When the child is three years old, he can already speak simple spoken English in daily life. He didn't deliberately teach him, only occasionally found that he actually asked me how to read first, and then guided him. It's also good to watch Qiao Hu's video.
Since he could speak, he began to recite Tang poems with him. I didn't think about anything else. I mainly train his language expression and memory. Not all children like studying, but he likes eating. In order to get the reward, he also tried his best to show himself.
Needless to say, story books have been told a lot, and now they are all told by him.
No matter what kind of book, it will guide children's enthusiasm to varying degrees. Parents will also observe more in the process of guidance to see which one is suitable for him. I hope I can help you!
My son is going to the fourth grade. From grade one to grade three, I won the math contest prize held by my school every time. My son is interested in mathematics, or he is sensitive to it. This is due to the guidance from an early age.
I clearly remember when children just learned to talk and walk. I always let him count. I usually ask him to count the steps when I go upstairs and downstairs-1,2, 3 ... Don't underestimate this simple action. This is the earliest enlightenment. Usually add some oral arithmetic questions to encourage him to calculate. When he finished kindergarten, he basically mastered addition and subtraction within 1000. When he usually visits the supermarket, he likes to go there to read math books, and most of the books he buys are calculation books.
Perseverance is very important, and this is only my little share.
Seeing this question, I remembered the days when my children asked me to tell ten books every day. Although it is really hard, my baby loves reading, and my old mother is actually flattered.
The principle that I study with my baby is to let her feel the joy of reading and enjoy the parent-child time that we study together. Looking through the reading records, I found that when I was 1 year and a half, I fell in love with parent-child reading until I was 3 and a half years old. I read more than 500 picture books with my baby, and selected the ones that my baby and I like very much, and recommended them to everyone.
We recommend Happy Baby's educational enlightenment picture books (***8 books), Bear Baby series (the first series 15 books is recommended, but it is not recommended later) and Scratch series (***7 books).
The common feature of these series of picture books is that the content is very close to the cognitive level of babies over 1 year-old, which mainly tells the daily life of babies such as eating, brushing teeth and wetting the bed, which will be of great interest to babies. "Scratch series" also has small cards that can be turned up. There are different paintings hidden below, and the baby will like to turn them over by hand. I have told each of these books no less than 30 times.
I recommend the cute mouse series (***22), the Tom Rabbit series (***6 series 35), the David Can't series (***3), the cute body (***8), and some picture books, all of which are single books.
The picture books at this stage are characterized by simple plots at the beginning, most of which are related to the life of a baby around 3 years old. For example, in the story of Tom Rabbit, I went to kindergarten for the first time, got lost with my mother, and was ill in hospital. For example, "Lovely Body" will tell children a lot about the body with vivid stories, such as taking precautions, leaving them in their teeth, such as stinking.
Story picture books recommend Baba Dad series (***2 series 16 books) and different Ksenya Goryachova Camilla (***3 series with 32 books); Dandelion science picture books are recommended (***8 series with 40 books) and First Discovery (perspective eye series) (**42 books).
Picture books at this stage are divided into stories and popular science, in which the plot of story picture books begins to become complicated, the content begins to be divorced from children's life, there are many fictional plots, and the language of story description begins to become complicated. From this stage, when I read to my children, I no longer read according to the pictures at will, but read the original text directly, so that children can gradually get used to the written language and begin to accumulate a large number of rich vocabulary.
Science picture books are books that begin to tell children some common sense. Every dandelion popular science picture book tells a phenomenon in nature, and the language is very beautiful. The first discovery (perspective eye series) has a completely different style. Every book will introduce a thing in detail, such as cars, deserts, underground animals and so on.
These are picture books that my children and I like very much. I hope you like them too.
The child is almost 3 years old. If you count the repetition, you should have read more than 1000 picture books. At present, children can speak some English, look at pictures and speak, and their vocabulary, language and emotions are well developed. Just sharing my experience.
0-3 months, no reading, mainly listening to music and so on.
4-6 months, mainly cloth books, mainly color contrast, will give children recognition, teach recognition and teach reading.
7- 12 months, reading picture books, mainly some famous picture books, such as My Mom and Dad, The Hungry Caterpillar, Brown Bear, What Do You See, etc. Of course, there are also some Chinese picture books, such as the bear series, which are bought in both Chinese and English. For simplicity, I type Chinese at the back, and the English picture book is also in Chinese.
12-24 months, I bought miscellaneous things at this stage, such as David can't, good night, gorilla, guess how much I love you, rainbow flower, who is on my head, ants and watermelons, bounce! Crocodiles are afraid of dentists, dots, escaped rabbits, poop-poop, hens and roses. Please don't touch me, our bodies, etc. , mainly to cultivate children's language picture books. I will always talk about some picture books that children like, such as The Runaway Rabbit, Mom and Buy.
