First, the composition topic
People don't live in a vacuum: they live in a society of "others". Everything you say and do, every move, others will "feel".
Please write an article of not less than 800 words on the topic of "others' feelings".
Requirements: (1) optional angle; (2) self-determination; (3) Style is not limited, except poetry; (4) distinctive stylistic features.
Two. Writing instruction
Combined with the materials, this essay topic is to guide students to think about whether "other people's feelings" are important or not, or whether they care. This topic has three characteristics:
(1) A certain degree of openness. We can establish the view that others' feelings are important or care about others' feelings, or we can establish the view that others' feelings are not important or why care about others' feelings.
(2) Strong speculation. No matter what kind of viewpoint is established, it is necessary to analyze specific problems, and to say under what circumstances and why. It should be noted that the opinion cannot be absolute, and it should be demonstrated at a certain level or conditionally. In this regard, we should pay special attention to writing argumentative papers, giving examples, demonstrating and analyzing. Because we can easily see whether your argument is dialectical from the examples and argumentation analysis in the article.
(3) It has strong realistic pertinence. In real life, people often go to extremes, or always look at other people's faces, and everything they do should be based on other people's feelings and evaluations; Either you are self-centered, don't understand others, and don't consider others' feelings: as a result, you lose the direction of life and even pay a painful price for it. In fact, the topic of composition requires students to face these problems directly, think about life rationally and think about life.
Three. Typical material
How other people feel.
This happened in a resort in Phuket, where I worked as an English translator and public relations officer.
One day, in the hall, I suddenly saw a Japanese staff member with a full face of apologies comforting a western child of about four years old. The frightened child was exhausted from crying.
I didn't know until I asked the reason. Because there were many children that day, the Japanese staff neglected for a moment and left the Australian children in the tennis court after the children finished tennis class.
When she found the wrong number, she ran to the tennis court and brought the child back. The child was scared to cry because he was alone in a remote tennis court.
Now the Australian mother appeared, watching her child cry in pain.
What would you do if you were a mother? Give the staff a scolding? Still angry, take the children away and never join the "children's club" again? Or protest directly to the supervisor?
Neither! I saw my mother with my own eyes, squatted down to comfort my four-year-old child and told him rationally, "It's all right. Japanese girls are very nervous and sad because they can't find him. She didn't mean to. Now you must kiss your Japanese sister on the cheek and comfort her! "
I only saw a four-year-old child in front of me, raising her heels, kissing the cheek of the Japanese staff squatting beside her, and gently telling her: "Don't be afraid, it's okay!"
When you feel sad and afraid, don't forget the feelings of others; When you help your friends, don't forget not to hurt others.
Lin Chi-ling bent down to take a picture with the man.
Lin Chi-ling is shooting an advertisement. During the advertising shoot, the agent and assistant beside Lin Chi-ling followed suit, and they were busy until seven o'clock in the evening to finish their work. At this time, Lin Chi-ling took a photo with the staff beside him and said thank you very gently. She wears a pair of flat shoes, but some men are not as tall as her. Lin Chi-ling bent down very gently to take pictures. Some people think highly of her, but "thank you" is very useful. Bend down and appreciate it. Is a very sensible, very considerate, very concerned about the feelings of others, with a star model.
Two famous sayings of Steve Jobs
Your time is limited, don't live for others. Don't be limited by dogma, don't live in other people's thoughts. Don't let other people's opinions affect your inner voice. The most important thing is to follow your heart and intuition bravely. Only your heart and intuition know what you really think, and everything else is secondary.
Are you tired of living for others? Don't hesitate, this is your life, you have absolute autonomy to decide how to live, don't be bound by what others do. Give yourself a chance to cultivate creativity, don't be afraid, don't worry. Live your own life and be your own boss!
Four. Fan Wen presentation
How other people feel.
A tree cannot be a forest. Everyone is a tree and a member of the forest family. In society, everyone's words and deeds, every move, others will feel. Therefore, at any time, we should not only consider ourselves, but also put ourselves in others' shoes.
When you help others, you should consider their feelings.
