Fill in the volunteer from the surrounding environment, look at the social development trend, and know yourself.
First, understand the importance of the surrounding environment.
When people first entered the university, they had no contact with society, and their understanding of themselves and society was very vague. Young people at this stage are very easily influenced by the environment.
1. If you can repeat it, try not to go to college.
It is difficult to go to college, because there is no learning atmosphere around, and it is impossible to resist the exclusion of classmates.
Some students didn't go to the undergraduate course, and they plan to go to the junior college first, and then go to the undergraduate course after the college entrance examination.
The results show that most students from junior college have poor grades, and the habit of not studying formed in high school has been inherited to the stage of junior college.
Therefore, the learning atmosphere in most junior colleges is very poor.
When a child finds that his classmates around him are either dyeing their hair, falling in love or skipping classes, he will have a cognition that the whole world will not learn! So I relaxed myself.
Of course, there are also junior college students who want to study, but they need an extremely strong heart.
Because students who don't study have a kind of psychology, that is, they are worried that their classmates will surpass themselves.
So they often isolate, ridicule and even attack a few students who want to learn.
In such an environment, a student often doubts himself, tries to blend in with others and puts great energy into the outside world, which will make learning more difficult.
Therefore, many students, once in the junior college, slowly find that the original wish to take an undergraduate course cannot be realized, which is too difficult.
If you stay in the cram school for a year from the beginning, the tense learning atmosphere in the cram school will not only hold you back, but also drive you to study. Maybe you will be admitted to the undergraduate course in the second year.
So the environment is very important, and the people you are in will shape your cognition.
The resources around you will also affect your eyesight.
The choices you made in your twenties have a great influence on your later life, and these important choices come from your cognition and vision.
So, don't let yourself fall into the depraved lower class.
Otherwise, with your young mind and your own efforts, it will be difficult to climb out again, and it may take a lifetime.
Children rarely think that the crowd they are in is not the whole world.
If you are in a school, everyone will not consider long-term development. Compared with them, you don't feel inferior.
However, unconsciously, everyone is studying in a good school next door.
The point is, when you graduate, you will compete with all the young people in poor schools and good schools.
At that time, when you come out of your own small circle and face your peers who have worked hard in other universities for four years, you will regret wasting your youth.
2. If you can raise money, try not to go to schools with obviously low tuition fees.
I chose a school and felt that the tuition fee of this school was very low.
In the face of low tuition schools, we must be vigilant.
On the one hand, the hardware facilities in this school may be relatively backward, which is not conducive to your study.
On the other hand, you may face people with relatively narrow cognition, and they will affect your pattern.
Price is an effective means of screening people.
Of course, when I was at school, my family was difficult and I was complacent about choosing a school with lower tuition.
However, it turned out that the students in this school are basically poor families in rural areas. Only social organizations recruit urban workers, with low educational level and poor learning atmosphere.
I don't despise the poor, because I was a farmer's child at that time, but the short-sightedness and small pattern caused by poverty will seriously affect your understanding of life planning.
When I was at school, I saw what my classmates discussed every day. Today's dinner only cost 20 cents. I heard that there was a restaurant discount tomorrow, so I made an appointment to grab it early.
The most concerned is the calculation of meals and living expenses.
No one pays attention to the study abroad program proposed by the school, because everyone wants to graduate quickly to earn money to support their families.
It's best to do odd jobs outside during school and start to supplement the family.
The school found that the study abroad program had little response, so it was simply not launched in the later period.
Create a vicious circle.
In this crowd, few people discuss studying abroad, few people apply for IELTS and other English learning courses, and few people have plans to take the postgraduate entrance examination.
Even when looking for a job after graduation, most students are so short-sighted that they only look at the salary during the probation period and don't look at the future development prospects.
Because when do we feel that although the salary is high after becoming a full member, three months is too far, and now we need money.
Because of the general poverty, we can only see the existence of the present, students strengthen their cognition with each other, and more and more people firmly think about the present.
The idea of exploring a wider world for the future of life is gradually excluded from consciousness and no longer wants to go.
But when I got some income after work and went to another university with higher tuition, I found that most of my classmates were talking about taking the postgraduate entrance examination and studying abroad.
So I need to know many ways to get scholarships, and I also know that studying abroad and studying abroad don't have to be done in China.
Because students have higher goals and wider horizons, they study very hard.
On campus, all you see are students running around the library and canteen with books, either preparing for IELTS or preparing for the postgraduate entrance examination. Few people idle away their time.
Because the goal is ambitious, people who are richer than you work harder than you.
I found myself so short-sighted and cognitively limited in the bottom crowd, so it is conceivable that my future living standard will not be much higher.
Not to belittle the poor, but it is an objective fact.
In the past two decades, the domestic market has become more and more standardized, and there are fewer and fewer opportunities to get rich overnight. So there are fewer and fewer rich people with low quality.
