Educating children is the unshirkable responsibility of parents, and family education is the foundation of all education. The influence of parents on children is one of the factors that can not be ignored in the process of children's growth, which is subtle and lasting.
Personally, I think that in the process of children's growth, we should mainly do the following aspects:
First, give children a harmonious home.
The healthy growth of children is inseparable from a peaceful and safe family environment. First of all, a harmonious and peaceful family atmosphere gives him a sense of psychological security and happiness. To make children develop in an all-round way, a harmonious family is very important, and a warm family is established. Only in this way can they have confidence and interest in learning. At home, we should not only give children a harmonious and happy study space, but also cultivate their basic life skills, self-care ability, will and love to overcome difficulties as much as possible. Third, take time out to study and play with your children. Cultural knowledge is important, but games are essential for children. Parents should let their children get the joy of success in their studies and games, and let their children fully find fun in their studies and games. Let children feel the happiness of living in the family. Give children a happy growth space.
Second, parents should educate their children patiently.
The junior high school stage is the stage when children "cross the hurdle". Due to various reasons, their academic performance has declined, and their parents are anxious and impetuous. There is opposition between children and parents. At this time, parents should calm down and learn to wait patiently for their children's growth. When you get along with children at ordinary times, you will always find that many words and deeds of children are not in line with parents' wishes, and sometimes even unreasonable. However, parents should give their children a chance to defend themselves, listen to their opinions patiently, and let them feel their mistakes in their parents' patient persuasion and education, and then take the initiative to improve. Parents' expectations and behaviors for their children often play a key role. At the same time, school education is equally important, and only the joint efforts of both sides can produce results.
Third, cultivate children's good self-confidence.
In the growth of children, parents should guide their children not only to work hard, but also to try their best. Even if the result is not the best, as long as they work hard, they will be the best. Only by letting children jump and succeed through their own efforts can children experience the joy of success and establish self-confidence. Parents should not reprimand their children too much when they make mistakes. First of all, they should educate their children to have the courage to bear mistakes, and then help them analyze where they are wrong, why they are wrong, what consequences they will have, and how to correct them in the future. Encourage your children, see their progress, affirm their achievements, and don't blindly criticize their efforts and failures. Build confidence in children. Self-confidence is a gradual accumulation process. Children should not be afraid to do something because it may fail, but should be willing to do something because it may succeed. Because this is a step-by-step training process, we need to pay attention to this point all the time, whether in small things in life or in games and learning. Children need help and love in life. As parents, it is not a complete substitute, but a reasonable care and training. Let children know that self-esteem and self-confidence are built by themselves, not by others. In this way, they can cultivate their independent and sound personality.
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2. Write a composition from the perspective of children and with kindergarten as the theme. Please point out that Xiangyang is the name of the kindergarten I once attended. Xiangyang Kindergarten is a beautiful two-story building, painted orange and dark green. There are all kinds of trees around the house, and there is a big yard in front of the door. The children are out of class.
Under the guidance of teachers, some play slides and swivel chairs; Some swaying; Others are playing with sand in the sandpit. We have three teachers: Miss Wang, who teaches languages, Miss Zhao, who teaches mathematics, and Miss Li, who teaches English. These three teachers are very kind to me.
The children are fine. We have two nutritious meals in kindergarten every day. The food was delicious and the children scrambled to beg. Haha, isn't that a beggar? Both the teacher and the children were amused by the word. Actually, I just went to kindergarten.
There was no kitchen in kindergarten at that time. At that time, we took a small lunch box from home every day. In summer, teachers are afraid that the dishes brought by their children are not fresh, so they steam them one by one for fear that the dishes will go bad. If you have children,
Our food was poor, so the teacher gave his own food to the children. He was hungry. The teacher is very careful with us. Under the teacher's education, I formed a good habit of speaking hygiene and not eating snacks, and learned a lot.
Knowledge. I love my kindergarten. I love my teachers as much as my mother.
