First, develop good eating habits. I often hear people around me say that children are picky eaters and anorexia. But the mother stipulates that the child's basic appetite is a bowl. For example, he said, "Mom, I can't finish it." She said, "All right." Then she told him to leave the table. At dinner in the evening, she put what he didn't eat at noon in front of him and ate a new one after eating. There will be no endless food in the future. Her experience is that children are not required to be full, but should be seven points full. Excessive consumption is harmful, just enough for the body to consume, otherwise obesity will occur. Eat less meat and more fruits and vegetables, and don't let fat accumulate, which will affect your health.
Second, cultivate the habit of finishing homework on time. He asked the children to do their homework after school: set a time and then don't let them do it. The son said that if he couldn't finish his homework, he would be punished by the teacher tomorrow, but she told him when to do something and not to misappropriate it. He got up early the next morning to do it, and she didn't allow it. He went to school crying that day. From then on, he always finished his homework before eating dinner. Until he graduated from high school, he always finished his homework first. She doesn't allow her son to occupy the time of playing and reading extracurricular books to do his homework.
Third, how to correctly handle the problems of teachers' complaints and fines for homework. Her son was fined in the first grade of primary school. When she picked him up from school, she didn't go home until he finished his homework. He was punished. When she got home, she carefully asked how to pay attention and how to correct it. Since then, there has been no punishment.
Fourth, if the teacher reflects the child's inattention, find out the reason in time. Can't sleep well at night? Is it too full? Still can't understand the class? Find out the reason, find the solution to the problem according to the reason, don't just scold the child. If the doll is hot and humid, people are uncomfortable and naturally have no energy for class. We must find a way to solve it.
Fifth, fun is a child's nature, so give him time to play. In the process of playing, hands-on itself is equal to brains, no problem. Parents and children make a timetable and do everything according to the timetable. If playing cards is an effective method, playing with children of the same age can enhance children's affinity, self-protection ability and practical ability. Especially, letting children play with their left hand is a good way to exercise their right brain.
With the growth of children's age, the way of education is constantly changing. With years of persistence and unremitting efforts, children have enhanced their living ability and developed good living habits, and achieved good results in the college entrance examination.
At school, my mother was asked to write a paper on parental education. When my daughter was 3 years old, we climbed Laoshan together. She was in front, and I followed, admiring her curvy little body. Halfway up the mountain, the clouds are lingering. She turned and smiled at me and said, Mom, hurry up. Adults are a little tired. She jumped and jumped and tried to climb up again. In this way, a group of six people, driven by her, actually climbed to the goal. It turns out that life is so powerful.
As far as I am concerned, I have experienced a feeling that other mountains are dwarfed under the sky. ..
When my daughter is 4 years old, she combs her hair, washes her hair and takes a bath. I just need help. My neighbors praised my daughter for her ability and laughed at me for being too lazy. Only I understand that my daughter thinks my hand is not important and refuses my kindness. She does all these things by herself. By the time I knew how to do these things, my daughter had done it very well.
She is in a large class in kindergarten. When she comes back from kindergarten, she will accompany me to finish the last cram school. She is alone, lying in front of her desk, drawing and writing, which never affects me. Once, I just raised my pointer and pointed to an example on the blackboard. A little boy is playing happily with the paper plane in his hand. I tapped the little boy's desk with my pointer to remind him to pay attention to the class.
After school, my daughter and I are walking on the way to the bathroom. Suddenly, she said in a milk voice, mom, don't hit the child in the future. I was shocked at once! It turns out that in the eyes of children, well-intentioned reminders may also cause harm and even wrong judgment! If other children also mistakenly think that the teacher punishes the students with a pointer, they can't be washed if they are transferred to the Yellow River. Daughter, your little words have deeply touched your mother's soul! Changed my teaching concept!
Gradually, I found myself gentle and kind. I'm better at communicating with younger children.
My daughter is in the first grade of primary school. She was alone in the campus canteen of 1500 students, waiting in line to buy rice, holding hot noodles and looking for a seat. Imagine that picture, and my tears will pop out at once. Think of me, 16 years old, attending Zhengzhou Normal University. In the first week, I didn't dare to queue up to buy food alone. I can't help thinking that I am a cruel mother!
Unconsciously, my daughter will graduate from primary school! My mother-in-law can't afford to get sick. Washing clothes, cooking, cleaning, these housework, I am in a hurry. There are many trivial matters in the family, and I am at a loss when I encounter family changes. There is a hammer in the east and a wooden stick in the west. I almost put all my energy into my work and family. Xiaoshengchu, how to review and adjust? I didn't think so much about her, it was all her decision. Looking back now, how ridiculous I am! I am also a teacher in the graduating class! ) When the results were announced, it was the second in the class and the town 12. What a surprise! The daughter said, sprint, she will do it. At this time, I realized how much the children at that time needed my encouragement, not verbal harshness! Now, I will care with my heart and encourage the children in the graduating class!
