Parents send a letter to 18 year old son. Dear son:
It will be your eighteenth birthday in a few days. Before the Spring Festival, I asked you what gift to buy you, and you said no. This letter is my birthday present.
Here, your mother and I want to thank you first. Thank you/kloc-for coming to our home 0/8 years ago. Thank you for bringing us happiness, happiness, hope and concern in the past 18 years. You have enriched our lives and made us feel that the world is extremely beautiful!
Eighteen years, 6,570 days and nights are so short. The first cry, the first split smile, the first powerful step, the first day of school, the first naughty, all seem like yesterday, and even the modality of sleeping in a robe is vivid. /kloc-for 0/8 years, every little progress you made surprised us, and your little cold frightened us. Time flies, the sun and the moon fly, and you will be eighteen in a blink of an eye.
Eighteen years old, what a beautiful and sacred age, it not only means youth and dreams, but also means self-reliance, responsibility and mission, which means that you grow from a teenager to a youth and from a boy to a man!
This 18-year-old boy is strong, angry and energetic, and is in the prime of life. I hope you get into the habit of exercising. Taking part in physical exercise can strengthen the body, hone the will and enhance self-confidence. The ancients said that the body is a ship carrying knowledge and wisdom. Mao Zedong also advocated? Spiritual civilization, physical brutality. ? It can be seen that having a good body can benefit you a lot in life. Always remember: health comes first. Health is 1, and fame and status are all zeros behind 1. Without 1, other zeros are meaningless.
At eighteen, you will think more rationally about life and society, and you will plan your career. A planned life is definitely much more exciting than a life without a plan. Opportunities only love those who are prepared. In fact, your mother and I both envy you. You start thinking about your future at a very young age and prepare for the realization of your ideal. I believe that your goal in life is becoming clearer and clearer, and you are moving towards it step by step.
Eighteen years old is a man full of years and fantasies. Don't let beautiful youth be wasted in vague fantasies, and do small things in a down-to-earth manner. When you make a plan, you must carry it out. Be sure to make your own decisions, do it, don't hesitate, don't sigh. ? The great things in the world must be done in detail, and the difficult things in the world are easy to do? . I hope that no matter how you behave, how you do things, and how you seek knowledge, you should start from small things, from details, and from now on. Don't dream too much. Take part in more practical activities and exercise yourself in many ways. When others are dreaming, complaining and waiting, you are doing things in obscurity. Remember, there is always a reward for giving.
At the age of eighteen, your perseverance will be further honed and your will will will be stronger. Modern society is in a period of great transformation, and various ideas and values collide with each other and become more and more diversified. I hope you? Adhere to the castle peak and not relax? Grasp yourself correctly. If you know about the internet, you can understand that the internet is a tool for people to study and work, and it is used by people. Don't indulge in the network and become a slave to it. Compared with high school, college life is relaxed and free, and it is also a test of one's perseverance and will. Your mother and I both believe that you can stand the test because you are a young man with ideals and pursuits.
Finally, happy birthday to you 18! Get what you want!
Love your mom and dad forever.
XXXX。 X. X
Parents send a letter to 18 year old son. Second son:
Tomorrow you will celebrate your eighteenth birthday. First, my parents wish you a happy birthday!
This year's birthday is different from previous years, because this year's birthday is a milestone in your life, which means the end of your childhood and the beginning of your youth. You have grown from a child to an adult, a person with civil rights and obligations. You are not only responsible for the country, society and family, but also for these responsibilities. Looking back 18 years, it seems that everything happened yesterday.
Eighteen years ago, my mother gave birth to you at the clinic in the city at eight o'clock in the evening after a day and a night of liver and lung tears. With your birth, a series of troubles followed. First of all, the amount of milk is small. You started to have diarrhea before the full moon, giving medicine, hot compress with big salt, hot bricks on your ass, navel peppers, everything. Because of frequent diarrhea and low immunity, I catch a cold every month. Before you were three years old, my mother and I became frequent visitors to the hospital. Son, do you still remember the scene when you were hospitalized with hepatitis A in Jinan Infectious Disease Hospital? Think how cute you were when you were less than four years old. The doctor won't let you out of bed. You have been in the hospital for half a month, and you have been afraid to get out of bed. You pester stories every day. My roommates recited Three Hundred and Sixty-Five Nights and The Magic Lamp. Later, I went to kindergarten and learned to recite poems and arithmetic. Mom buys vegetables and you sit on a bike? Your dad's unit will hold a gala, and you and five-year-old Wang Ruoyu and three-year-old Banya Arno will temporarily form a team to recite? Goose, goose, goose, Xiang Tiange, white hair floating green water, red palm playing clear waves? It attracted applause from the uncles and aunts present. Mom is too busy at work to care about you. Up to now, I still have a grudge against your head teacher in the third grade of primary school. It's a rainy morning. I went to Texas because of the adjustment of the reserve loan of the grain transfer station. I knew I couldn't come back at noon. I went to the experimental primary school to inform you that you would go to my second aunt's house for dinner. As a result, you were in class, and the class teacher promised to tell you but forgot. You go home at noon, wait at the door to go to school in the afternoon, and then go back to school hungry in the light rain. When I came back from Texas in the afternoon, my grandmother told me all this, son. You have no idea how distressed my mother is. Now that I think about it, my heart is still tight. I will never have the experience of eating out without arranging you properly. Son, you are my mother's darling. In this world, I can give up any delicious food, any opportunity to improve my progress and enjoy it. For you, my mother can give up everything, even her life. Son, you are an adult now, and your parents are moving from middle age to old age. No matter whether your parents nag or complain, whether you like it or not, you should remember that your parents love you. I hope your life will be more exciting, more meaningful, all your wishes come true and all the best!