It is natural for parents to write a composition introducing their children from their parents' point of view. When parents have children, they will naturally have good expectations for their children's future. But every parent has different expectations for their children. People often say ".
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After graduation, I will stay abroad to develop, have a good career, have a good income, have my own house and car … and live a happy life;
The purpose is: let the children go to school as much as possible, and parents will recognize it.
I am also willing to send my children to college. There is no way for children to be admitted. One more thing: after the child finishes reading.
A little culture can read, keep accounts and write letters ... just enough. Make a living early, never ask for it.
It is enough to have a job, a skill and a stable life; What's more, I never thought about these problems at all, and I rushed forward with the idea of counting one day at a time. Who knows what this child will look like in the future, whether it will get better or worse? ...
These different views are put in front of parents, and everyone can naturally distinguish between high and low, but you don't have to say much. For the latter two kinds of people, even if you persuade him, he may not listen.
I think these expectations are too low. I advocate that parents should expect more from their children, that is, they should be on an equal footing with the best people and cultivate their children into outstanding talents: scholars, scientists, writers and artists ... wouldn't it be better?
To know what kind of thoughts people have, what kind of actions they will have. If people have a lofty ideal goal, they will work towards that goal. On the contrary, if they stick to the lowest idea, they don't have to work hard. It is difficult for children educated by their parents to enter a good university, and their development will naturally be limited.
The ancients said: "If you want it, you must ask for it. If you want it, you must ask for it." Parents who have extremely low expectations for their children can be said to be "if you want it, you must get it." Isn't this a very bad thing? Nowadays, those people with little education, low moral character and barbaric behavior in society can only make a living and even do all kinds of bad things for nothing. Isn't this the result of the education of parents with low expectations?
Some people say that it is unrealistic to expect too much from children. Many children have many problems just because their parents expect too much from them. ...
This statement is wrong. Whether a child is successful in education is a question of educational thinking and methods, not a question of "expectation". Therefore, it is always good and necessary to expect higher, and it is by no means wrong.
Modesty has always been a virtue in our national tradition. It seems that it is better to bow your head in front of people. Americans educate their children: "Be president when you grow up!" As soon as the child has an accident, the adults say, "When you grow up, don't you want to be president?" China's parents are afraid that no one will say, "Work hard, son, and be a teacher when you grow up."
Prime Minister ... "If the child really said that, the adults will definitely reprimand him:" Don't talk nonsense! "Can't let children have higher ideals? Can a child without lofty ideals and goals have the motivation to work hard?
Needless to say, there are many more questions here.
Rethink the problem. May parents have higher expectations for their children, work harder and train our children better and better!
I think it is urgent to write a 300-word composition from the perspective of parents. In my father's eyes, I am divided into two equal parts, half excellent and half poor. The excellent part includes morality and filial piety, and I have courage. Poor parts include stuttering and ADHD. As for my grades, it is divided into two equal parts, half excellent and half poor. There was a math exam, and I finally got 96 points. As soon as I got home, I reported good news to my father like a magpie. I am so angry that I don't know what to say. Well, about half a year ago, during the summer vacation, we went back to Shihezi, our hometown in Xinjiang. My father took me to the amusement park in Xiyuan and had an addiction. I got on a pirate ship and fastened my seat belt. That's so cool. I feel like a slide, and I'm not afraid at all. Look at my dad, his legs are shaking all the time, and he can't find the north when he gets off the boat. I really have courage in my father's eyes. My most annoying shortcoming is my stuttering. One day, I was telling my father a math problem. Suddenly, an apple tree was called an apple tree by me, which almost made my father laugh. From then on, my famous saying "Apple, Apple, Apple, Apple, Apple". Hey, I'm cute in dad's eyes! I hope it helps you. Please adopt me.
5. A 350-word composition written from a child's perspective Part I: The teacher's kindness is like the sea. Your light shines for me, your hair is white for me, your back bends for me, and your life exists for me.
