A letter from parents to their children: Fan
Son:
Hello, mom went to your kindergarten for a parent-teacher conference last week. The teacher praised you and pointed out your shortcomings. First of all, mom still has a lot of expectations for your middle-class career. Let's talk about a few things that mom wants first, such as eating. Before the small class, you can only eat with a spoon. I hope the teacher will teach you to eat with chopsticks at the beginning of the middle class. After all, people in China should learn to eat with chopsticks. When you go to the bathroom, you only tell the teacher in small classes? I want to poop and pee? Will you learn to talk to the teacher in the middle class? I want to go to the bathroom to wipe my ass? . You know, you have your own privacy when you say this. Mathematics, the middle class began to teach addition and subtraction, right I never taught you at home. Later, I saw that you learned a little with Wukong's literacy. Anyway, mom wants to learn from kindergarten teachers. Can't you learn addition and subtraction within ten in elementary school? There is also the understanding of geometric figures. What concepts did the teacher introduce, such as quadrangle, triangle, square and trapezoid? And mind games. I wonder what game the teacher will play for you? Moreover, playing with children, mothers also know that bumps are inevitable, but they still have to learn to have a sense of self-protection.
Next, let's talk about some problems that teachers have responded to. First, your communication problem: Mom knows that you are slow and don't like to communicate with strangers. The teacher's reaction is that you don't like to raise your hand to answer questions and express it to others. Well, this character is innate, and I also know that children who don't like to show themselves are not liked by teachers. What should I do? If children know how to communicate with adults and express their ideas, they are not children, but adults, right? Just like your father and I, we are actually people who don't like to communicate with others. Dad is a technical geek. Although my mother does the work of teaching others, she doesn't like to associate with others, but you are still a child. My mother still wants you to cultivate your bold personality and dare to express yourself. Although your personality is born, the acquired environment will still affect you, so you still have to give yourself a chance to be brave!
Second, your attention is not focused. I've also noticed this problem deeply, son. In fact, it is a kind of thinking defect that makes you unable to concentrate, or we can understand it as a bad habit. You can't concentrate when the teacher is in class, or you can't concentrate for a long time. The teacher must call your name so that your thoughts can come back. Mom has always told you that you have too much energy when you are away, and you can't concentrate when you are really focused, so you don't. When my mother was a child in kindergarten, I clearly remember the teacher asking us? Sit up straight, put your hands behind the chair, don't talk or move? . Don't underestimate this habit. In fact, now that I think about it, it is a meditation in disguise. Son, whether attention can be concentrated to the greatest extent is a decisive factor that directly affects IQ! Maybe you are still in kindergarten and haven't had this experience yet, but my mother still wants to tell you that learning is definitely not a stress-free and compulsive thing, and learning can't be a relaxed and happy thing. Mom and dad learned it all the way when they were young. When you read this letter, you may really understand what mom said. Although learning is hard work, it can certainly be relaxed to some extent. You can let your father learn to read instead of dying.
Finally, because of writing this letter, my mother turned over the photos of you from birth to now. From your birth, you can climb, stand and walk, until you go to kindergarten, and you have new needs in each period. My mother believes that as long as our parents give you corresponding needs and warm love at every stage of your growth, don't worry about the rest, right? Mother finally said to herself: the seedlings will not grow long, and the children will grow up by themselves!
I wish my son a happy middle school career!
Love, mom and dad.
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A letter from parents to their children: Fan
Dear baby:
How time flies! Suddenly, you are five and a half years old. You are already a sensible child in Class 3 of the experimental kindergarten, and you are also the brother of many children in this kindergarten (Kissing Class and Doudou Class). Son, you've grown up! I still remember your little appearance when I first came to this kindergarten. At that time, every time my mother handed you over to the teacher, my mother left in a hurry in your cry. At that time, you were timid and introverted, didn't like to talk, and didn't dare to let go of your mother's hand and play with your children. But today, mom and dad want to say: you have grown up! Be sensible! You have many advantages, such as cheerful, confident, enthusiastic and lively, and you always have a large group of good friends around you. Son, I'll tell you another secret: your courage makes your mother strong, and your mother won't cry when she sends you to kindergarten! Mom is as strong as you! In the past two years in kindergarten, my parents often have a lot of feelings when I see you grow up so healthily and happily.
You are like a sapling. Over the past two years, many children, such as Grandpa, Grandma, Dad, Mom, Teacher Ma, Teacher Wang and Teacher Lu, have grown up with you, played games happily and studied hard together. Every smile you bring back from kindergarten, every song you sing, every picture you draw and every story you tell make mom and dad happy and moved. At this time, I think mom and dad, like you, should thank the teachers and children around us! Everyone is cultivating you with love and wisdom, tolerating your small mistakes and caring about your growth and life. So, do you want to stand up and bow to thank you?
Children, in the beautiful kindergarten, in your happiest childhood, you learned to be hygienic, polite, obey the rules, share happily, unite and be friendly, and so on. You know, these are the most important things in a person's life. Someone asked a great scientist: Where did you learn the most important thing? Kindergarten? . So children and parents also think that you learned the most important things in life in kindergarten: hygiene, courtesy, rules and sharing. We all think that you will be a great person when you grow up.
