This story tells people that in daily life, we don't have to be too hard on ourselves, and we always feel inferior to others, which leads to inferiority complex. Inferiority is a psychological obstacle, which not only hinders one's physical and mental health, but also affects one's progress in thinking and learning.
As the saying goes, "no one is perfect, no gold." Accepting oneself is an important indicator to measure whether a person's psychological state is positive and healthy. Correctly understand the value of one's own existence, identify with one's own ability, and show the psychological set of benign interaction with the environment and others in behavior. Be able to face the shortcomings and deficiencies in life with a smile. Accepting yourself happily, fostering strengths and avoiding weaknesses, and giving full play to your potential will also bring "willow".
Tell you gently:
God does not create useless things.
Maybe you have shortcomings, but I will tell you that shortcomings are also beautiful. Disabled people can't be as free as normal people, but it provides convenience for their thinking to focus on something. Shi Tiesheng experienced this revelation from God after suffering a heavy fate. Humble by shortcomings, learn to find the beauty of shortcomings in another way!
2. Read the following materials and write an article of not less than 800 words as required. I think there are two views: 1) It is similar that gold always shines.
So I believe that one day I will be discovered, recognized and respected. 2) A person's efforts can only achieve qualitative change through quantitative change. Before the moment of qualitative change, you have to achieve quantitative change through a lot of quantitative change and a lot of sweat.
Therefore, it takes a lot of effort and long-term preparation to turn ordinary sandstone into pearls. You have to endure a lot of things in the early stage, but when you become a pearl, you can get a lot of things you want.
On the other hand, even if your previous efforts have reached 99% and you give up before reaching 100%, your efforts will be in vain and there will be no change, so it also reflects a persistent quality.
3. Take farmers and broken cans as reference objects. A water bearer has two buckets, one is cracked and the other is intact. After each long-distance transportation, the intact bucket can always send a full bucket of water from the stream to the owner's home, while the cracked bucket reaches the owner's home, leaving only half a bucket.
In the past two years, the water bearer has to carry a bucket and a half of water to his master's house every day. Of course, a good bucket is proud of being able to fill the whole bucket with water. Where's the broken bucket? He is ashamed of his shortcomings and sad that he can only take half the responsibility.
After two years of failure, the broken bucket finally couldn't help but say to the water bearer by the stream, "I am ashamed and must apologize to you." "Why?" The bearer asked, "Why are you ashamed?" "In the past two years, because my side has been leaking all the way, I can only send half a bucket of water to your host family. My defect made you do all the work, but only received half the effect. " Broken barrel said. The water bearer broke the feeling of the bucket.
After two years of failure. Where's the broken bucket? He said affectionately. One of the barrels has a crack. It can always send a bucket full of water from the stream to the owner's house and spread flowers on your roadside? I understand that you have defects: "I am ashamed:" Did you notice both sides of the road, so I made good use of it. The bearer felt sorry for the broken bucket. A good barrel is proud of being able to fill the whole barrel. I can only send half a bucket of water to your main house, and only you have flowers here.
Two years. "Say broken barrels, broken barrels shine at the moment?" I asked the bearer, one side of the road is full, and the other side is intact. I have to apologize for letting you do all the work. The water bearer hangs from both ends of the pole, and says softly, say to the water bearer by the stream, my defect? I am ashamed of my shortcomings! Broken barrel once again apologized to people. Every time I come from the stream, I want you to pay attention to the blooming flowers on the roadside. Not feeling well again. They are walking on the hillside. After every long-distance pick-up. Of course, at the end of the path, bathed in warm sunshine and intact buckets, these beautiful flowers decorate the host's dining table. ""Why, because he can only bear half the responsibility, the broken bucket finally couldn't help it, and there were no such beautiful flowers on the master's desk. Seeing colorful flowers made him happy a lot, because the water leaked all the way from my side! However, only half of the results were received, but when did the cracked barrel arrive at the master's house? " "There was half a bucket of water left in the first two years, but there were no flowers on the other side of the good bucket. "
Sure enough, the water bearer has to pick a bucket and a half of water to his master's house every day. If you are not such a water bearer, "there are two buckets to be ashamed of!" " For two years, because half of the water leaked on the road, you watered the flowers for me all the way, and you were very sad: "We are on our way back to our host's house."
4. "People's Position Affects People's Behavior" High School Composition 800 words A farmer has two buckets, one of which is cracked and the other is intact. After each long-distance transportation, the intact bucket can always carry a full bucket of water from the stream to the farmer's house. But when the cracked bucket reached the farmer's house, there was only half a bucket left.
For two years, the farmer picked a bucket and a half of water every day and returned to his home. Of course, a good bucket is proud of being able to deliver the whole bucket of water. Where's the broken bucket? He is ashamed of his shortcomings and sad that he can only take half the responsibility.
