Speaking of how to routine the girl you like. First of all, what is the routine? Bian Xiao thinks that convention is a trap thinking. For example, there is a classic saying that you ask your sister, "Why do mice fly?" "Sister a shot in the dark, then didn't guess right. You can say "because the mouse ate the magic cookie", ok, and then ask your sister why the snake flies. 70% of the girls will say, because the snake ate the magic cookie, but you tell her that you are wrong because the snake ate the mouse. At this time, women have fallen into the logical thinking you set. Finally, you ask her why the eagle flies, and 80% of the girls will say it's because the eagle ate a snake or a magic cookie. But they seem to forget that eagles can fly. This is actually a routine!

Next, I will share some practical routines with you. Although there are many routines, we must know that we must seize the opportunity when using routines. Timing is very important, just like a little joke above, it doesn't mean that everything can be said, but it also needs to be in the specific atmosphere of 1!

For example, if you want to have a girl of about 1, will you use the above methods and techniques? Invite you to dinner, take you to the movies, buy you something? All this seems too old-fashioned. Do women never eat and look down on movies? So you need 1 reasons and 1 special reasons. For example, you two hit it off and need to meet offline to get to know each other better. You can mention that I haven't met you when we have a good chat. You can go on to say that although we talked for a long time, we will never get to know each other on our mobile phones. When everyone is free, we can have a cup of coffee together and get to know each other.

Isn't it more interesting to ask a sister out like this than to invite her to dinner and watch a movie directly?

Some women, like workaholics, are working, starting businesses and making money every day. I always seem so absent-minded in the communication with you again. At an appropriate time, you can say to her: "Girls should not be too busy, too busy women can't be big brother's women, but only women's big brothers", which can express your attitude without being too blunt!

"The problem is always with you. She doesn't react well because you don't behave well." This is the last sentence that Bian Xiaoming gave to everyone. If you have problems chatting with women, you must have problems yourself, not blaming women. Only in this way can you bravely face your own shortcomings and make faster progress.