It tells the story of a 7-year-old girl who inherited her mother's talent. When she entered the first grade, she showed great talent in mathematics, and she didn't care what the teacher asked.
When the girl's extraordinary ability became more and more prominent, her grandmother appeared. The girl has been living with her uncle before, and a battle for custody is going on fiercely.
At the same time, grandma and uncle's two completely different educational concepts can't help but make people think deeply.
On the one hand, she is a grandmother who gives her children "sea tactics" all day, and on the other hand, she is an uncle who lets her go to primary school first and learn to get along with children. Who will Mary, a talented girl, choose?
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John Galsworthy said gracefully:
Everyone is eager to be respected, so is the relationship between parents and children.
Mary's mother, a seven-year-old girl, is a math genius and one of the smartest people in the world. She has made great achievements in mathematics at a young age, and her future is limitless.
But in fact, she is not happy. At this time, parents may be confused. What's wrong with her grades?
I want to ask: if a person is forced to deal with cold numbers all day, and the people and things he loves are forbidden to contact, will you be happy?
Under the cloak of genius, mathematicians have no friends and hobbies. Her hobby can only be the process of becoming famous. Will that person still be happy?
Mary's mother is such a person. Although she is very talented in mathematics, she is what people often say as a "genius".
But Mary's grandmother is a bossy person. To make Mary's mother famous, she is not allowed to touch anything.
Sports, entertainment and love are all things she can't satisfy.
Although Mary's mother made great achievements in mathematics, she was unhappy in the end and committed suicide.
Before committing suicide, the mathematician gave his daughter Mary to his younger brother Frank.
Because, she understands that a genius must first learn to be a man, learn to be happy, and learn to satisfy and enrich himself before becoming a genius.
To outsiders, my uncle Flack may have accomplished nothing:
Although he received a good education, he is still a ship repairman.
When people reach middle age, they have to take their sister's children and squeeze them into a small room.
Although I have some friends, I am not married. ...
But the education he gave Mary was very touching-
Mary inherited her mother's talent in mathematics and was different from others since she was a child.
Frank didn't train her with such a rigid education, but took her to play, respected her ideas and made Mary's character develop rapidly.
She is no longer the melancholy child who can only do math problems silently, but will cry, laugh and be happy. She has the fun that childhood children should have, not only growing up healthily, but also getting better and better.
In the film, grandma knows that Mary is as talented in mathematics as her mother, and wants to win back custody and let Mary complete her unfinished dream.
But in order to obtain custody, Mary's first guardian, her biological father, was invited to appear in court.
In court, Mary's father dictated that she was willing to award custody to her grandmother. Mary cried when she knew it.
It turns out that her father lives in the same city as her, but she has never looked for her and doesn't even know what she looks like. Mary once had doubts about human nature.
But instead of making a long speech to comfort her, Frank took her to the hospital and waited for a long time, just to witness the moment when the whole family was happy when a child was born.
Many things happen. In the middle of the night, a child was born in the hospital.
Mary looked at the happy faces of the family, and she also smiled.
Then Frank said to her, "This is the scene when you were born." Mary is happier, saying that she is the source of happiness.
Frank's simple behavior and short sentences saved the miserable Mary.
It's really touching here, because my uncle is not only telling Mary, but also telling everyone of us:
Everyone in the world is expected to exist. In the vast sea of people, you can be a genius or not.
However, there are always people who are really happy for your existence.
At the end of the film, Mary was awarded to her uncle after a long and difficult lawsuit.
However, her talent is also excavated, so she also needs to go to college.
On the other hand, her primary school career is not over. Every morning, she still goes to class happily with the children on the school bus and makes many good friends in primary school.
She no longer doubts whether she is rejected or lonely, but is very happy every day.
The film is over here, but as a parent, I feel gratified and think of a question at the same time:
What should I do when educating my children?
I think there is only one thing: understanding and respecting children.
Every day, children are eager to ask after school. Have they finished their homework? How was the exam?
Are these necessary? Is the child happy?
Therefore, before making a child a genius, respect him, let him arrange his own play and study time and grow up happily!
I am CC sauce, my son Tang Tanggang is a freshman, and my daughter Yuan Yuan is going to junior high school. For the healthy and happy growth of my two children, I have been learning parenting knowledge since their birth.
Here, I want to share with you some experiences about children's education, psychology and safety, and look forward to sharing parenting experiences with you so that our children can grow sturdily.