The days of middle school are even more worrying! It's not as easy as elementary school. She will have endless homework and endless texts to recite. We seldom spend time climbing mountains and chatting. Parents' meeting, going out for practical activities, I seldom attend. At the same pace at school, my daughter never complains, and she faces the parent-teacher meeting alone. Once, I attended, and my daughter said that my parents came the most this time. Looking at her daughter with the sign-in form, let this parent sign it and let that parent sign it. It turns out that so many times, my daughter can't set an example and inform the parents of the class to come. Her monitor is very passive. I know that my daughter is a parent who has no choice but to be a teacher. Sometimes, she complains a little. I gave all my energy to the student, ignoring her feelings. After school, my daughter makes cakes and rolls noodles herself, taking care of her mother-in-law and cooking for my husband and me. I haven't learned how to make pancakes yet. My daughter also made a video of kneading dough and rolling dough, explaining the process while doing it. I see tears in my eyes.
The school will hold a sports meeting. My daughter asked my husband and me for advice, and we were a little worried. Her little body wants to run 800 meters. Husband said it was difficult for her to run down. I pretended to be calm and said it was nothing! Daughter, since then, I have been running to school every day. For a whole month, we didn't pick up or drop off. On Sunday, I insisted on running to the park and then running back.
On the afternoon of the sports meeting, a strange phone call came, and my daughter complained that she had fallen. I quickly asked her if she was broken. Many parents go to cheer for their children. I didn't ask for leave, so let it go. My husband and I happened to be together, and we were talking about going there. On the other end of the phone, there was a giggle. The daughter said that she won the first prize, and the class teacher Gao stood at the finish line with open arms to protect her.
At this moment, I understand that my daughter convinced me with her actions that she has perseverance and potential! I want to give her confidence and encouragement!
Yes, on the road of growing up, I am not accompanying my daughter, but accompanying her to grow up!
I haven't written anything for my mother to write a composition on parental education in school for a long time, for fear of writing badly. What's more, our child, Tian Tian, has many shortcomings and is not the best, so I am afraid that the so-called educational experience will be the last joke.
The daughter has a hot personality and strong self-care ability. What do you think of such a child is good? It depends on how I exercise her ability.
As soon as you open your child's field of vision, try to take her out. Apart from often taking her to parks and squares, as long as I can take my children out, I don't miss a chance. When the child was two months old, we went to Rizhao to look at the house, and the child followed me around the major sales offices. A few months ago, my children and I visited the furniture decoration city together. When I was one year old, I went to Qingdao to purchase goods by train; Every time I go to supermarkets and shopping malls, I take her to tell her about the goods and prices; Take her out to meet new friends; Occasionally go to the bookstore to read and buy books; Eating with friends, children drinking with adults, chatting and so on. Although it would be very tiring to hold her at that time, I think every time I go out, it is an opportunity for my children to learn cognition, and mothers don't want to miss it.
Second, believe in the power of Qiao Hu. I wonder if other parents like to show cartoons to their children. I support children to watch cartoons at home. I bought her a lot of clever tigers-Le Xiaozhi Tiandi. Qiao Hu's education is very comprehensive, including social etiquette, socializing, knowing Chinese characters, traffic safety, singing and dancing ... Anyway, when I watched cartoons with my children, I felt that in the process of watching cartoons, we not only learned knowledge, but also attracted children's attention and brought joyful nutrients to their spirit. Parents' hard work may not be happy, so let education experts help us.
Third, be reasonable and never condone. Girls are born a piece of cake, and the problems of dressing up and finding fault are always endless. Generally speaking, you should reason with her when you encounter problems, and she can also talk about her reasons. If her reason is right, parents should seriously consider it and apologize to their children if necessary. If her parents are right, she will sometimes accept it gladly, sometimes feel angry or lose face, turn her head and ignore it or want to start work, and shut herself in the house. If her parents talk with a strong tone, she will cry to her parents. I allow my child to have personality, accept her strength and treat her as a friend and an adult. But I can't stand her touching me. If you can't convince others, you will be forced to solve it. In fact, it is a manifestation of human intellectual incompetence. Both parents and children. When children start hitting people, they should pay attention to this problem that may become a habit. Children need to know the truth, know right and wrong, cultivate good living habits and leave good childhood memories. All these parents have obligations and responsibilities.
Listen carefully and walk into her world. The children's world is full of novelty. Parents should spend more time with their children and chat with them. Children will find that you are her best friend in their world. She will give you all her love and trust. The child's love often touches me. When the child kissed me and hugged me, I felt I walked into her heart. I am also willing to share everything with my children, respect her dolls, cherish her works, play house with her, meet her simple requirements and keep her "little secret" for her children. ...