Your smile is a beautiful dream, your concern is simple love, your story is the key to life, and your handwriting is the road sign for tomorrow. Teacher's kindness is like a mountain, teacher's kindness is like a sea, and I am always with you all the way! Teacher, everyone says that you are cultivating the pillars of the motherland; I want to say that you are the pillars of the motherland.
You have propped up the backbone of our generation! You are like a red candle, giving all the heat and light to the younger generation! Your character and spirit can be summed up in two words-burning! Keep burning! Ah, with you, the garden is so gorgeous and the earth is full of spring! Teacher, please open the window and have a look. All this love and this garden full of peaches and plums are paying tribute to you! Without the nourishment of your thoughts, how can so many beautiful flowers of the soul bloom? Ah, teacher, engineer of human soul, who is not praising you! Your lecture is rich and colorful. Every chapter seems to open a window in front of me and let me see a colorful new world ... Chapter II: My deskmate's name is Yin. She has a pair of big eyes, thick eyebrows, a small cherry mouth and a ponytail, which looks a bit "beautiful".
It's just that her teeth are not good-looking, and there are two small tiger teeth, so two small dimples are exposed to cover it up. She has a strange temper. Look, she's angry again. As soon as she opens her mouth, she curses.
Even the bully in the class will listen to her. So whenever she is angry, people around her will run away.
But as long as she is happy, she is my sister, and I will buy you food! No matter older or younger than her, call her sister. Because she can eat, her classmates really call her sister! (She is my sister) Speaking of her advantages, that's a lot.
First: love learning and labor. Second: Love to help classmates.
Third ... there are many anyway. There are many shortcomings.
First: I accidentally lost my eraser in class. Second: I always joke in class.
Third … Do you like my deskmate? My favorite teacher My favorite teacher is the head teacher of our class: Miss Liu. Although Miss Liu is retired now, I still miss her, and she left a deep impression on me.
Every time our class finishes the exam, Mr. Liu is busy handing out papers to us. Don't underestimate Miss Liu in her fifties.
When I'm in class, I make small moves below. Teacher Liu will find out. In the final exam.
We are all taking exams seriously, but Mr. Liu is correcting my homework and staring at whether we are playing or not. Because Mr. Liu is a very careful teacher, he has been staring at us for a while, afraid that we will copy other people's books.
Prepare a program for me one month before Children's Day every year. If you don't behave well, you will be scolded by the teacher.
If the program doesn't win the prize, the teacher will say that we didn't perform well. Try harder next time. Not only our whole class likes Miss Liu, but also my younger brothers and sisters like Miss Liu.
Article 4: My good friend Pumbaa, everyone has his own personality and characteristics. Let me introduce my good friend Pumbaa to you! My good friend's name is Pumbaa. She cares about her classmates and loves the group. No matter who is in trouble, she will lend a hand to help him.
I remember playing with Pumbaa and Hengheng on a sunny noon. Suddenly, a boy came out of nowhere and knocked me down. My leg was bleeding. Pumbaa saw it. Come here quickly and help me back to class to take medicine at once. He kept asking me, "Does it hurt?" I was deeply moved to see her anxious and worried. Another time, after school, the students finished their duty, turned off the lights and prepared to leave, only to find Pumbaa still cleaning the garbage on the floor at the Health Corner until the classroom was cleaned.
She is often the last to leave the classroom, which makes the classroom cleaner. How's it going? This is my good friend Pumbaa. Isn't she great? We should learn from her, care about our classmates, love the collective, and be excellent pupils in 2 1 century.
Chapter 5: The Greedy Cat At school, I am a quiet little girl, but at home, I am a heinous "greedy cat". On this day, I was wandering around the living room, and my mother brought back a big bag of long things with yellow color and hair.
I was overjoyed: haha, God helped me. It's not pretty, but I think it must be delicious. At this time, because it was getting late, my mother went to the kitchen to cook. I landed my feet lightly and observed the kitchen carefully.
Like a thief, hehe. I took out a long "small pillar" from my bag and bit it gently.
"Bah, bah, bah, bah, bah, bah, bah, bah, bah, bah, bah, bah, bah, bah. I was afraid of exposure, so I put it under the table gently.