Son, look back on the road you have traveled. There are successes and failures. I hope you can learn from it and avoid detours in your future life. Remember, son? When you were in the fifth grade of elementary school, you got more than 50 math exams in your class and went home crying. Winter vacation homework forgot to go to school on the first day, and he took He Haotian's homework to make up for it when he started school. In the second day of junior high school, I was angry with my teacher on the Internet and asked Mr. Ran to go home several times. Strive for strength in the third year; Mom was there during SARS? Visiting prison? ; The joy of being the first in Yucheng in the senior high school entrance examination; Lessons of failure in Texas No.1 Middle School; Turn back to Yucheng No.1 Middle School and pursue it; The pain of playing wrist fracture in grade two; On March 12, 2004, I rented a house at the entrance of Yucheng No.1 Middle School, and my mother Wang and I took good care of it. Nervous study before the college entrance examination; Nervousness after the exam; The difficulty of volunteering when the results come out; The joy after admission to Beijing Institute of Technology; Even after you go to college, your parents inculcate you; Piles and piles, son. I believe you understand that your parents have done their best for you. Today, you are an adult. Although your parents love you, they can no longer help you. You have to walk on your own, fight for the future on your own, protect your body on your own, and grasp the future on your own. I don't want to say anything more. We say everything every day. We expect you to keep learning in today's fierce competition, not afraid of setbacks, keep developing, go forward and never give up.
Climb hard, son! Victory must belong to us! Mom and Dad look forward to your success! Son, you are my parents' future, my parents' hope and the continuation of our lives. We hope that you live better than us, that you will become the pillar of our country and our pride in the future, that everything in your future will be full of sunshine, and that your life will be smooth and safe!
Love your parents.
XXXX。 X. X
Parents send a letter to 18 year old son. Three Yangyang:
This is the first letter that Dad wrote to you. Do you know why you should communicate by letter? You are my son and my closest relative in the world. But you never talk to your father. He knows nothing about your inner world. In many face-to-face conversations, you try to be stiff and silent, and don't want to open your heart to your father like other children.
As a father, I saw my dereliction of duty from your silence, and I am deeply sorry for it. But I can't blame you, because I should apologize first. I think it's because I haven't paid enough attention to you for a long time that the gap between our father and son is caused today. But Yang Yang, anyway, I hope you can understand that I am your father, I am connected with your blood, and I love you the most in the world. Although I couldn't take you away for objective reasons before, it doesn't mean that you are not the most important person in my life. In addition, I am now trying to make up for my past mistakes.
Today is your birthday. First of all, dad wishes you a happy birthday. I hope you can grow up healthily and happily in the future. This is my greatest wish.
Dad knows you've been unhappy for years. But you don't know, because you are unhappy, dad feels like a stone, heavy and guilty.
Forty-five days after you were born, when you were still in infancy, I sent you to your grandparents' home more than 100 kilometers away. At that time, my father worked very hard and his life was a mess. You are so small and weak, dad is really unable to take care of you, so he sent you to his grandparents.
I know that when you were very young, you envied your neighbors and children having their parents. At that time, you didn't remember that when you saw a child coquetry his mother, you would call grandma and mom. Do you know that dad cried about it?
I remember when you were two years old, your grandmother took you out to play. As long as you see other children sitting in the back seat of their mother's bike, you chase them, and if you catch them, you will hold on to the back seat of their mother's bike. Grandma loves you dearly, so she repaired the abandoned bicycle in the basement and installed a child seat in the back seat, so that Grandpa can drag you around the street every day.
After being sensible, because of this single-parent family that you can't choose, because there is no love and care from your parents, you begin to find that you are different from other children, and you begin to know how to miss.
