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Love of addition
Adding love is a method worth using. "Love, people love; Those who respect others will always respect others. " If you love others, others will always love you. We need to love everyone with our heart. Love is a kind of understanding, love is a kind of giving, love is a kind of dedication, love is a kind of support, love is a kind of respect. ...
All our characters should love our parents. As children, we should love our parents. As parents, we should love our children with addition; As a teacher, love students with addition; As friends, we should love our friends. ...
To learn to love others, you must let go of yourself. Let go of yourself here is not to love unconditionally regardless of your own emotions and interests, but to care more about others, tilt your focus slightly, and love your parents, relatives, partners, friends, classmates and people you meet. This is a kind of fraternity. Learn to love with addition, and don't care too much about "cost calculation". I think equivalent exchange is the general principle of commodity exchange, and it is not suitable for adding to love.
It is our philosophical wisdom to love others by addition. We should cherish time, add life well, and love others with addition!
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Minus resentment
Reducing resentment is a good way for us to let go of ourselves. "Good words are warm in three winters, and bad words hurt people in June." I once met a man. She never cares about the consequences and likes to say anything. She doesn't speak straight, but she is pessimistic and decadent, and likes to hurt people's hearts. I think this should be related to her living environment. This inference needs further study, because I don't know her very well either. Speaking is a kind of wisdom. People who can talk will always be given "preferential treatment". When they meet people who can't talk, they should use subtraction to resent, let go of themselves and others.
So what have we thought about the origin of resentment? I think resentment comes from being too concerned about gains and losses. Because of the heavy heart of gain and loss, you will suffer from loss and gain, and you will resent yourself for being stupid, reckless, frivolous, absurd and ignorant, and of course you will resent others. At this time, we will be angry; Because we care too much, we start to hate those things that we don't think are our hearts, and then we will feel sad. So you should know that "contentment is always happy."
Subtracting resentment means letting go of yourself. We should learn to forget yesterday's gains and losses, forget other people's accusations, reduce resentment, live with heart and feel all the beauty with heart. Learn to subtract resentment, and life will be meaningful and happy. We should also understand that everyone has their own views and experiences on things, and we should not be disgusted because of different views. We should respect other people's views and experiences, actively absorb the essence and discard the useless. Change if you do it yourself, and encourage if you don't do it.
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Gratitude doubles
Gratitude is multiplied, which is a magic weapon for a star to exchange for brilliant starry sky. The Chinese nation has a fine tradition of gratitude. The classic expressions of "But how much love there is in an inch of grass, which returns the splendor of three springs" and "The grace of dripping water, which returns one spring" reflect China's recognition and support for gratitude.
We should be grateful to our parents, who have nurtured us and helped us grow up; We should thank teachers, who teach us knowledge and give us guidance; We should be grateful to our friends, who make us no longer lonely and have spiritual comfort. We should thank everyone we meet. They have taught us some truth. Every encounter is meaningful, and it will always give us some life inspiration after meeting.
Gratitude is a philosophy of life and great wisdom of life. Double gratitude can make our life better; Gratitude is multiplied, so that we can experience real happiness.
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To break down worries
Decomposing worries is the best tool to reduce worries. Life is a process of constantly eliminating troubles, pains and self-improvement. Life is also a grand trip, and you will encounter great and small troubles during the journey. These troubles are inevitable and will aggravate your depression. Walk through Qianshan and you will understand the meaning of life.
The so-called worry is just that you didn't get what you wanted, your persistent dream didn't come true, and there is a gap in your heart, which is worry. So it can be seen that each of us has troubles, but what we see are happy people, unhappy people, happy people and unhappy people. This is their different attitude towards troubles and sadness. Happy people are sharing their troubles. If you have five troubles, how many are divided by five?
It is our proper attitude to decompose our worries. Be a brave and happy person, without increasing troubles and sadness. Don't think about things you don't understand, because you are already troubled; People who can't see clearly, then don't look, it's a waste of time.
Use mathematical thinking, do a good job in life's addition, subtraction, multiplication and division, love with addition, resentment with subtraction, gratitude with multiplication, and trouble with division. Addition, subtraction, multiplication and division are the wisdom and philosophy of life.