Students who went out to study bought the first pot of Jianlibao on the train, but they didn't know how to open it. The aunt next door didn't tell the students directly, but opened her Jianlibao by drinking. She protected the student's self-esteem in a seemingly natural way so as not to embarrass him. In The Family with Children, Xia Xue and others offered his classmates a sum of money to help him, but they were rejected. Xia Xue was angry that he didn't accept his kindness. At the prompt of his mother, he understood his mistake. I helped my classmate's mother find a job and found a better way to help her classmates. Helping others is a kindness, but how to help will have two completely different consequences. When helping others, we should consider their feelings and take appropriate measures to help others without embarrassing them.
When there are differences and disputes, we should consider the feelings of others.
The two families fought for land, and the Prime Minister replied to the poem. In the poem, "Why not let him be three feet?" Let the family wake up and give in three feet. When the neighbors saw it, they were ashamed and gave up three feet of land, so there was a six-foot passage between the two families. Since then, the relationship between the two families is no longer tense when they compete for land, but close. Lin Xiangru paid homage to Shangqing for his work, but Lian Po refused to accept it and insulted him. In the end, because of mutual concessions, he finally woke up, offered a humble apology, and the two shook hands and made peace. Why choose to give in, win the understanding of the other side and let the other side give in? That's because the first consideration is the feelings of the other party! It is often said, "Don't base your happiness on other people's pain." And if you really base your happiness on the suffering of others, will you be really happy when you see the suffering of others? In ancient times, I don't know when the tragedy of complaining about others was repeated. At present, it often happens that there is a disagreement, so we should consider the feelings of others when there are differences and disputes. Maybe it's our fault. Taking a step back can broaden our horizons.
Consider other people's feelings in daily life.
I once saw a public service advertisement that children's badminton was hung on a tree, and my eldest brother took it off for them with a slight jump. In the elevator room, a baby is sleeping in his mother's arms, and a lady who answers the phone gently covers her mobile phone with her hand; There is a piece of paper on the chair in the park. The little boy put it in the trash can ... It's actually very simple to think of others. A small action and a bright smile may make people more harmonious and make society more harmonious.
A mother once said to her children, "Your floor is someone else's ceiling." We should always consider the feelings of others. Let this become a habit, a spring breeze, blowing all over the society! (Jiang) According to
Comments: (original score 50)
The content is substantial, the argumentation method is flexible and the thinking is clear. Disadvantages, the original example analysis in the fifth paragraph only emphasizes "concession", without further analysis of "choosing concession because of considering the feelings of the other party", which deviates from the point of view and is revised by guidance.
How other people feel.
What people are most afraid of is self-righteousness, self-centeredness, and thinking that others have nothing to do with themselves. People who don't care about other people's feelings are most likely to be hurt by others. In fact, sometimes, if we restrain ourselves, throw away some inappropriate words and behaviors, and care about the feelings of others, the result of things will not be so bad.
I broke her heart, but I don't care about her feelings. I still regret that scene when I think about it now. On the evening of August 30th, 20 1 1, I was in a hurry to catch up with my homework. It's past 0/2 o'clock in the evening/kloc-and I'm still writing. Complaining about too much homework while writing. I complained loudly and woke up my sleeping mother: "stop writing, don't write early or late." You will panic again at school tomorrow. You only know how to play. " "I am willing to, I can't finish it, I can't! I don't want to go anyway, it's boring. " "Why don't you go up?" "It's none of your business to die at home," I shouted. At that time, my mother turned to "sleep" without saying a word. Later, I thought, my mother did it for my own good and didn't want me to stay up late for fear that I would be too tired. I was such an asshole then. How can I say this to my mother in her 500 s? Why didn't I consider her feelings? People just inadvertently hurt others. If I consider the feelings of others, I may not have regrets in my heart. Since then, I have never quarreled with my mother, because she is my mother, and I want to understand her, the feelings of that great woman. I must care about all this and I love her.