At this time, my mother came over and saw that the "little pillar" was bitten. She said to me helplessly, "This grocer actually deducted my weight." I was shocked and cried, "Ah, Mom, I did it. I never dare again. " It seems that gluttony is not a good thing! One of my favorite teachers is Miss Bao.
Miss Bao is our head teacher. She plays with us like a child and cares about her classmates. Once, our class bought a big skipping rope for the whole class.
After class, the students ran to the playground to jump rope. Teacher Bao saw it and ran over and said, "I play, too." Teacher Bao jumped up. "One, two, three ..." Miss Bao jumped thirty times.
We all applauded for her. Another time, I accidentally went into a small pit and sprained my ankle. I went to the orthopedic hospital with my mother, and a doctor wrapped it for me.
6. How to write the composition "Love Education, Responsibility" from the perspective of parents? Love is the cornerstone of education. Love is the key to the success of education. Love is the foundation of teachers. Love is the soul of education. Education is a responsibility. This responsibility tells us to do better. Responsibility teaches us to start work with love. The work of early childhood education is trivial, and there will be no vigorous achievements or outstanding achievements. 23 years have passed. I will spread my love silently in the dribs and drabs of my work. 1, I love every child, care for every child, and treat every child equally, regardless of whether the parents of the child are managers or workers, whether the ability of the child is strong or poor, whether the child is ugly or handsome, whether the parents of the child support the work or are picky in every way. 2. Create an atmosphere full of care, warmth, equality, respect and support for a child (1) and the relationship with parents, give full play to teachers' professional advantages, help parents understand early childhood education, help parents establish a good parenting style, respect the important role of parents in early childhood education, communicate with parents in time about the specific situation of children in kindergarten, and establish an equal, trusting and cooperative relationship with parents, (2) and Help each other and maintain a harmonious, equal and safe psychological atmosphere. Set an example for young children. Maintain a consistent education. Make education more appropriate and effective. (3) Relationship with children: Let children feel caring with friendly body movements or expressions. When children behave well, gently touch their heads and meet their needs enthusiastically and timely. Respect their abilities and ask them to do what they can and observe carefully. Give timely and effective help when necessary, encourage and affirm when children make progress, enhance their confidence and make them have the desire to try new things. Respect children's special preferences for certain items, and allow children to take their beloved things with them safely. Let children feel safe, and gradually let children show self-confidence and initiative. Come to the park happily and grow up healthily. 3. Respect each child's individual differences and understand each child's different level of development. Be good at discovering the development advantages and potential of each child. Take the following measures for children who need care and care (1) and help children with poor ability in time and effectively. (2) individual education, explaining and guiding methods to children with poor ability alone. Educate children patiently. (3) Practice repeatedly to help children practice repeatedly. (4) praise, let children build self-confidence. Never say I'll never arrive. I am good at my job. Teacher's love is a kind of rational love. Teacher's love includes maternal love, which is superior to maternal love, because it is the perfect combination of strict requirements and careful teaching, and because it breaks through the blind doting of mothers. Teachers' love is selfless, which is a habit formed in the past 23 years: no matter when, where and under what circumstances, children will always be the first. Don't worry, parents, loving children has become a natural and loving thing. I remember a saying: responsibility is to care about others and the whole society. With responsibility, life has real meaning. For teachers, responsibility comes first. Without responsibility, love is like a tree without roots, passive water and a castle in the air! It is such a high sense of responsibility that teachers have great enthusiasm and love for education. Responsibility can make love a miracle and make a little teacher's work very great. Rooting responsibility in education can make ordinary people shine. But why can't some children always insist on finishing one thing from beginning to end? Why are some children too headstrong? Why do some children lack the perseverance to overcome difficulties? Why are some children indifferent to others? ..... The reason is that children lack a sense of responsibility. Parents should hold their children responsible for their words and deeds. As long as he has