When it comes to tutoring children, I believe many parents just sit and think about it. A father lost his temper while tutoring children, failed to control his anger and burned his children's homework. Although this kind of behavior is too radical to be advocated by everyone, I have to admit that helping children with their homework is really irritating, and I have had such an experience.

Our children are now in the second grade of primary school, and it is a headache to urge them to do their homework every day. It usually takes about 10 minutes to get home from school at 4 pm. After dinner, I have to watch TV for an hour. When you really do your homework, it is often already seven or eight o'clock. In the process of writing homework, I always find various reasons, such as I want to go to the toilet, for example, I feel a headache, in short, I want to be lazy. When I finally sat down to do my homework, it was my turn to play.

Sometimes some math problems look simple in the eyes of adults, but difficult to understand in the eyes of children. At this time, parents will explain this problem to their children out of a sense of responsibility, but after explaining it for 10 minutes, the children always keep their eyes straight and can't listen to anything. Even if you ask questions while talking, children may be distracted. Sometimes I really don't know what's going on in the child's mind, but out of helplessness, after all, the child is his own and can only be taught with the scalp, but this time it's really a headache. Once upon a time, I wanted to shout and then strike the table hard to scare the children. But finally, think about it. After all, I am afraid of scaring the children.

I gently help my children with their homework. My husband is a real boss. You would never think that a fat man weighing 190 kg never missed every meal, but since the child went to primary school, it was when we were both eating, that is, in the process of helping the child with his homework, he was so angry that he didn't eat dinner for a week. In this way, I lost 10 kg in a week.

So according to our experience, everyone should be able to see how important it is to help children with their homework. However, I also hope that parents can teach as gently as possible. After all, children need time to understand and grow up, and each of us grows up from children, so more understanding and tolerance will make the parent-child relationship more harmonious.