I broke her heart, but I didn't care about her feelings. Junior high school is my saddest time. My math teacher is my former neighbor, so when I first entered junior high school, I got good grades and studied hard. For the sake of the teacher's good words in front of my parents, I was addicted to online games until the second semester of Grade Two. I listened to it at first, but then I persuaded my parents five or six times, to no avail. I was stubborn. The teacher said maliciously, "This. I don't understand the teacher's painstaking efforts. I didn't look back. I fell from the top five in the second grade to the thirty-fifth in the third grade, and I went all the way to dark. Fortunately, I didn't lose, because I practiced my specialty in junior high school. I know, but I didn't take into account the teacher's feelings. At that time, she wanted to help me and work hard for me. I made her sad in order that I would not regret graduating from junior high school. I wish I had put myself in the other's shoes. It's much better than now!
Because I don't consider other people's feelings, I hurt many people's hearts. You must think twice before you act, especially those who have a good relationship with me.
When we don't think about other people's feelings in time, we should put ourselves in each other's shoes in time. Don't let others feel sorry for themselves. Caring about other people's feelings means that others care about their own feelings! The feelings of others are important, but your own carefulness is more important.
For me, those who have been hurt by me, I should think more about each other, understand them and make up for my mistakes with my own actions.
I hope we don't care about other people's feelings in the future! (Zhao Lei)
Comments: (original score 49)
The author chooses two things he has experienced, and expresses the theme of "others' feelings, I hope we don't care anymore" by writing these two things. The narrative description is vivid and touching. Disadvantages, the last sentence of the penultimate paragraph, free from opinions.
How other people feel.
"People don't live in a vacuum, but live in a society composed of' you, me and him'."
Indeed, people can't just live in their own world all their lives. Many times, we must care about other people's feelings. However, we must understand that we are still living for ourselves after all, and what we should care about most after all is ourselves.
If Shang Yang cares too much about other people's feelings, how can Daqin Empire dominate the world? As we all know, in the process of Shang Yang's political reform, the interests of many feudal landlords and bureaucrats were touched. If Shang Yang considered their feelings, how many years would the history of China go backwards? How many teenagers does it take for someone to change the fate of China? Yes, Shang Yang's despair cost him his life this time, but his efforts have created a glorious era! A thousand years later, Shang Yang's name went down in history, and those "others" who didn't know his name could only be scolded!
If Zheng Wei cares too much about other people's feelings, how can he get the reputation of "Byakki Smoker"? Wei Zhi's admonition has angered Emperor Taizong many times, but at this time, Wei Zhi is always poised. He knows in his heart what will happen if he goes against the sacred will. However, in the face of Lebanese country and people, he Wei Zhi can only give way to sensibility and put aside the emperor's feelings! In the end, he won, his reason won the trust of the emperor, won the reputation of "mirror" and won a peaceful and prosperous time.
If Adams cares too much about the feelings of others, how can there be justice in the law? In such an era of high anti-British sentiment, Adams, as an American, resolutely accepted the task of defending British soldiers. Facing the shock and anger of his compatriots, he remained sober and rational. The justice of law cannot be influenced by public opinion. Adams' behavior defended the dignity of law and justice.
I remember Steve Jobs famously said, "Your time is limited, so don't live for others. Don't be limited by dogma, don't live in other people's thoughts. Don't let other people's opinions affect your inner voice. " Jobs clearly told me not to care too much about other people's feelings, to believe in myself and follow my heart and intuition. Only in this way can you succeed!
Friends, take a long-term view, don't let "other people's feelings" affect you! (Wu)
Comments: (original score 47)
In this paper, the use of reduction to absurdity and the use of the word "too concerned" all reflect a certain speculative nature. Disadvantages, the penultimate paragraph of the original text takes "Fan Paopao" as an example, thinking that the operation is reasonable, absolutizing the point of view, and replacing it with Jobs' famous words after guidance.
How other people feel.
Today, with the emphasis on business and fame and fortune, I think we should pay more attention to the feelings of others. Only in this way can our family and society be more harmonious and beautiful.