Hug the baby every day. A long time ago, I read the work of a foreign writer, which talked about holding a child every day. I remember it deeply in my heart and use it every day. I think this hug every day has a magical power. Let children feel the love of their parents and be a loving person. I believe that love is everything.
Provide children with opportunities for exercise and endurance. Did the children put the garbage into the trash can by themselves? Did the child wash his handkerchief by himself? Did you use the children's toilet by yourself after the children left? Did the children eat by themselves early? Did the child carry his schoolbag by himself? Did he get up by himself after falling? Did the child dry his tears by himself? It's not that parents are cruel, but that we have seen the children after 10 years and 20 years. She needs to exercise, study and learn to bear it. Sooner or later, you will learn to be strong. Why not become a strong person earlier? If you are willing to give up, you will get it. My daughter started early education in six months, went to kindergarten at the age of two, and moved to Zhuo Ya at the age of three. I believe in sweets, and I believe she will do better in the future. Because I believe that the children's teachers, like us, are cultivating them with love.
All children are angels Raphael. Here, menstruation wishes every baby in Raphael class healthy and happy growth!
Ask mother to write an article about parental education in school. Children are the continuation of our life, our hope and sustenance. The growth of children affects my heart and involves the happiness of the whole family. How to educate children into excellent children is a major problem that I have to face first.
To tell the truth, my daughter is more sensible and clever, and her expression is clear. At home, whether she is asked to do housework or other things, what she does makes me very satisfied and moved. Although there are setbacks in educating children, there are also successes and joys. My goal is to let children develop good habits of life and study when they grow up.
In life, if children make trouble without reason, I will never be soft and never change my position. If a child cries when she wants something, I won't give it to her whether she wants it or not. If I give it to her, I will encourage her, and crying will be her winning weapon. When I first went to kindergarten, children always stood and refused to leave when they saw a stall selling snacks after school. I insisted on not buying, put the crying child aside and she had to follow me. Later, in the same situation, the child always said, "Mom, I won't buy delicious food." In fact, I know in my heart that the child wants me to buy it for her. Later, when the child wants to buy something, it will not be like this, but will discuss with me: "Mom, will you buy me a xx?" She will be happy to buy it at this time, and it doesn't matter if she doesn't buy it.
At the same time, we should treat some actions of children with a normal heart and give appropriate encouragement and guidance. In the past, when a child fell in love with a sofa while eating, I always reacted strongly and refused to let her go. The more you stop her, the more she wants to do it. Later, I pretended not to see it, and she kept saying to me, "Mom, where do you think I eat?" The purpose is to get my attention. Later, with my "disregard", she didn't eat on the sofa. The child wants to help me mop the floor. At first, I was worried that she would run into it, and I always tried to stop her, but the effect was always bad. Instead, she waved tools around the room. Later, when she picked up the guy again, I would say, baby, you are great. You can help your mother with her work. Let the mop go after mopping the floor. Hearing this, the child was so happy that he really circled the mop and put it back.
Sometimes when you meet a really naughty child, it makes you fly into a rage, you can't control your emotions in time, you may scold the child, destroy the relationship between mother and daughter, and you may also leave a wound on the child's young mind. After noticing the signs of anger coming, the most effective way is to let the family take the baby away, or leave the "place where things happen" by themselves. Parents can control themselves from losing their temper, which is a good example for their children.
At the same time, let children know how to respect teachers, be diligent and thrifty, be caring, share and communicate, and cultivate children's good study and living habits.
My mother was asked to write a paper about her parents' education at school. My daughter just turned five. She is a lively, lovely and understanding little girl. From birth to toddler, from babbling to frolicking, every silly smile and childish words of her touched our hearts. We really can't help doting on her. The family often revolves around her, although we know that doting may make her an only child. Cute can't be hidden. We love our daughter, care for her and cherish her, but we also pay attention to the method of love. When we love her, we also teach her to care about us and others. Therefore, although our daughter is very loved, she also has the good quality of caring for others. She is the messenger of love. She gives our love back to us and passes it on to others.
The child's mind is a pure white paper, which is about to depict the beginning of life. What he sees and feels may become the first stroke on this white paper. Compared with kindergarten education, the "preconceived" influence of family education often has a more fundamental "degeneracy" effect. In order to let our daughter learn to care about others, we do this:
1. Pay attention to every day when your daughter cares about her elders.
Many parents will make their young children's birthdays beautiful, but forget their own birthdays, especially those of the elderly. In fact, this practice can easily promote the germination of children's egocentric mentality. In our family, we attach importance to the birthday of every family member. It's an adult's birthday, and I'll tell her whose birthday it is today. She will always learn to sing birthday songs, say some words of blessing to her elders as we do to her, and sometimes pester me to buy some favorite little things for her with the small money in the piggy bank, such as chocolate. We will also accept them gladly, because only in this way can she realize that all members of the family are equal.
