Last night, our group of old classmates who graduated from high school for 20 years invited our high school class teacher to have dinner together.
The friendship between classmates is very real. No matter how often we meet again, there is no sense of strangeness and distance. Speak so naturally that no one has to pretend. So eating and chatting is very relaxing and enjoyable.
Eating with us, especially our teacher Zhang, makes us more and more respected and close.
He is now the envy of people around him.
After finishing graduate school, children can work in Shanghai and buy their own houses without teacher Zhang's worry.
Whether it is a big family or a small family, it is harmonious and warm. All family members are in good health.
Isn't it very popular now?
Compared with any one, Mr. Zhang is at the forefront.
Really the luckiest person I have ever met. Moreover, Mr. Zhang never hides his happiness.
Teacher Zhang is the head teacher and math teacher in our high school.
Most of them were not very sensible at school.
At that time, it was Chinese teachers and English teachers who made students worship. At that time, the source of knowledge was very limited, not to mention the internet now, and there were few newspapers. Only those books in bookstores were always in the window.
Therefore, at that time, Chinese teachers seemed to know more than us, and English teachers had too wide a knowledge. Our chemistry teacher has a great personality and is a noble and wise old gentleman.
In this comparison, our head teacher and math teacher, Mr. Zhang, is very ordinary.
He is not anxious or dry in class, and he speaks clearly. But I never show off. So I didn't see anything particularly good.
But in retrospect, Mr. Zhang Can's lukewarm is the embodiment of a high level.
You know, at that time, the students in our class were particularly good when they were good, but they were not worried at all.
First of all, we are very hard on our teachers.
Our class's exam results are the best in the class, with sports meeting first, basketball competition first and encyclopedia knowledge competition first.
However, naughty is also the first.
In the middle of the second year of high school, the guidance office of the school, a wooden two-story building that can be regarded as a historical relic, was set on fire by students.
It's the naughty boy in our class.
At the end of the third year of senior high school, the naughty boy in our class climbed the experimental building to steal the test paper and was found by the security section. He jumped from the second floor to escape, but he was caught in failure.
Also, I forgot the exact time. Several boys in our class got into a ball outside the school. To this end, several participants were persuaded to transfer to No.2 Middle School.
All the above events, if the class teacher stalls one thing, I'm afraid they will add fuel to the fire.
However, our teacher Zhang has never lost his temper once.
He was very calm when he told us all these things.
The one who stole the test paper is still full of joy.
In fact, it must be quite bad for him to handle these things.
Fortunately, Mr. Zhang is particularly good at dealing with interpersonal relationships. He gets along well with leaders and colleagues.
The headmaster at that time, and the headmaster in the future, were all friends who played volleyball with Teacher Zhang.
Therefore, we will see Mr. Zhang calmly deal with the mess caused by these mixed boys.
Let's give another example to illustrate how Teacher Zhang manages students.
One year in Tomb-Sweeping Day, the whole school went to visit the grave.
Several naughty boys slipped out of the team and ran back to the classroom to play poker.
Play too hard. Teacher Zhang has already cycled back to school earlier than most troops.
Those guys are still shouting "Xiaohuachong!"
I only heard a faint voice behind me, "Dahua is so boring!"
So several people were stunned and suffocated.
I caught a classmate at the beginning of the party yesterday. At this point, the teacher couldn't laugh himself.
I have been standing on the podium for twenty years. I am also a math teacher, so I personally realize that taking time to talk about math problems and giving students time to think are the most perfect teaching skills.
I have seen many class teachers go into a rage for a little thing, which shows that our teacher Zhang has a high emotional intelligence behind the calm.
It seems to be a blessing, but it is actually a high emotional intelligence, good at paying, and through its own efforts, it has built a bridge to happiness.
Teacher Zhang's life wisdom is more reflected in life.
As mentioned earlier, Mr. Zhang has a very harmonious relationship with the principal and colleagues. If he had wanted to find a director and vice president, it would not have been difficult.
But teacher Zhang clearly knows what he wants and what is most important to him.
He knows how to choose and can make life happier.
Teacher Zhang's lover, our teacher's mother, was working in a winery. Three shifts.
The school has a regular schedule. Therefore, after the child is born, it is Mr. Zhang's own business to take care of the child, pick up the child and educate the child.
If you become a director and a principal, you will have no time to take care of your family.
If you want to be promoted and make a fortune, your wife and children will be left out in the cold and wronged.
Teacher Zhang made his own choice.
Teacher Niang works the night shift and doesn't even want to eat when she sleeps. Teacher Zhang will cook the meal and bring it to the bed.
In teacher Zhang's own words:
So after decades of marriage, the children have graduated from graduate school. Our teacher's mother still doesn't know how to light a gas stove.
Teacher Zhang taught us:
Last year, Mr. Zhang's children got married, and my classmates and I went to the wedding reception. Seeing the teacher's mother, I haven't seen her for many years, and she looks as young as us.
When talking about children's academic performance at dinner, Teacher Zhang said to us:
Teacher Zhang's old father is over ninety years old. The body is still very strong.
Teacher Zhang usually goes to work 200 miles from home.
Come back from work every two weeks.
My first day at my father's house. Teacher Zhang bought vegetables alone, cleaned up alone and made a big table of dishes. My father and Mr. Zhang's brother and family all eat here.
After dinner, Mr. Zhang brushes all the pots and pans by himself.
Go to my father-in-law the next day. It was also teacher Zhang who washed all the meals.
It's not that brothers don't want to help. Teacher Zhang means:
Has our teacher Zhang achieved filial piety, kindness, love and benevolence?
From teacher Zhang, I have a deeper understanding of filial piety.
Many men who are irresponsible to small families will say that he is filial to the elderly, takes care of the extended family and puts family interests first.
In fact, the interests of the family do not conflict with those of the wife and children.
Being able to play every role well is called a person. Being able to make your life what you want to see is called high emotional intelligence.
They always feel that "good" belongs to others, and they just do what they have to do.
Teacher Zhang specially praised our teacher's mother:
"I built a new house for my father and bought the best furniture. Your teacher and mother are good, I totally agree. "
Women are the most immaterial, and they are loved in all directions. Who cares about money and interests?
Every time I see Mr. Zhang, he always says, "money can't be spent."
Even if he is a senior professional title, I know how high a teacher's salary can be. How many billionaires are still hungry for money.
Teacher Zhang is not greedy, but contented.
Among the people I have met, our teacher Zhang has the highest EQ.
Everything in his life is full of "all the best", which seems to be his blessing. In fact, he is good at handling it and is not afraid to pay.
He is not greedy. Everything he wants will be exchanged for what he has.
And what he has, each of us can have, a normal heart, can think of others, willing to pay, regardless.
Having these is a blessing.
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