It's not just your appearance.

Because when I'm with you

My appearance

There is no need to ask between you and me.

Who will show who?

? Roy clift

The first time I saw the title "The Healing Department is a Teacher" (Zhang Lijun's works), I decided to buy it. During the summer vacation, I watched it twice in one breath. This is a collection of educational stories and a record of educational reflection. Teacher Zhang shared many wonderful moments in the education process through examples that happened to himself or his students. Looking at these ordinary stories, I was filled with emotion.

"Healing system" is an imported word, which means "something that makes people (or things) calm and soothe with psychological healing function". An excellent teacher should really be a "healing department" to heal others and heal himself. ? -"Be a healing teacher"?

I still remember seven years ago, when I was a beginner in psychological counseling, I lit the lamp every night. He Laoshi was puzzled: "So busy, why do you want to learn this?" Not normal ... ""For self-healing! " I answered without hesitation. Thinking of those miserable days, I am very pleased with my strength. Time is occupied for going to work, preparing lessons and correcting homework; Pick up the children after work, go shopping, wash clothes and cook, face the chicken feathers of life, think about a person's hard work, full of grievances, occasionally emotional breakdown, almost depressed. I should always do something for myself. After reading some psychological books, after careful consideration, I decided to study the course of psychological counselor. So, I was lucky to find an emotional outlet.

Learning allows me to face up to my own mentality and face pressure with a peaceful attitude; At the same time, let me re-examine education with the idea of keeping pace with the times and compassion. From then on, every day, with love, smile, and strive to create the desired beauty.

? Pay attention to every drop of rain falling in front of you. Maybe it contains the beauty of the rainbow? -"Leak some sunshine"

? Go to a friend's house to visit the old man in the evening. The seven-year-old girl is doing her homework under the desk lamp. As soon as she saw me, she immediately reported, "Aunt, I got 92 points in the math exam!" " "That's great. What about language? " ..... The young mother is writing and drawing on her mobile phone, and looks up "more than sixty!" "What are you writing?" I am curious. She said: "The child's teacher will send homework in the group and copy it for her to see, otherwise her eyes can't stand it." "A lot? Do you have time to read extracurricular books? " "Which have time to study? There is not much math homework, but I copied every wrong calculation problem 50 times in the exam, and I copied it 100 times last time. There are many languages, so you should copy the text, both the first and second words, and extract about 200 words every day. We have to write until after ten o'clock every night, and the children are dawdling, sometimes until twelve o'clock. If you can't finish your homework, you won't be allowed to go to other favorite minor courses. " I have been teaching for twenty-four years, and my back is cold ... a child who has just entered the second grade. The teacher's original intention is good. There is no doubt that he wants his children to get better grades, but is this really right? Everything in the world has its own growth law. We know that pulling out seedlings encourages growth, and we know that twisting melons is not sweet. Because anything distorted is bound to be accompanied by a kind of denial and harm to the original ecology, and even lead to serious damage. The same is true of education, which does not respect the growth law and psychological needs of the educated. Even if the short-term goal is achieved, the long-term effect is often counterproductive.

Every child is a work that needs our heart to shape. In education, what we need to do is to follow the laws of education and awaken their ignorance and innocence with love and patience. We should make ourselves a ray of light in children's growth, even if they have many imperfections, we should also make their study and life full of warmth; Even through the storm, let them see the splendor of the rainbow. Education should be a spring breeze, moistening things silently.

Education is an interesting thing.

? -"So much fun"? Education makes crawling life grow wings, and humble life raises its proud head. Education has given people a great new life. It can make the powerless become powerful and let the powerful move forward. Education has built a universal ladder for a beautiful dream, so that ordinary hands can touch the stars and the moon. -how can this trick of "changing the living" not be fun? Professor Chen Shengshen, a famous master of mathematics, wrote an inscription for the vast number of young mathematics lovers. His inscription has only four words-"Mathematics is fun". He didn't cheat the world. From Archimedes' angry words "Don't break my circle" to martin gardner's "Fun Math Carnival", which is known as "the national wealth of the United States", we understand the endless fun that mathematics brings to people. Historian Tang Degang asked Mr. Hu Shi why he studied A Dream of Red Mansions. Mr. Hu Shi replied with two words: "Fun."

? "Fun" is a quip made by someone who has climbed the height overlooking the scenery. If we haven't reached a certain height, most of what we observe is "not fun". For a long time, how much we like to advertise "bear hardships-study hard, study hard and work hard." It seems that away from suffering, it is close to lightness and laziness. It seems that only when you have tasted bitterness can you meet flowers and applause. In fact, the gold content of "music" is much higher than that of bitterness. Endure it, and in the end it will only pass one level; Enjoy something, and finally you can gain Excellence.

From "not fun" to "fun", it is a spiritual practice course. As educators, we should always reflect: Is it fun? If your answer is yes, then congratulations, you can definitely go higher and further! Facing the huge project of shaping the soul: because of love, I choose; Because of choice, you must love!

? Reading this book makes me calm down, learn to manage my emotions correctly, learn to listen to students' inner voices, treat students with a peaceful attitude, and face my achievements with a sunny attitude. Give more to students while healing yourself.