If you don't want to go to school, you just want to make money for your children. You don't have to be good at math, literature and social knowledge.
In fact, every parent's outlook on life, world outlook and cultural accomplishment are very different from their social environment and life experience. Their idea of cultivating children's interest is subjective and often influenced and restricted by social trends and their own experiences. If the interest to be cultivated coincides with the original interest of the child, it will be like a duck to water, accepted by the child, and achieved excellent results with the joint efforts of the two. If this cultivated interest is contrary to the child's original interest, it will be rejected by the child in the opposite direction, and both will lose each other in the struggle.
Experts who have been engaged in early childhood education for many years believe that it is not a good idea to cultivate children to relax, force and let go. In modern society, it is the choice of many parents to cultivate children's interests and specialties from an early age, but there are also many problems in the process of cultivating children. Some children become willful because of their parents' connivance, and some children are forced by their parents to plant the seeds of depression in their hearts. In fact, "coercion and laissez-faire are both wrong."
If you obey your child's "nature" too much, your child will lose many valuable educational opportunities because of his lazy nature, which is also very unfavorable to the standardization of your child's personality. However, if children are forced to learn this and that, it is easy for them to feel afraid of difficulties and fatigue in their studies, which is too great for their tolerance. Therefore, the best way is to find children's interests in life and cultivate them in time, and turn them into children's hobbies and specialties.
To discover children's interests, we must first accept children, respect them and observe them. On the basis of children's interest, helping children broaden their horizons and increase the "depth of the game" can guide children's interest. Let children experience the joy of success as much as possible, which is the best way to consolidate interest. In fact, if a child can devote himself to one thing for a long time, it is his chance to fully develop his mind. The resulting concentration is an important foundation for future success.