Parents should reduce the impulse to do things for their children. In life, as long as children can do it themselves, let them do it themselves. In learning, we should also try our best to let children finish their homework. For example, when children do their homework, parents should stay out of it and let them better understand and digest what they have learned, so that children will gradually get rid of their dependence on parents and have better hands-on ability.
The most basic educational idea is that no matter what adults do, children should do their own things.
One day, the child met a math problem and asked him. He just said three words to the children: "First, look at what the teacher said, second, do the theorem definition, and third, do the example calculation."
The child began to lose sight of his father's words. Dad patiently told the child: "It is more important to tell you the method than to tell you a hundred answers. If I just tell you the answer, you won't next time, because you have been relying on your father since then. " The child understood his father's words and solved the problem independently through his own ability.
Dad knows his children very well, and a few words can easily change their dependence psychology, which every parent should learn. Reducing children's dependence on their parents in learning can really help children improve their hands-on ability. Give children full freedom and reduce dependence on their parents. Children will exercise their hands-on ability in the process of parents letting go and become excellent children who integrate theory with practice.
As long as you develop the ability to think independently, you can reduce your dependence on your parents and your yearning for your parents will return to normal. You won't say that you miss your mother just after a day apart, cultivate the ability of independent thinking, and make some friends soon. With the company of friends, you will also reduce your yearning and dependence on your mother.