Let's talk about children first. Because the child is in the process of growth, all aspects of development are not perfect, attention is short, and self-control is poor. Many things are instinctive, and it is easy to be distracted by all kinds of novelty and fun things outside.
Going to school is a hard job, and it is normal for children not to like it. After a day's class, they want to have fun and eat well when they get home, but they still have to do their homework. Since you don't want to do your homework, you will inevitably be absent-minded. Plus, they don't listen carefully in class, so some problems won't be done.
For parents, after a day's work or busy with their own affairs, in fact, their energy in the evening has been consumed almost, and they have to urge their children to do their homework.
It would be nice if children could successfully finish their homework and understand the questions they can't talk about several times. But in case the child is absent-minded, a topic can't be talked about several times, or even most of it, which will lead to a longer time for homework. At this time, parents' patience and self-control will be minimized.
Finally, the mood broke out. When parents' emotions calmed down, they found that beating and scolding children not only let them vent, but also didn't seem to help their homework. They can only continue to sit patiently and continue to help their children with their homework.
Of course, some parents send their children directly to off-campus training classes in order to save trouble and be less angry. This is also a way. In today's society, money can really solve many problems.
Come to think of it, it is not easy for children and adults, so why bother each other? But in the relationship between children and parents, parents are dominant. After all, adults are better than children in all aspects. If you can think from the children's point of view and understand them, your heart may be much calmer.
For children, it is best to take the method of pushing the boat with the tide, try to guide them positively, and avoid treating them in that forced way, which is easy to cause children's rebellious psychology.
It is best not to put expectations on children, because after all, they are two individuals, and children have their own lives and expectations.