Although we adults know how important learning itself is, children are faced with a living teacher, and the teacher's feedback to children directly affects them. Therefore, it is actually very difficult to convince children that I love teachers and I love truth more.
Many children hate the course taught by the teacher because they don't like the teacher. First of all, parents should be good at discovering this phenomenon. Once children have this phenomenon, they can communicate with them at the first time to understand the ins and outs of the incident and avoid the expansion of the situation.
At the same time, look for the highlights and interesting points of summarizing subject knowledge, such as mathematics. In fact, most children can experience some fun from mathematics (don't torture them with difficult Olympic math problems, let them have fun in solving problems). Some simple and skillfully designed Olympic math problems will easily stimulate children's interest in learning. Through this breakthrough point, parents can explain to their children the importance of learning, not the importance of teachers' attitude.
Second, there are many ways to retaliate against teachers, and not studying hard is the stupidest one.
After many children don't like the teacher, they will retaliate against the teacher by not learning this course well. In fact, this way is stupid. Although simple, it is actually difficult for children to really understand.
I have come into contact with such students. Parents told me that his children were not appreciated and respected by teachers at school and gradually lost interest in mathematics. After studying with me for a while, children gradually became interested in mathematics (I think the reason why extracurricular teachers are more popular with students is not necessarily because they speak well, but because of one-on-one reasons, children will be more kind to teachers).
I find that students, especially primary school students, have simple ideas. I don't get your respect. You don't like me, and I don't like you. Their revenge is to let you fail the exam in this subject.
In fact, there are many ways to retaliate against teachers, so I won't share them here. But if you don't study hard, it's definitely the stupidest way, because you can't get back at your teacher at all. Although this truth is difficult for children to understand, you can guide them, divert their attention, and let them transfer their anger in other directions.
Third, find other ways to solve the intensified teacher-student relationship.
If there is no good way to persuade children to accept teachers, then parents should find other ways to solve the intensified teacher-student relationship. For example, try not to provoke an argument with the teacher, try to lead the topic to other aspects, and stimulate children's enthusiasm for learning through the accumulation of extracurricular knowledge.
For example, you can find a tutor for your child after class (of course, I know this is not a permanent cure at all, but if the child can't accept the school teacher at all, this is also one of the ways). Through the guidance of the after-class tutor, he gradually became interested in this subject. Different teachers have different teaching methods. Extracurricular teachers often take a one-on-one approach, which is closer to children and will respect them more (well, I admit that you should smile and serve when you receive money, at least you can't be sarcastic.
On the other hand, grades are also an important factor to determine whether students are willing to pay. People are social animals and attach great importance to positive feedback. If a child has been doing well in a certain subject, he will pay more attention to the study of this subject, because subconsciously, he will feel that he is very suitable for studying this subject. This advantage is that he is unwilling to give up easily. Even if he is dissatisfied with this teacher, he will not easily lose this hard-won sense of gain. If the child's own grades are not good, and then he has resistance to the teacher, then he is likely to have resistance to this subject. At this time, if parents work hard to improve their children's grades, he will gain a sense of accomplishment from learning this course and he will work harder. Some students even use this as a way to confront their teachers and constantly expand their advantages in this subject.