25-34, I buy a lot of books now, mainly because my mother loves to buy them, from popular science to history, from coloring to connection, from Chinese to mathematics. For example, sleeping alone for the first time, Little Prince, DK series, 24 solar terms, Forbidden City, rapps fun science museum series, four seasons scenery cognition series, children's letter dictionary, puss in boots, painful doll, fun digital party, Miyanishi series, apocalypse series, and Kissing Science museum series.
I hope I can help you.
Before I was 3 years old, I had read more than 200 picture books with my children. Now I am reading The Story of the Zodiac by Gu Sijia of Taiwan Province Province, which tells the story of the ranking match of the Zodiac. His My Antonym Travel and My Color Travel are also good. They all tell new stories with creative illustrations, which can develop children's imagination.
The complete series includes 83 volumes of Mr. Qi and Miss Miao by Roger Hargreaves, which is a bilingual picture book about children's self-management personality and emotions. Both boys and girls have it. For example, 43 volumes of Mr. Pride, Mr. Angry and Mr. Sloppy are suitable for boys, and 40 volumes of Miss Shy and Miss Kwame are suitable for girls, which I strongly recommend.
Japanese Kurokawa Hikaruhiro can't help but recreate the dinosaur series of prehistoric dinosaur era, including the dinosaur continent, the brave Triceratops, the injured Tyrannosaurus Rex and the dinosaur adventure. The sentence "set out for the valley surrounded by green trees" makes you feel relaxed and happy every time you read it, and has a sense of ritual in pursuit of the light of life.
Some Japanese writers are really good. Miyanishi's wisdom picture books, Wolf and Piggy, Piggy Don't Cry, Warm House Amusement Park, You Look Delicious, Uncle Strange's Wish, etc., teach children humorous wisdom, happy perception and protection and care for the weak, and recommend+1.
The first discovery series published by Kalima Publishing House in France is the best popular science series in my opinion, covering geography and astronomy, ocean and land, rain forest and desert, birds and animals, human machines, industrial transportation and so on. The key lies in the innovative flashlight tape painting style, and the way of telling the content definitely makes us adults eat a whale. It turns out that popular science content can be so interesting.
Tamura Shigeru's Ant and Watermelon, Margaret Brown's Good Night Moon, David Shannon's David Can't, Brian floca's Locomotive and Molly Bian's Feifei Angry are all other classics.
There are also a bunch of books about movies or animations, such as The Avengers movie series, Superman Story movie series, bear haunting movie series, Altman animation series, really. I have bought and seen everything that can be seen in the market.
Finally, the Qiao Hu series, which has been published for four years, is published once a month. The content is set according to the cognitive ability and personality and behavior characteristics of children of different ages, and the content quality is+1. Who sees who knows.
The rest will be scattered and piled up, so I won't introduce them. These are the books that I have read with my children. What about you?
In the book Looking for Mother, Professor Wang Donghua talked about such a thing. In the university, the school is on holiday, and the students in the school can't wait to go home. Only one student has been fooling around at school, and there is nothing particularly important to do, just don't want to go home.
Wang Donghua casually asked at that time: Did you grow up with your grandparents when you were a child?
This classmate was surprised: Teacher, how do you know?
It turned out that this classmate grew up in the countryside with his grandparents and was taken back to school by his parents at the age of seven.
Growing up alone with grandparents, parents are not involved in the growth of their children, so it is difficult for parents and children to establish a benign attachment relationship.
Before I was three years old, I couldn't be with my parents, which became an emotional fault. This kind of emotional fault can't be made up in old age anyway.
The above-mentioned college students don't want to go home on holiday. The deep reason is alienation from parents. There is nothing at home that makes them deeply attached. It stems from the fact that parents missed the establishment of intimate relationship with their children in the critical period of the first three years.
In the process of children's growth, you were absent for the first three years, and it is difficult for you to get it back later. Many young parents are not aware of this.
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Li Meijin, a professor of psychology, said that raising children requires a stable one-on-one relationship and an attached parent-child relationship. Treat him well for three years, and you can still fight him in the future.
In other words, before the age of three, it is a critical period for children to grow up. In these important three years, parents and children can get along closely, which can be said to be equal to kindness and prestige. Children who grow up like this are more likely to become good friends with their parents.
Hard work before the age of three will benefit you for life.
When children are always around, they can find problems in their growth in time and communicate and solve them in time.
Some adolescent children seem to be very good, go to school on time and leave school on time, but one day they did something that puzzled and even shocked adults. One of the reasons is that parents and children don't communicate well at ordinary times. We should know the children's thoughts in time, guide their emotions and guide them correctly.
Being with children in the first three years has cultivated a deep family bond, which can also effectively buffer the contradiction between parents when children encounter menopause in adolescence.
Therefore, no matter how difficult it is, we must create conditions to give children more love, at least in the first three years, to give them intimate companionship.
Every moment you invest now will give you rich feedback in the days to come.