After two years of suffering, the broken bucket finally said to the farmer by the stream, "I am ashamed and must apologize to you." "Why?" "In the past two years, because the water leaked all the way from my side, I can only send half a bucket of water to your home. My shortcomings made you do all the work, but only received half the effect. " Broken barrel said. The farmer said, "On our way home, I want you to pay attention to the flowers on the roadside."
Sure enough, when they walked on the hillside, the broken bucket lit up at the moment, and he saw colorful flowers on the roadside, bathed in warm sunshine. The sight made him happy a lot. However, at the end of the path, he felt uncomfortable again, because half of the water leaked on the road. The broken bucket apologized to the farmer again. The farmer said gently, "Do you find that there are only flowers on your path, but there are no flowers on the good bucket?" I understand your shortcomings, so I made good use of them and planted flowers on your roadside. Every time I come back from the stream, you water my flowers all the way! These beautiful flowers have decorated my dining table for two years. If it weren't for you, there wouldn't be such beautiful flowers on my desk. "
Yes, everyone, no matter how great, can be said to be an imperfect and defective cracked barrel, but this is not terrible. The terrible thing is that you can't see your own value and say that you are useless, thus breaking the jar and breaking it. However, as long as we cherish it with our heart and foster strengths and avoid weaknesses, life can still produce beautiful flowers. God has given me the ultimate useful talent. There are no perfect people and things in this world. Don't only see your own shortcomings but not your own benefits. Unintentionally inserted willows into the shade. Perhaps, it is precisely because of some of our mistakes and shortcomings that we have achieved more beautiful scenery.
Although Venus has a broken arm, it has become a perfect work of art that attracts worldwide attention. once
5. Read the following materials and write an article of not less than 800 words as required. Reference example: Advantages and Disadvantages Everyone has different advantages, because their working ability is different. "I was born to be useful." That's right. As a business leader, what I want to say is that talent is not discovered, but an opportunity to get ahead. Here is a story: a poor young man wandered to Paris, expecting.
"Are you proficient in mathematics?" The man asked. The young man shook his head shyly.
"What about historical geography?" The young man shook his head shyly. "What about the law?" The father's friend repeatedly asked, and the young man could only shake his head.
"Then write down your address first. I have to help you find a job! " The young man was embarrassed to write down his address, but he quickly turned and left, only to be pulled by his father's friend: "Young man, your name is beautifully written, which is your advantage!" " ""a good name is also an advantage? "Young people see positive answers from each other's eyes." If you can write a name and praise, you can write your article well! "Young people are encouraged to enlarge their advantages a little, and the pace of excitement is relaxed.
A few years later, young people really wrote classic works that are well known to the people. He is the famous French writer Dumas.
The simple story tells us a not simple truth. Our life is like a gold mine. As long as we pay attention and expand a little, we will find an amazing result. As long as we pay attention, there are many such examples in reality, and we can all find them.
Such as: frying egg skin in pretreatment workshop. When we first made this product, we started by frying one pot at a time. After careful research and practice, we gradually developed to one person responsible for three or four pots. The difference between the two is quite big. Its practicality not only saves manpower, material resources and time, but more importantly, it increases output and quality. Before practical use, it is the opposite.
That's because we are good at discovering personal advantages and organizational advantages. When our advantages are discovered, they will accumulate more and more.
Finally, I wish everyone can find their own advantages, make clear their goals, enlarge their goals and give full play to all your motivation! Don't miss any opportunity to develop your potential in life! Everyone needs to get the essential motivation to move forward from psychological self-affirmation. The primary goal of learning self-affirmation is to get satisfaction and motivation from one's own behavior.
You know, doing what you should do well and doing it well is success in itself and the best affirmation for yourself. At the beginning of the article, a story leads to the full text, and then a simple story tells us a complicated truth and leads to discussion. There are many such examples in reality for us to find and discuss. At the end of the article, the theme is finalized and the article is completed in one go. In the process of argumentation, the author always sticks to the given material and expounds the problem from different angles, which is easy to do.
Analysis of test questions: This article refers to the following ideas: (1) Don't sell yourself short, but have the courage to live; (2) Being good at discovering the advantages of others and giving play to their own advantages; (3) Disadvantages and advantages can sometimes be transformed into each other.
6. Read Darwin's Procrastination, choose a writing angle, draw up a title and write an article. Not long ago, a farmer planted five acres of land. This year coincides with the drought, and farmers have to carry water from the river for irrigation. A craftsman saw the farmer working so hard and told him that it was much easier to help him make a waterwheel than to pick it with a bucket, and it was very effective to irrigate the farmland.
The farmer said, "I don't think the waterwheel is better than my bucket." Besides, when you finish the waterwheel, my seedlings may have been * * *. "
The craftsman said, "How can the water you collected meet the needs of the seedlings?" I'm afraid your land will be bare soon. "
The farmer stopped talking and continued to carry water one by one; The craftsman shook his head and walked away.
It is required to choose a good angle, define the concept, clarify the style and draw up a good title; Don't deviate from the content and meaning of the material, don't copy it, and don't copy it.