After school, a large group of children are rushing home or going to Anqin class, and noisy noises come and go. Within a few minutes, the huge campus changed from a bustling scene to a quiet one, even making people feel a little deserted. After seeing the students after school, I wanted to go back to the classroom to tidy up, but I saw a little girl stumbling towards me with her head down in the empty corridor.
"What's the matter? Why are you so slow when you are not in a hurry to go home after school? " I went forward and took a closer look. I found tears on the little girl's young face.
"What's the matter? What's the matter, why are you crying? " Don't ask, don't worry, ask, the little girl burst into tears, I suddenly cried, crying suddenly at a loss.
Just then the director came over and asked me what was going on. I said I was bored, too.
"come on Come on! Come on! What happened? Tell the director quickly, and the director will help you. The director kindly comforted the frightened and tearful child in front of him.
The little girl choked and said, "I ... I didn't get a hundred points in the exam." Director, I'm ... I'm ... I'm afraid to go home. My mother will hit me. 」
"oh! It doesn't matter! It doesn't matter! The supervisor will call your mother and tell her. The director motioned to me that he would handle it and let me do my own thing.
Watching the little girl go to the office under the care and comfort of the director, I stood in the quiet and empty corridor, and a burst of bitterness came to my mind, thinking about the crying little girl and how I treated my children.
Frankly speaking, as a substitute teacher, I am just like ordinary parents. As long as the child comes home from school after the exam, I will definitely ask, "Did you hand out the exam paper today? What is the score? Seeing the child jumping and laughing at home, I guess the little guy must have done well in the exam, even if he didn't get a hundred points, he got more than 90 points, and now the stone in his heart has just vanished. Seeing the jubilant look of the child, as soon as he put down his schoolbag, he quickly took out his paper and waited for the reward. I took the paper from the child, and as expected, my heart was full of joy. " Wow! Great! One hundred in two subjects! Come on! Here you go, 200 yuan. I immediately took money out of my pocket to reward my children. As soon as the children received the money, they rushed to 7-ELEVEN, went on a shopping spree and enjoyed the results. I shook my eyes at the paper and signed it casually. As for the content of the exam, I don't seem to care much.
I think, I want to know if you, as a parent, are like me. As long as the child gets 100%, money is the most substantial appreciation and encouragement. Give a person be elated, not soft; The person who took it deserved it, of course. But I didn't care so much about the content of the exam, and even lacked interest and turned a blind eye. The focus is on the upper right corner of the test paper. As long as 100 points means that the child's study of the subject is very good, more than 90 points are also very good, more than 80 points are barely acceptable, and more than 70 points is more than 60 points. You and I may be impatient and scold the child-"What's the matter? Not even that simple? " "What grade are you in? Even the addition is wrong. Can you have a snack? After reading the unsightly score, my temper suddenly flew into a rage, swearing, and even without saying anything, I first gave my child a fried shredded pork with bamboo shoots, which scared the child to lower his head, rub his hot hands and listen to the endless preaching of adults. Adults are trained to be righteous and clear-headed, but do children really listen to them? How much do you know about what you hear in your ears? Do we care too much about grades and ignore the fun and real purpose of children's learning? "Words are not as good as examples." In good conscience, I was not so good when I was a child. In that poor age, my parents worked hard to make a living; There are two old people in the world, and there are seven young people at the bottom. It is not easy for a family of ten to fill their stomachs. My parents often say: "reading is your blessing;" I am lucky if I don't study. The attitude of herding cattle and eating grass makes us have good childhood memories, because schools are fun and can avoid endless housework and farm work. As for the teacher's plastic surgery, it is "the speaker is jealous and the listener is reserved." To paraphrase Chow Yun Fat's advertisement: "What a blessing!" (Taiwanese homonym: Go! ) A few "tauren" in the primary school class, Lotte knows life and knows that they are not the material for learning, but they know that as long as they are willing to work hard, they will definitely "be the best in their own industry", and now several of them have become the bosses of the company's factories! I don't think they got 100 on the test paper, but they got 100 on their own career with their own efforts and sweat, and climbed to the peak of their lives. This achievement is even more proud and dazzling, because in the marathon of life, the person who runs to the finish line is the final winner, not the leader, but is out of breath at the end, and once he falls, he can never get up again.
Nowadays, children "reach for tea and open their mouths to eat." As long as you read the book well, parents can say that they are responsive to other things; As long as you study hard, as long as you get a hundred points, you can say anything. Children's schoolbags are getting heavier and heavier. Schools, parents' classes and cram schools, adults and children are busy and live like cows. When children go to intimate classes or cram schools and practice the same topic over and over again, they will be complacent and get 100 in the exam. I don't know what he knows is just the tip of the iceberg and nine Niu Yi hairs in the vast knowledge! In order to score 100, childhood memories are like a never-ending gyro. I can't see the beauty of things around me, and I can't see the fun of childhood. Only thicker glasses, heavier schoolbags, more and more exams and more competitors make life more and more boring. Dear parents, don't you and I feel deja vu in this childhood? Don't you and I have feelings for such suffering? Why do "good intentions" make our children repeat the same mistakes and have pale and bloodless childhood memories?
The value of life is multifaceted. "Everything is inferior, only reading is high." "Nobody asked me for ten years, and I became famous all over the world." It is the myth of ancient feudal thought. Today's children should not walk into the maze and lose the real fun, purpose and significance of reading. As parents, we should break the myth that reading means taking a test 100%, and let children know that through reading, we can understand the vastness and mystery of the world universe, and we can face all people and things in the world with humility and openness. Taste the fun in the book through reading; Through reading, we can draw our long life, perfect our flawed personality, enrich our empty soul, improve our ability to do things, and create unparalleled happiness, happiness and hope for ourselves, society, the country and the world. This is an out-and-out "100%".
I haven't taken the exam 100 since grade three, but I often take the exam 100 in grade one and grade two.
Once, my math score was 100, and I jumped three feet for joy, because I seldom took 100. The teacher made the most mistakes in the test paper. In fact, I was wrong and the teacher didn't change it. I thought to myself: should I tell the teacher that I did something wrong? Yes, the score of 100 is gone, but I will feel a little heavy if I don't say it. I thought about it and finally decided to tell the teacher that I gave the teacher the test paper and told him where I was wrong. The teacher picked up a red pen and scrawled "100" and "96". I immediately felt relaxed because I felt honest.
When I came home at night, my mother didn't scold me or say anything, but my father said humorously, "If you take a duck egg in turn (0 points), my father will give you 100 yuan, and I will give you as many points as the teacher deducts from you." I listened, smiled and said, "Then I haven't paid 4 yuan today." I saw my father take out 5 yuan from his pocket and hand it to me, saying, "Keep the change." I was shocked. I thought my father was joking, but I didn't think it was true. I accepted it rudely because I was short of money. I don't have to worry about money anymore. My father is so kind to me that I would rather not get in the exam than let my father say, "You got 100, and you have no money to take the exam." Haha, this is a joke. My mother will "shoot" my ass because of my low test score. I can't give up that precious 100 score for money.