I remember that every time my father went to see you, my grandmother would tell him that the epicenter knew that his father would come back and would sit on the roadside early. I keep asking grandma, why hasn't dad arrived yet? Will my father come back? Every time I see my father appear, I will call him excitedly and shake my little hand and stumble. In dad's arms, you hold dad's neck tightly, and you will proudly tell passers-by that "this is my dad!" " "
Do you still remember that when you sleep at night, you put your little face tightly on your father's arm, and when you look happy and satisfied, your father will feel guilty in his heart. Every time dad left, grandma was afraid of your trouble, coaxed you out to play, and promised to buy you toys and delicious food. That's because mom and dad can't bear to hear your heartbreaking cry. At that time, my father was anxious and afraid to return to Kuitun. Miss that little son, anxious to return when I go back. But time is really too short. I'm afraid that once I leave, my mind will be full of you crying for many days, and my heart will be like a hand pulling. what can I do? If I don't want to go, then I have to go with my heart. Dad has to work. This work is very important. It is the guarantee of your life.
Today, when I think of these past events, my father's heart is still sour.
Later, when you grew up and went to primary school, you were dad's greatest pride. Every time I come home to see you, my father always shows you off in front of colleagues and friends. I told my colleagues that my son is the teacher's favorite student, and the teacher always asks you to accompany her after school every day. Because the teacher likes being smart and doing things seriously, I let you be the monitor. You were also named as a top student and the leader of the three bars. At the same time, you are a small broadcaster in the school, and only you have the key to the school broadcasting room hanging around your neck. The awards and certificates of honor can cover the floor of grandma's bedroom. Remember one year when dad came home and spread your award on the ground and asked you to sit on it and take pictures? How proud you made dad. You also won the third prize in the National Primary School Painting and Calligraphy Competition. Your classical guitar passed Grade 9 in less than a year's study. I have never told you how proud I am of your achievements. However, I am really proud, very proud. My son, so young, is so smart and self-reliant.
When you were in the third grade of junior high school, your father made progress in all aspects and could provide you with a good living and learning environment. So I took you to Karamay. Now that I think about it, Dad made another mistake. That is, I seldom take the initiative to have a serious heart-to-heart talk with you, and I have never asked you whether you adapt to the new environment and get along well with teachers and classmates. Only when your academic performance declines, I will criticize you rudely, and even scold you with words that hurt your self-esteem when you are angry. What I did was terrible, ignoring the psychological barrier caused by your long absence from your father. I add up my mistakes and your poor academic performance and throw them at you rudely. However, son, you should also understand that love is a deep responsibility, because you have not been with me since childhood. I am afraid that my lack of education will lead to your lack of correct understanding and planning for the future and affect your future. That's why it's a little radical in ways and means.
But every time I scold you, I feel guilty. I often ask myself, am I a qualified father?
Let me see, when did the shadow of my dear son leave you? It should be that after middle school, you no longer want to be close to your father, and gradually learned to bury your heart. Especially after you came to Karamay, you never took the initiative to find me. Every time at the dinner table, I never look at my father, just eat with my head covered and say nothing. Dad knew that you had something on your mind when you grew up and put a lock on your heart. Life, study and emotion are all locked. But dad can't find the key to open it. Of course, you may not understand what your father is telling you now, but you won't understand until one day you become a father. When your son puts up a wall for you in your heart, it is no different from a dull pain for your father.
I still remember that soon after you transferred to Karamay, your report card came down, and your grades were not ideal, even your moral education grades were very low. You said that part of the moral education achievement is that the teacher asked the students to grade each other, and you gave a high score. I didn't expect the students to give you a low score. Son, I'm telling you, remember one thing when dealing with people. How can you do whatever you want and ask for a clear conscience? . Being a man, you can't let everyone know that you agree with you, but as long as you have a clear conscience, then you are a man of good conduct. Moral education score is just a number, what matters is your inner health and integrity. So I hope you don't leave a shadow of inferiority for this. Although that moral education achievement affected you more or less, it can't be the reason for your decline in academic performance. Of course, dad knows better that in your life, there are so many times when you lack the care of your parents, which makes you feel unsafe and lonely, but these growing experiences cannot be the reason for you to surrender to life.
Son, you must remember that even if everyone gives up on you, you can't give up on yourself.
Today, when you are eighteen, you are no longer a child, but a man. As a man, you have responsibilities on your shoulders. Therefore, external pressure and negative influence should not be the reason for you to escape from reality.
What is a man's responsibility? Is to take responsibility. Your responsibility at this stage is to learn. Why do I not hesitate to accuse you, scold you, and even stimulate you with words that hurt you, so that you can catch up in your academic performance? Doesn't dad feel bad when he scolds you and hurts you? Distressed! Of course it hurts! Son, if there is a better way, if you fully understand the importance of learning, how can dad be willing to say a mean word about you? Do you understand my difficulty?
