wang's lecture, I gained a lot and felt a lot.
As Mr. Wang said, we can become parents without any training and qualification threshold. We often fall into a misunderstanding in the education of our children. We always demand our children by our own simulated standards. We always look at their achievements and ignore their feelings and interests. The utilitarian mentality of "looking forward to children's success and looking forward to women's success" makes us afraid that children will fall behind, so we constantly report classes to our children and constantly urge them to learn, learn and learn again. We neglected the children's wishes and hobbies. As Mr. Wang said, cultivating children's interest is not only the key to their healthy physical and mental growth, but also an important guarantee for their learning progress. As parents, we should try our best to make children feel that learning is a pleasure, not a burden. In learning, children will be involved because they like it, and they will be more focused and efficient because they are involved. To cultivate children's interest in learning, as a parent, I think we should first strive to improve our learning to adapt to children. It is necessary to understand the child's heart, understand what the child has learned, and solve doubts for the child at any time, so that the child feels that his parents are around. Don't let them be confused and lose confidence because of confusion. What is more important is to help them gradually build up the courage and confidence to think independently, share the happiness and joy brought by success in time, and make their sense of accomplishment and honor become the driving force for their continuous progress.
I think that in order for children to fall in love with learning, parents must first fall in love with learning. The words and deeds around children recently are undoubtedly the most profound and important for them. For the children's future, let's work hard with our children and grow together. Only with the courage to pay today can we look forward to tomorrow's harvest and hope.
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