First, why is the girl who is chasing suddenly cold? There are three illusions in life. Cell phone vibrates, someone knocks at the door, and she likes you.
This illusion will make you consciously think of the similarities between two people. Maybe those similarities are just popular, but because of her, you feel different. If this is not love, I have nothing to be sad about.
As we all know, when two people first met, they were most interested in each other, and you were both blank in each other's memory.
But as time goes on, you keep investing time, energy and even money in each other.
But the feedback is getting worse, just like buying an old mobile phone on idle fish. The signal is good and bad for a while!
At first, it may be WeChat seconds, and the expression pack is a must. Then it became uh-huh, oh, oh, we'll talk about it later. I'm busy first! This evasive remark.
Everyone's situation is different, and there are many reasons, but the most important thing is that the method is wrong!
Boys often feel that they are constantly chatting with girls, inviting her to dinner, buying her gifts, agreeing to all her excessive or excessive demands, and then one day she will be with herself.
It's like reciting words all night in the math exam the next day.
It's like you're fighting wild, but you're thinking about how to fight wild.
Although love is not a game, it also has its rules and methods;
The essence of love is that two people are attracted to each other, with endless words and endless love. Girls can only develop into love if they are curious and interested in you.
Today I will tell you some ways to make girls more and more interested in themselves!
Second, how to make girls more and more interested in themselves and show their own standards?
Boys with self-standards also mean that you have your own judgments and principles about things and won't go with the flow.
They are all nine-year compulsory education, and most boys and girls are actually similar in the most basic standards of "three views" and "money consumption".
What many boys really ignore is often some details in life.
For example, a girl asks you, shall we drink milk tea or coffee, hot pot or maocai, and go to your home, my home or home?
You decide whether to tell her or not.
In this case, a girl who doesn't say goodbye to you may be true love. What are you waiting for?
Real men should have their own standards, whether it's eating, dressing, sleeping or feeling.
You can tell each other quickly and calmly:
I prefer hot pot to maocai.
I prefer Uniqlo to fashion brands;
I prefer durex to jasper.
Instead of waiting for girls to ask you.
There are many boys who may like a girl around the corner.
What is incompatible with personality, values and living habits? At the moment when the small flame of love is lit, these factors will certainly not be taken into account.
When you are carried away by love, you always put the girl you like first. Anything is acceptable for a girl to be with you.
But girls don't like small fans who always applaud themselves, so they should grasp a degree in the process of getting along.
It's really no good if the three views don't agree. Even if the sea dries up and the rocks crumble, it will last forever.
Mobilize her mood
Probably it is to actively mobilize the girl's emotional changes, so that she likes to chat with you and enjoy the atmosphere of your chat.
Next, we will talk about how to use this method in two stages.
Primitive period
Since you just met the girl and don't know her yet, don't joke at this time, but proper humor can make the girl happy.
You can find topics from her circle of friends, head portraits and other places, but to control the frequency, it is usually good to have a simple chat every few days. If the other person is a person who loves to send friends, you can comment in the circle of friends first, and if the interaction effect is good, you can chat privately.
For example, I saw an interesting thing from your circle of friends.
Girls will ask, what is it?
Just say, I saw your warm eyes on me.
Because everyone will be curious, it is natural for you to ask her this question, and then you will have a chance to find something to say.
For example:
M: Do you like One Piece very much?
W: How do you know?
M: I saw your WeChat avatar, hahaha.
Woman: Mm-hmm.
Did you go to see that movie some time ago?
W: Well, it's fine.
Which role do you like best?
Female: Barabara ...
Fuzzy stage
For example:
M: Your mouth looks very red today.
Woman: Yes, you know this?
M: Hahaha, it's just that last time I went out to play with you, you said you liked it, so I went to a treasure to see it.
Woman: Hahahaha, are you going to buy it for me?
M: You already have it. You need a scarf of this color.
Woman: Not bad, I understand!
Of course, the worries mentioned here are all from the heart. If you don't know how to express them to make the other person understand your thoughts, then you should remember this formula: details+actions.
For example, they all say good night, and they will express their concern like this:
M: Good night.
Woman: Good night.
Man: Don't close the window at night.
Female:
Man: I'm going to climb into your dream (action)
Woman: Ha ha ha ha ha, that's scary.
Man: Remember to cover the quilt. You'd better block the gap around your neck with clothes so that the wind can't get in. I don't want to see you with a runny nose in my dream (details)
W: Well, I know, many brothers don't chat with their sisters, and they don't know how to attract girls through chatting first. Instead, I will take my sister out as soon as I come up, and this time will basically be deleted. If you are lucky enough not to be deleted, she still chats with you enthusiastically, so you should pay attention. It is quite possible that she is the girl with the red envelope. Picking up girls should be done first. She should arouse girls' emotions and explore her window before she can do it. Brothers who don't understand suggest reading The Complete Works of Lao Wang, which is an e-book on Baidu search. It talks about a lot of dry goods in picking up girls, especially the chat skills are super practical. You can win girls by chatting and invite them directly. That's how I changed. There are many girls around now, and the invitations are basically different every day.