I come from your grade, too. At that time, your grandfather scolded me and hit me. I hated your grandfather at that time, too. But now that I think about it, I really hope your grandfather can scold me harder. Then I can wake up in time, see clearly the way I want to go and work hard for it. Son, life is realistic, and sometimes it can even be described as cruelty. Your ability is not enough, and you will be bullied in this society in the future. This kind of bullying is not as simple as who hit you or even cut you. This kind of bullying is to oppress your life into a dilemma, bow your head and be a man, and forcibly deprive you of your dignity. Society is like a pyramid, you must live at the same level as you. The higher you stand, the wider the sky is. At a lower level, all you can get is a small life field, too small to deserve the word "playing". Simply put, it is to live. At the same time, I have to bear the suffocation of the shadow coming down from a height. This is life and the real society you will face in the future.
Being admitted to university with excellent results is the first starting point of your life and your first weapon to deal with real life. If you can't even get this weapon, you lose the qualification to face reality. Reality shows no mercy to losers. Think about that situation, the sun is blocked by trees high above, and you are a fallen leaf low below, which withers involuntarily. In other words, if you don't cross the threshold of college, you lose the right to negotiate in life to get what you want. And life gives you only enough information to live. It's like seeing spring in autumn. Yang Yang, calm down and think about it. Can dad not force you to study?
Your mid-term exam results kept dad awake for several nights. He got out of bed in the middle of the night, sat on the sofa, lit a cigarette and thought about your future. You're still like a child asleep in the dark magic. How does dad wake you up?
Considering your poor grades, it is difficult to graduate from high school, and dad really can't bear it. After so many years, it's hard, but facing your current situation, dad is very guilty and helpless. To tell the truth, this letter was written by dad with tears, and he was very worried. You will usher in the most critical moment of your life. But son, you haven't woken up yet. We have no time.
Maybe I shouldn't talk to you about these heavy things at your age. At your age, when you are in your prime, you should accept the words sunshine, spring and flowers. But I can't say. I have to tell you the heavy side of life reality. Because dad is getting old, he can't take care of you all his life. You have to walk on your own in the future, and dad can't hold you forever. We don't avoid life and death. The living are bound to die. One day, when dad left, you still didn't open your life path, and you still walked cautiously and difficultly on the rugged and winding road. Every time I think about it, how can dad rest assured, son? Tell me, how can I rest assured? !
In addition, Yang Yang, dad also wants to talk about some shortcomings in your body now. If you face them squarely and correct them, it will be helpful to your future. Dad found that you are letting yourself go more and more. You begin to like lying, become selfish and stingy, don't want to communicate with your family, have only three minutes of enthusiasm for anything, become obsessed with games, and gradually become lazy. I don't believe this is who I really am. You just turn off your positive energy and let these negative factors flood. Dad hopes that after your eighteenth birthday, you can show your self-control and perseverance, and you can find your true self as an adult.
Finally, dad wants to say a few words to you. It's about grandparents. Grandpa gave you a nickname "Yang Yang", one of which means to take you as the center and care about you. Another meaning is to take the homonym of this word, which has a wide meaning. I hope you can take responsibility in the future, and only with responsibility can you have a broader life space.
You have been crying since you were a child, and it is difficult to take care of you. In our family, the living conditions are not plentiful, and there is no breast milk. You can't use any formula to calculate how hard your grandparents have worked to support you.
In the winter when you were three years old, grandma carried you upstairs and fell down from the upstairs, and all the bones on your feet came out. When she fell, she subconsciously protected you without hurting you at all. Maybe you forgot. Yang Yang, it's really not easy.
Maybe when you grow up and have your own children, you will understand the difficulties. But when you have children and understand what true selfless love is, then your grandparents will be gone, and your loved ones who have paid more for you than your father will be gone. Will you be sad? I will, son. I will. That kind of guilt will become a thorn in your heart. What's the use of regretting that you didn't have a good filial piety when you were alive? Three feet under the loess, no matter how loudly you shout, grandparents no longer have the strength to gently call you a nickname.
Therefore, dad hopes that after your eighteenth birthday, you will be as sensible as an adult and stop making your grandparents angry. You grew up in their hands little by little, and your impatience with them now is a great harm to them, understand? Why hurt two people who gave all their love to themselves? Dad hopes that you can cherish those days with your closest relatives and be a conscientious person in their lifetime. Son, look at your grandparents carefully. Look at their old age and white hair. How much time do they have to make you angry?
There is still a lot to say, and I think we can have a good talk and exchange in the future. I am your father, and you are my son, the most stable and warm family in the world. Why can't we open our hearts to each other?