What I want to say to my son
Baby, mom wants to say to you; Watching you grow up day by day and feeling your little changes with your heart, I really realized the beauty and difficulty of life. It turns out that each of us grew up like this, and after many times of crying, we can slowly walk steadily on the road of life step by step.
201110 at night, after several hours of labor pains, the doctor and aunt cut you out of your mother's stomach. That moment is as clear as yesterday. Your loud crying made me feel the greatness of my mother. I have thought about this exciting moment for thousands of times, but when I really held you in my arms and saw your healthy wrinkled face, my ups and downs for many days suddenly calmed down. It turns out that being a mother can be so strong. After experiencing great pain, endless happiness followed. From that day on, "mom" became a new term that I was familiar with and unfamiliar with. Your existence makes me realize the happiness of being a mother, and at the same time I really understand the truth that "I don't know my parents' gratitude if I don't raise children." "
Experienced countless firsts. The first time I saw you cry, I smiled; The first time I saw you smile at me, I cried in vain; I was very anxious to give you a bath for the first time; The first time I saw you scream, it seemed to be talking to me. I am ecstatic. . . Every little progress you make will surprise and comfort your mother. Since I had you, my mother has dedicated all her love to you, baby. Mom wants to tell you that your life journey has just begun. Mom doesn't want you to get ahead. She only wants you to be a healthy, happy, strong and independent man. Always with a grateful heart. .
You are the sweetest burden for mom, and life is perfect with you.
Son, it's been two months since school started, and mom has been trying to say something to you. My mind has been hovering, but I have never calmed down. You didn't study with your mother. I think it is necessary for me to seriously talk to you about some of my ideas.
First of all, I want to tell you that we are proud of you. Entering key middle schools in Changsha proves that you are an excellent student with all-round development. You have made unexpected progress in your study, publicity and life recently. No matter whether you make your own model in geography or fold clothes racks by hand, you are the first in your class. No matter whether you fold square quilts to give extra points to your dormitory, whether you get A+ for your independent work many times, or whether the Chinese and math teachers of the class teacher reflect that you are a student with a very correct learning attitude, you are undoubtedly a good boy who can adapt to boarding life and study. Your parents are proud of you, and you should be as proud of yourself as we are.
I will always remember the moment when you fell to the ground and held you in my arms for the first time. A fresh and exciting feeling touched my heart instantly. It is a feeling that will always fascinate me, that is, the "mother-child complex" that connects our lives. I often think of me singing a lullaby and rocking you to sleep. When I put you down, I often feel relieved and sorry. On the one hand, I think he finally fell asleep! On the other hand, I wish I could hold you for a while. I still remember when you were two years old, clamoring for a small bike. I have a good time watching you wear open-backed pants. You are so cute and persistent that it started to rain in spite of everything. Everyone loves you very much. You are a happy mother.
You always squint and smile. The primary school teacher says you are a naughty boy and never make trouble. You have an aura that teachers can't imagine. You are never unreasonable, considerate, obedient and polite. You have been shouting at acquaintances since you were a child, and you have never been stingy with your words. You are never picky when you eat. You can eat whatever you want. Potatoes and cabbage are particularly delicious, and I don't complain at all. When you have math, Olympics, Chinese painting, English and sketch classes on Saturday and Sunday, although I think you are very tired, you still work hard and take these as happy things. Do you remember what your father specially gave you to drink when Xiaoshengchu studied hard? This is our secret. Really, we parents are really lucky to have a son like you.
The most precious thing in the world is family. Think of your grandparents, grandparents, uncles and aunts who have given you selfless love. Like parents, they are people who really take care of you and love you. When you are studying abroad, you should take care of yourself and try to visit them if you have time. This is the best filial piety and reward for them.
You are a good brother, too. Although you bullied your sister before, you mostly teased her. Now you are really good friends together. My sister loves you very much and likes to make you laugh. Now she follows your example, Austrian Math Erhu. After you left your family to study in Changsha alone, she missed you very much. I know you miss her too. As you get older, the friendship between your brother and sister remains the same. You take care of each other and care about each other. This is what I want to see most. When you go home, you must always have a heart-to-heart chat with your sister, talk about school life and even talk about your ideal life.