Holidays such as Father's Day, Women's Day and Double Ninth Festival are all good educational opportunities. These days, I will tell her when it is, whose special festival it is at home and why there is such a festival, so that she can remember the kindness of her family and repay the hard work of her elders. For example, on the occasion of Women's Day, I introduced my career to my daughter and children, and took her to my class to watch her attend classes, prepare lessons and make teaching AIDS. , so that she can deeply understand and appreciate her mother's diligence and efforts, and learn to care about her. I also let grandma "start" when she is cooking, knowing that grandma cooks very hard every day. The "Double Ninth Festival" is coming. We have a heart-to-heart talk with her, letting her know that the older a person is, the weaker his physical strength and the worse his health will be, further guiding his children to respect the elderly and giving them more care, love and help. Therefore, every day when eating, my daughter will always be the first to call her grandparents.
2. Learn to share happiness with your family.
Now the only child has a strong self-esteem, thinking that all the delicious and fun things in the family belong to her alone. Many parents will say when they see their children like this: children nowadays are very stingy. In fact, this is not stingy, but a self-centered performance. Parents often buy delicious and fun things, most of them will give them to their children first, and some even leave them to their children without eating at all, so the children will feel delicious and the fun is naturally hers. My daughter's grandparents did the same at first, but I don't think so. There is delicious food at home. I will ask her to give it to everyone at home first, and then I will eat it myself. Even if there are only two copies, I won't let her eat alone. Now my daughter has something delicious, and I always want everyone to taste it. Sometimes grandma won't eat it, and she will also persuade her: grandma, try it. It's delicious. I always ask everyone to eat something, because only in this way can my daughter know that good things cannot be taken away by one person, and only sharing can make her more happy. When I buy books and toys for my daughter, I will also buy some for myself or my nephew, so that she can know that not only she likes good things, but also others will like them, and let her learn to think of others.
3. Let children learn to care about the people around them.
Children can't grow up without their families. All good, beautiful and excellent qualities and healthy psychology are born in the family first. For the healthy development of children and the happiness of families, parents should also integrate their children into society and make them become social people.
As the saying goes, "A distant relative is better than a close neighbor". Harmony, unity and friendship among neighbors will set an example for children on how to make friends and treat them. My home is an old-fashioned house upstairs and downstairs in the country. There are many families in a row. Usually, they often visit each other. When my neighbor's children come to my house, I always let them learn to be "hospitable little masters", learn to entertain guests friendly, take out their toys and give them delicious food. I asked her to be a "civilized little guest" when visiting other people's homes, to know how to cherish other people's toys and to be polite when accepting other people's food. She feels like a family when she gets along with her neighbors. If someone in my relative's family is ill, I will take her with me to visit the sick. When visiting sick people, I will take the initiative to take care of the patients and let her know that the sick people will be in pain and need companionship and care.
My daughter's favorite TV program is Children's Channel. The little boy who washed his mother's feet, the big brother and sister who did good deeds, and the uncle who gave up his seat on TV all became examples for her to learn. When watching these public service advertisements, I will explain them to her in detail, plus the imagination of the characters in the picture. Seeing big brother doing good deeds all the way on TV, my daughter was very moved: "Mom, that big brother is really good. He often helps others." I told her: "Yes, everyone likes big brother, especially those who get his help. They will think that thanks to his help, otherwise their baby will be hit by a ball and things will be scattered all over the floor ..." At this time, my daughter will be envious and say: "Mom, I will do good things like big brother to make everyone like me." Once, we went to grandma's house by bus. My daughter saw an old grandmother coming and whispered to me, "Mom, let's let grandma sit." Hearing grandma's thanks, she smiled into a flower. Seeing my lonely grandmother sitting at home alone on TV, she would ask me sadly, "Mom, why is grandma sitting there alone on TV, and where is her baby?" Why not stay with grandma? "I'm so touched by my daughter's words. In her mind, I think I should care and love others.
Love is the key to a child's heart. Love is an eternal topic for human beings. The development of children needs the care of love. Let us care for our children with our wisdom, let them truly experience our selfless true love, and let our love arouse the love in their hearts. This is the success of education. My daughter is middle class now. Although she still has many bad habits, sometimes she has to feed when eating, and sometimes she has no perseverance in doing things, but her daughter's good quality of caring for others is commendable. Suhomlinski thinks: "All aspects of human characteristics and harmony are determined by something major and primary, and morality is the dominant component in this harmony." The focus of education is moral education, which is to teach children to learn to be human. Daughters have the basic principles of being a man and the foundation of "love". I believe that as long as I pay attention to the methods of family education, I will do it thoroughly and persistently, and my daughter will be an excellent person when she grows up.