Since the "Sanlu milk powder" incident, food problems have repeatedly attracted people's attention. People eat steamed bread, and there will be bleach in it. When people eat pork, there will be lean meat in it. When people eat cooking oil, it becomes waste oil. China people have repeatedly lamented that there is nothing in this world that people can eat. In the face of such problems, we may complain about the unfavorable supervision of the national regulatory authorities, but the final problem still comes from everyone. I want to ask: If operators can consider other people's feelings, operate honestly and legally, will we still be worried about food safety now? Will there be such a chaotic market order? Therefore, caring for others and thinking for others are the principles of everyone's life, and they are indispensable. Only by caring about the feelings of others can our society be peaceful.
I once read a report in Life Gang: Little girl is 10 years old this year. She is in the fourth grade of primary school. Her mother is very strict with her. She will be told to study when she is at home. Finally, the little girl couldn't stand her mother's strictness and chose to run away from home against her mother. Her mother found the note left by the girl and cried instantly. She immediately called the police to find a reporter. That was two days after I found that girl. Fortunately, that girl knew to go to the remedial class. If I can't find her, I think my parents will regret it for life. In fact, in our daily life, such examples are not uncommon. Parents pin their hopes on their children, giving them too much pressure to study, and eventually attracting their resistance. I think if the mother thinks more about the child's feelings, cares more about the child's life and reduces the pressure on her, there will be no later regrets. At the same time, if the little girl can put herself in her mother's shoes and communicate her thoughts with her parents, this treatment will achieve family harmony.
In today's society, it is very important for everyone to consider the feelings of others. Only by putting yourself in others' shoes can you get ideas beyond your own feelings and learn how to take care of and care for others.
Learn to consider the feelings of others, and you will get the brilliance of the rainbow; Learn to consider the feelings of others, and you will gain the heart of the sea; Learn to consider other people's feelings, and you will gain lightning power.
The feelings of others are very important. (Zhou) According to
Comments: (original score 47)
Clear point of view, natural expression and sufficient reasoning; The first paragraph of the original text is verbose, but it has been revised after guidance.
How other people feel.
Other people's feelings are like a thorn. When they prick you, the pain will overflow, and when they don't prick you, you will be flustered. The feelings of others are like a net, which binds you. The bones of the whole body can't stretch, and the whole body is uncomfortable. I want to say, life is alive, why not race with bulls, why care about "other people's feelings"!
Su Shi, who writes poems in Linjiang, is handsome and heroic, and is not depressed for personal gains and losses, nor for the feelings of others. He just wants to find his sustenance and yearning in this landscape. Will his life be bound by the feelings of the world? He is like a flowing wind, which can't stop his posture. The feelings of others are like a heavy burden, which presses on their hearts, making them unable to breathe freely and letting them spread their wings and fly. If Su Shi insists on other people's feelings like that, there will be no flowing life, his life will be bound, and his yearning will be locked in a cage, without passion, hope and light.
Ancient British women lived in the shadow of others' feelings. At that time, men liked women's slim waists, which somehow became popular. Women regard feelings as the imperial edict, gird their waists one by one, and wrap them tightly with white cloth. Over time, a woman's waist is as thick as two cups, and she is proud of it. They know what the price is. They do not hesitate to exchange their health and life for appreciation and praise that others are not worth a penny. Stupid people will pay for stupidity. Women's youth and health are losing day by day, but their pride is erupting day by day. They traded other people's feelings for that little weakness. Men's deformed aesthetics ruined that generation of stupid women. However, if those women think more about themselves, don't care about other people's feelings and don't pursue vanity, there won't be such a tragedy.
Self and publicity are synonymous with Han Han. I envy his arrogant life, but I don't have the courage to imitate him. Obviously, he doesn't care about the feelings of others, nor does he care about the criticism or appreciation of the media. He lives his own life, has his own ideas and is not influenced by others. I can't have his charm, so why not learn from his courage? Don't care about other people's feelings, don't put shackles on your own mind, be free and unrestrained.
It is rational to have your own goals and ideals and strive for them, but it is irrational to become another self because of the feelings of others. Life in this world is not easy, so why not live smartly and care about other people's feelings? (Liu Ranran)
Comments: (original score 46)
Clear-cut views, typical examples, have their own thinking. Disadvantages: the discussion of the view of "not caring about others' feelings" is not dialectical enough. A paragraph can be added before the penultimate paragraph to supplement the explanation of the point of view.