Middle school will be the most important time in your life, and you will learn a lot from it. You used to ask questions that your mother didn't know to answer. As long as you study hard, you will find the answer. But I hope you understand: don't just read a few textbooks, the most important thing is to be knowledgeable, learn more and use the specific knowledge you have learned to solve new problems. This is the real meaning of learning-this will be the stage when you change from passive learning to autonomous learning, and then you will become an excellent autonomous learner. Therefore, even if what you learn is not what you need urgently in your life, you should take every lesson seriously.
Don't be bound by dogma, there is no single simple answer to any question. Remember when we studied Olympic mathematics together? I can only work out the result, but I don't know how to solve the problem. You have your ideas and methods to solve the problem, but we can find a better and simpler method by learning from the teacher. What I mean by this is, don't look at a problem in black and white. There are many ways and angles. When you realize this, your study will be more active and comprehensive, and you will become a good problem solver.
Do your best in your homework, but don't put too much pressure on yourself. Your father and I have no requirements for your grades. As long as we don't drop out and get into key senior high schools in Changsha, the most important thing is to learn rich knowledge within three years, so that we will be very happy and don't have too much pressure. As long as you study hard in junior high school and, in your uncle's words, you do your best, your mother will be satisfied. Achievements are just boring figures boasted by vain people and feared by lazy people. You are neither vain nor lazy.
Most importantly, you should make some friends and live happily in middle school. You should choose some sincere friends and get close to them, regardless of their hobbies, achievements, appearance and even personality. You made some real friends in primary school. You can trust your intuition and make some new friends. You are a sincere person, and anyone will like to be your friend, so be confident, outgoing and proactive. If you like someone, tell him, even if he refuses, you have nothing to lose. Treat people with the greatest kindness, without prejudice and tolerance. No one is perfect, as long as you are sincere, trust them and be friendly to them, they will give you the same return.
Keep in touch with your primary school friends, but don't use them instead of your middle school friends, and don't spend all your time with old friends, because then you will lose the chance to make new friends.
You should also learn to start planning your study life early. Since you are alone, you should learn to arrange yourself. When to review and preview what courses, when to do homework, when to change clothes, eat with reasonable nutrition, and be careful not to catch cold when sleeping. In short, you must know something about your study life and make reasonable arrangements. Listen to your mother, you must take good care of yourself and learn to manage your time. This is responsible for your life. When you were young, your mother did a lot for you and helped you a lot. In the future, I will always stand by your side, but it's time for you to take the helm. My mother believes that you will do better without her. With the ability to plan yourself, you will move towards your ideal goal, which means you will live the life you want.
Cherish your middle school time, make good use of all your time, become an independent thinker, master your own destiny, strengthen your painting expertise, boldly develop and explore your other talents, and bravely try, learn and grow in constant success and challenges. You will become a useful talent to society. My baby, don't waste the wonderful time you have worked hard for. I hope you can become the person you dream of becoming!
Love your mom and dad.
What a mother wants to say to her son
Son, I just watched an art life. After reading it, I have some thoughts to share with you: the successful person interviewed by the host tonight is Chinese-American, focusing on educating children. When the child was in the fourth grade (studying in the United States), he asked his son to recite "Yueyang Tower" and "A Model", while other children were playing outside and his son was crying at home. Grandma can't stand it, so she scolds him. He knelt down and kowtowed to his mother, begging her to leave it alone. Later, his son went to Harvard University.
In this regard, I have some ideas. If you want to get good grades, you always have to give up something. So are the parents of pianist Lang Lang. I think the reason why my son is like this is because he has too many things to take care of, regardless of priorities, and he wants to study hard and is looking forward to playing, so he has neither studied well nor played well. Give up some, the college entrance examination is difficult to get into a good university with money, my child!
Compared with junior high school this summer vacation, you have made great progress. Keep trying. Don't forget, you only have two years to race against time to prove your strength. Only when you make progress can your mother's heart relax. Never forget that your happiness is the source of happiness for your parents.