Dear child, you are actually great now. You love your job. When eating, you know how to help your mother with the meal. After dinner, you step on a small stool to wash dishes and pots, not only to clean the inside, but also to clean the outside. Now you have learned to wash your face, brush your teeth, wash your feet and wash your socks. Every day at school, you put on socks and shoes and watch you do what you can happily. Mom and dad are happy, too. You pay attention to hygiene and don't litter. You are very polite and can take the initiative to say hello to teachers, uncles and aunts. Speaking of communication with children, mom and dad are also very happy to see you having fun with your children, being polite and not fighting. We hope you can get along well with every child, be tolerant and tolerant. Be a sensible man that everyone likes.
Finally, I hope our lovely baby will be happy every day!
Parents who love you the most.
20 14 10 month
A letter from parents to their children: Fan Wensan
Dear baby:
How time flies! How time flies! In a blink of an eye, you have grown up slowly and will soon become a primary school student. 6 years, because of you, we feel too much happiness and happiness; For six years, because of you, we gradually lost ourselves in life, thinking about you in our minds, thinking about you in our mouths and caring about you in our hearts. Six years ago, when you were born in this city, your crying was so loud and powerful that you must be a healthy baby. Sure enough, you are a reassuring child. When you are sick, you are not picky about eating, sleeping, wearing and crying. Watching you change day by day, you can call mom, walk, eat by yourself and greet people, which gives us great happiness.
As you grow up and enter the kindergarten, you get a good education, learn more and more knowledge here, realize the infinite charm of knowledge, learn a lot of truth about being a man, and let many children. When your mother sees that you are happy, friendly, filial to your elders, thrifty, caring and considerate, when your mother is ill, you will quietly hand me a tissue. When you see that your mother's hair is white, you will say that I will never make her angry again, so that her mother will never get old. Mom is really happy for you. She believes that my baby has become more and more mature and sensible. Baby, here, mom wants to say to you: mom is really proud of you, proud of you.
Baby, you are mom and dad's child. This blood relationship was established in a previous life and was given by God. Mom and dad cherish it very much. But mom and dad want to be your friends, your closest and best friends, lifelong friends. Baby, the road is still long, and it will be more difficult. Here, as your parents and friends, I take this opportunity to exchange some views with you on the problems that still exist in you, hoping to inspire you and let us encourage you, ok?
First of all, mom wants you to pay attention to forming good habits. Baby, habits are very important to people. In a sense? Habit is the greatest guide in life? . Habits are accompanied by people's life, affecting people's lifestyle and personal growth path. Good habits include good study habits, living habits, thinking habits and so on. Good habits can benefit you for life. It can make people put wings on their wings and fly to heaven. Bad habits will make people handcuff themselves and fall into hell. When you were growing up, although your mother wanted you to have a happy childhood, when she saw you always watching TV, always wanting to eat snacks, washing your face, brushing your teeth and grinding your teeth, she often criticized you and blamed you, which hurt your young heart. Here, my mother, please forgive me. Mom must pay attention to the method in the future. But, baby, you have to believe that no matter how strict your mother is with you, it's because she loves you too much. I'm afraid, baby, your behavior is not good. I'm afraid baby, all you know is that fun is not good for study! Baby, if you are older, you will gradually understand your mother's desire for success.
Second, mom wants you to be a strong person. Baby, whether a person's will is strong or not may be the key factor for a person's success! The road of life is bumpy, you will get flowers and applause in your future life, and you will also encounter failures and setbacks, so you must remember: don't lose heart in the face of failure; Not proud of achievements; Not discouraged in the face of setbacks; Don't pass the buck. Children's dull days need us to be strong, and we need to work hard in obscurity, day after day, not to indulge ourselves! Next, learning is your main task. If you want to get excellent grades, you must have diligent quality and strong will. Listening attentively in class requires your strong will; Studying hard requires you to have a strong will; It takes a strong will to cultivate good habits. Mom wants you to start from these little things and try to cultivate your strong will so that you can live in the future? Win without arrogance, lose with grace? Stand the test of life and be a strong person!
Third, mom wants you to be a confident person. Self-confidence is the cornerstone of success, inferiority is a stumbling block to success and a stumbling block to a happy life. A confident person is sure that he can do things well and believes that he can do it. When a person has self-confidence, he is so energetic in doing everything, as if the earth has given him infinite strength and hope, and everything in front of him is full of joy, as if he had seen the fruits of victory and a sweet smile. Self-confidence is a wonderful power, it is the driving force of life. Baby, if you refuse to show yourself in front of others, such as singing and dancing, and think that others will laugh at you, it is your lack of confidence and inferiority. Baby, everyone has their own strengths and potentials. If you can play them out, you will be surprised. Please always say to yourself:? I can do it! ? Believe in yourself, mom believes that you are the best!
It is late at night. Seeing you sleeping, mom wants to say a lot. My mother also wants you to be honest and trustworthy, responsible and know how to love children. Let's work together, shall we?
hope
Happy and healthy! Learn and progress!
Love your mom and dad forever.
June 20 15 14