the ability to take responsibility, he should face it bravely. He should not be allowed to escape and shirk, and adults should not stand up for him. Now, the teacher has been listening to her footsteps and has been stumbling on this road for eleven years. She was moved by the people around her: she likes walking. She likes to go to the podium and look at dozens of pairs of eyes of expectation and trust. She likes to pick up chalk, navigate for young ships, open the door of wisdom for us and help us light the ideal lamp ... and we are also influencing her soul, enriching her life and making her life beautiful ... which also makes her more aware of how important a sense of responsibility is as a teacher. Only with a high sense of responsibility can we play happy notes. Looking back on the teacher's teaching experience for more than ten years, she can always maintain high morale and vigorous work because of her love for education and her belief in "doing one thing, loving one thing and doing one thing well". Only with a high sense of responsibility can she shine the light of achievement. Whether a teacher is responsible or not is an important factor to determine whether a teacher is effective in his work and whether he can teach and educate people better. It is also the key to determine whether they can achieve something personally. Only with a high sense of responsibility can they have a rational understanding of their own quality level, and can they constantly improve themselves, realize their personal take-off and make a difference in their ordinary posts. With a high sense of responsibility, they can get twice the result with half the effort by touching people with their emotions, and they will give back their love and gain success. Because they have the responsibility of education, we should respect teachers, who are the soul of human beings. It shoulders the future of students, the future of the country and the future of the nation. This profession requires a high sense of responsibility and professionalism. Every teacher loves and dedicates all his love, patience, care, sincerity and responsibility to educate us and make us useful talents in society! Let's join hands and achieve tomorrow's life with responsibility. Let's work happily, establish a positive and responsible attitude, carry forward the spirit of unity and hard work, and Qi Xin will work together and take the initiative to assume its own responsibilities. Together, we will sail the cultural carrier of "Yunnan ethnic and folk arts and crafts trading market" to a brighter shore! Let us believe that responsibility will make our life better! Make a tool.
7. Composition: Three Chinese New Year articles, one from the perspective of children, one from the perspective of adults, and one from my hope, hope! Finally, I look forward to the Spring Festival. We will be very happy! The new year has arrived, and the past is like the wind, taking away all my previous memories. This year, I started a new life. "During the Chinese New Year, we all set off firecrackers ..." This was sung by ourselves. Look, what a happy Spring Festival! Every household is red, with couplets, lanterns and jiaozi. The whole family is too busy. After dinner, I took my sister's hand and ran to the street in one breath. "How beautiful!" I can't help exclaiming. This street is full of people and vehicles. Let's stroll around the street. What? Here comes the lion lantern charmer! You see, the lion's head is swinging from side to side, which looks fierce, but it's drilling around, so I'm a little worried. What if it falls? Then I thought about it, how could such a clever lion be! So I continued to calm down and look at the lights. There were so many people that I had to jump up and watch. "Elder sister, elder sister! The lantern is coming again! Look at those lanterns! Let's go there and have a look! " Sister shouted. "Lantern? Lantern! I finally met you. " I thought there were fewer and fewer lights now, and I might not see lanterns this year. This makes me overjoyed! I responded happily: "Let's go!" My sister listened to me and said something in a foreign language, but she is really a monk. I'm confused. I pulled it to see the lantern. Colorful lanterns are so beautiful. Lanterns are changing in the hands of men and women, and suddenly four big characters are released: "Happy New Year" and "Happy New Year." I can't remember how many words I lined up. The melodious sound of suona flute enters the eardrum. Not to mention the songs of the men and women, "Come in the first month, celebrate the New Year ..." The voice is sweet and beautiful, and the dance is dazzling. It is better for us to enjoy ourselves than to be vague in our dreams. There are many programs below, and clowns with big faces make people laugh from time to time. It's really full of laughter. It was late at night, and the street was full of laughter. My sister took me, and I reluctantly left. My parents have fallen asleep, and they have been brought into a sweet dream by the joy of the Spring Festival ... Today, my sister and I were talking about watching lights in bed, and I drifted into a dream.