My mother graduated from Tsinghua and didn't ask me anything.

My mother was surprised when I scored in the college entrance examination: "God, it's so much higher than a line!" " ! Can you get on 985? 」。

You can go to 985, but it's also a 985.

My mother's mentality is really good, and I don't mind that I didn't do as well as her in the exam.

Of course, the reason why my mother is so surprised is mainly because it is really easy to raise this child compared with her peers around her.

As a Beijing parent with a Tsinghua degree and all kinds of high-quality resources at your fingertips, my mother didn't buy a school district and didn't give me a prestigious school in junior and senior high schools.

When her colleague's/classmate's children were carrying small schoolbags to and from famous primary and secondary schools with an average score of 985, I was thrown into a private school with a enrollment rate of only 50% by my mother, and because I enrolled in the direct entrance class from primary school to high school, my senior high school entrance examination and senior high school entrance examination were just a form, and I was in a daze.

Ask my mother what's the secret of this move, and she will definitely answer you truthfully: save trouble.

Not the kui is a graduate of Tsinghua. Pursuit can save trouble.

Unlike me, the pursuit of saving trouble can only lead to endless chaos.

My mother has never paid much attention to my study. You can go out to play games on weekends, but you have to do housework after junior high school.

Yes, there is no such thing as "you just take care of your studies and leave the rest to you" or "the baby studies hard and the mother cuts the fruit for you".

Only "Do you choose to cook or wash dishes, sweep the floor or mop the floor today?" And "Do you eat apples? If you eat it, wash me a language of these demons.

But it doesn't matter if you don't care. I think my mother is good at grasping the big and letting go of the small. I have only attended extracurricular classes twice since I was a child. Once in primary school and once in senior three.

I got poor grades in primary school, especially English, which I couldn't understand in class.

My mother spent a lot of money to enroll me in an English foreign teacher class, and later invited foreign students to live at home and practice English with me.

After doing this for a year, my English score has improved by leaps and bounds, my interest in learning has also improved, and my grades in other subjects have also improved, from Hewei to a person with a name on the honor roll.

Then I went to senior three. I am a science student. At that time, my grades in all subjects were not very satisfactory. My teacher's judgment is "the last one is no problem"

But I thought I was also a person with a dream. I was nervous when I saw other students making up classes and throwing money at various well-known tutoring institutions in Haidian. I asked my mother what to do.

My mother is good at saving money (no). She found a small remedial institution at the gate of the community, so she signed me up for a math class, two hours a week.

She firmly believes that the most important subject in the college entrance examination is mathematics. I still don't know why this is, and I dare not try to figure out the thinking of the big boss.

But at that time, I felt that physics needed to make up lessons, so at my strong request, my mother gave me another physics class, which added up to four hours a week.

It seems that a one-year tutorial will cost about 20 thousand.

At that time, it was 15, and parents in Beijing could feel how low the cost was.

In China, my mother is a strange girl, living her own life.

Other families moved for their children's school district, and my family moved only because my mother liked it. My family moved from Haidian to Fengtai when I was in high school.

Compared with Haidian, which is full of books, Fengtai is an elderly community (only referring to the street where I live). I haven't found a bookstore or stationery store near my home so far, and I don't remember how I got my pens and notebooks in high school. It could be charity.

My mother's education method is very gentle. She is not only in a good state of mind, but also strong inside. I must blow a few more words:

When I was in primary school, she could sign my 40-point test paper without changing her face;

When the teacher calls me to school for criticism, you can greet me with a smile;

Every exam has to be retested at the bottom, so I can be indifferent.

So that when I was a child, I always thought it was normal to repeat the grade, and vowed to tell my friends that I didn't do badly, but I was going to the third grade again (this stupid child didn't want to think why I was the only one in the school to go to the third grade again).

Facing a child with such an urgent IQ, my mother not only never scolded me, but also never worried about my future. She even praised me for my good health and seldom getting sick.

Under her influence, I once believed that I was a good boy, because I was in good health, although I skipped classes, fought and came last in the exam.

To sum up, my mother, who graduated from Tsinghua, has no desire for children.