About "How many parents insist on parent-child reading before going to bed every day, for how long, and what effect have they received?" This question, Bian Xiao sorted out the user's answers from multiple channels, so that everyone can understand it more comprehensively.
1. The following opinions were praised by 129 people and had 12 exchanges and discussions:
"Everything is established in advance, and if it is not planned, it will be abolished." Let's start with children reading Chinese classics. What if the child doesn't want to study? Layers of questioning put a lot of pressure on me at that time. At the same time, I am also thinking, can I make a reading plan for my children first? Make a one-month listening and reading plan for your child first. Then play the Chinese learning machine to the children. When I didn't want to read or didn't want to read, the child asked me more than once: Mom, what's the use of reading these classics of Chinese studies? Because the original intention is to let the child insist on listening and reading, there is no need for her to recite and understand the meaning of every sentence. "Read well, don't be too demanding." Guided by the "reading plan", children have been reading classics for three consecutive years. Those beautiful sentences, sometimes when I say the last sentence, the child will say the next sentence immediately; Sometimes when I hear that she has just finished reading in the Chinese learning machine, her little mouth will follow, because all these contents are memorized in the child's mind. When I showed my child the five pages of A4 paper with red checkmarks, she exclaimed. Unexpectedly, we read so much. The "reading plan" is like an accurate ruler, which will always pull you forward. It was originally tailored according to the actual situation of children. There is no doubt, no worry, just follow suit. The "reading plan" is like a small alarm clock. When we forget what we should read today, you only need to glance at it, and it will remind you, help you remember, and let you quickly devote yourself to reading enthusiasm.
2. The following opinions were praised by 100 people, and there were 28 exchanges and discussions:
I think her mother is great. In the first grade, the children's foundation is not very good, especially math. Can't even use a ruler. The reason is that parents insist on learning Chinese classics every day, knowing that their children are struggling to learn. Once the math teacher looked at the children's almost wrong exercise books and picked up the phone to call their parents. Later, the child's situation remained the same, and parents preferred their children to be poor at math rather than insisting on reading classics. Because children recite a large number of classics of Chinese studies, their memory has reached the level of encyclopedic knowledge. After reading a text once or twice, you can recite it word by word, and your sense of language and understanding ability are particularly good. Parents insist on coming and going in the rain every day, taking their daughters to stumble on the classic road of Chinese studies. Once, because the child was late and didn't recite the content of Chinese studies, she and her child were criticized by the teacher in public, and they would quarrel with the Chinese studies teacher and swear not to learn. The mother of the child said with tears, thanking her for her persistence. Yes, mother's persistence not only improves children's language ability, but also makes them love Chinese studies. I believe that all parents who insist on accompanying their children to study will gain something. Reading, there is a life we yearn for in the book, which enriches our spirit, perfects our personality and sees the beauty of life and an unrepeatable life.
3. The following opinions were praised by 90 people and discussed by 16:
Usually he reads books and pictures, and I tell him stories. Dabao likes this kind of interaction, and I also enjoy this kind of parent-child time and feel particularly warm. In this way, in two years, we read many excellent picture books at home and abroad. Some picture books Dabao likes them very much and will let me read them again and again. On the whole, I am responsive and satisfied. We have been studying for almost a year, and we are going to primary school soon. Suddenly one day, we were surprised to find that Dabao could read all the words in the newspaper, only a few words he didn't know did not affect his understanding of the text at all. In this way, studying together until the winter vacation of the first year of high school, Dabao's literacy has greatly increased, and there is no problem in reading independently. According to his reading level, he could read full-text books, but at that time, full-text books were not attractive to him. So one day Dabao and I went to Xinhua Bookstore, where I found a fairy tale book called Pig Pot and Wolf Monster. This book is rich and interesting, and the illustrations are lovely. I thought Dabao would like it, so I bought one to try. I finished reading a book quickly, but I didn't like it. Later, we moved a whole set of "Pig Pot Wolf Monster Series" home and bought many books selected by Dabao himself. From then on, Dabao began to read independently. I didn't expect the transition to be so smooth! He only reads his favorite books, and the reading time is not required by the teacher.
4. Wonderful answer:
We started parent-child reading two months ago. I used to like reading, hoping to cultivate him to develop a purposeful reading habit, but not every child will have the same effect. Both children will choose their favorite books after going to bed. There are books everywhere in our house, and the boss is within reach, but he still doesn't like reading them at ordinary times, and even always asks me to read them to him. When I let go of my utilitarian heart, although my boss doesn't read books every day, his literacy is still relatively high, which is of great help to primary school learning. I always insist on parent-child reading. The effect of the eldest brother doesn't seem obvious, but the second one especially likes reading. Although he can't read, he can read with dignity according to his memory. Take books with you when you go out. Now that you know more than a dozen words by yourself at the age of three and a half, you think every child is different, just like planting crops and watering them to produce different fruits. The children are getting older, and my reading style has also increased. I read to them, read the dialogue sentence by sentence, and look for other recordings on the listening software. I recorded it for him myself. Finally, I asked him to be a small anchor and choose a story recording every day. Also, I often go to bookstores and libraries in various forms, which are very popular with children and add interest. Even if the child can read books by herself, grandma insists on showing her all kinds of books before going to bed, which sometimes collides with the feeling of reading. So I will definitely insist on parent-child reading, which is a link and a kind of love. May my love enable children to harvest the most suitable things for him in the sea of books!
5. The following opinions were praised by 44 people and discussed by 13:
I am a primary school teacher myself, and I insist on studying with my children. Reading plays a great role, for example, it can help children read, cultivate a sense of language, increase knowledge, broaden their horizons, and cultivate self-cultivation. Second, take action and keep reading. As the title says, keep reading every day. Only when you read it and stick to it will it be effective. Otherwise, fishing for three days and drying the net for two days will not cultivate children's reading habits, nor may they see the role of reading. We said we should keep reading, just keep reading. What if I can't persist? Should we give up? I understand that persistence takes many days and years, but it doesn't mean that we must insist on it every day. I started reading to my child before he could speak, and now he is 6 years old. So children like reading and don't watch TV much. However, I don't promise to accompany my children to read every day.