Relatively speaking, most wealthy families are the result of their stronger willingness to pay, clearer cognition and larger pattern.
At the age of twenty, people's cognitive patterns and behavior habits are basically determined by their parents.
Therefore, among students with good family conditions, you will find that there are more diligent students with large patterns.
Don't save money at the most critical moment in life. Even if you apply for a student loan, you should find a way to go to a relatively high-quality school to raise money.
3. Check the gap between the entrance score and the postgraduate entrance examination rate of this school.
Only professionals can understand this factor.
In recent years, domestic universities have made great progress. Many schools have been upgraded from junior colleges to undergraduate or comprehensive universities for several years, and the teaching staff is still the same as before.
More importantly, the school spirit is still the previous school spirit.
Some schools have high admission scores, and all majors are above the key line, but the postgraduate entrance examination rate is very low.
It shows that the admitted students are all good students, and they will not study as a whole after entering this university.
This is a strange phenomenon, because the school spirit is passed down from session to session.
College students have the habit of imitating the behavior of their seniors and sisters. When they first enter college, they always blindly believe in the teaching of their seniors and sisters.
If a junior student is unfortunately told by his senior sister that the university is "playing"; Student union is very important; Looking for a job depends on relationships; None of the students in our school can get into graduate school, so it is very difficult to take the postgraduate entrance examination.
These misconceptions will affect his behavior.
After playing for four years, I found it really difficult to take the postgraduate entrance examination. After verifying the teaching of seniors and sisters, I will pass on such misconceptions to my younger brothers and sisters.
If the predecessor of this school is a junior college, even if the students in the following sessions are above the key line, they will be baptized, relaxed and degraded by the wrong school spirit passed down from session to session after entering school.
Therefore, you will find that the enrollment rate of senior graduates in schools with similar admission scores is very different, indicating that there is a gap in school spirit.
The postgraduate entrance examination rate can be found in the graduate department of the school website.
Before choosing a school, you should give priority to the city.
Going to college is different from going to primary and secondary schools. It is no longer the stage of studying hard and coping with exams, but the stage of starting to live independently, get in touch with society and become sensible.
At the age of twenty, I just came out of my hometown and knew nothing about the world. Anyone you meet and see will lead you in different directions.
The speed of a person's growth depends on his own thinking density, but the basis of thinking is that a lot of high-quality information comes in.
In addition to learning professional knowledge, it is also important to broaden your horizons and enhance your cognition.
Choosing an information-rich, open and advanced city is a very important step in your life.
Such as Beijing, Shanghai, Guangzhou, Shenzhen, Hangzhou, Nanjing, Chengdu and other first-and second-tier cities.
After school, go out to visit the city and visit the public facilities in the city, such as art galleries, planning halls, museums, libraries and so on.
Good cities often have some minority activities, such as cultural salons, which are also worth recommending. You may meet excellent people and let you find a role model.
These places and activities often give people gains beyond cognition, and then stimulate thinking on higher-level issues.
These thoughts play a decisive role in the ultimate height of life and are often more important than this professional knowledge.
Ma Yun was able to set up Alibaba because he saw the trend of the world and because of an opportunity to visit the United States.
The reason why Ma has an entrepreneurial vision is also because what he saw and heard during his study abroad enhanced his cognition.
Hemingway said: If you were lucky enough to live in Paris when you were young, Paris will always follow you wherever you go from now on.
A person's knowledge determines his pattern, which determines his life.
Although ordinary people are unlikely to take the lead, we must not ignore the key role of broadening our horizons in life.
Going to college is a key node in the life transition of children in ordinary families.
If you study in a closed and backward area, you think this is the whole world, but you may never realize it. In fact, people can live in another way.
There is such a passage, I hope you can understand:
"I live a regular life and earn a small sum of money to support my family. One day, I accidentally saw another way of life, values and attitude towards life, and accidentally glanced at the true face of the world. Then, while being smashed by the three views, I was ashamed of my previous ignorance, arrogance and rudeness. "
Second, pay attention to social development trends.
1. Carefully choose a major that is very popular at the moment but has a short life.
Our society has changed dramatically in ten years, and a person will live for more than 50 years after graduating from college.
Now every choice, we must take a long-term view.
When a major is in great demand by the market, most colleges and universities will set up popular majors one after another.
You should be vigilant. Maybe by the time you graduate, the market will be saturated and there will be a surplus of talents in this field. It may not be easy for you to find a job, and there may not be many opportunities.
The sudden popularity of a major can only show that the current social development has reached this stage, and the market needs a large number of professionals in this major.
But the society is developing forward and the market demand is constantly changing.
The heat will always go down, but you need an ability that can be used to settle down.
With the development of new technology, people who choose popular majors often have to learn new things again, and the previous efforts and accumulation are completely useless.
2. See the development trend of technology.
The development of artificial intelligence is unstoppable.
Majors that are highly repetitive or rely on empiricism are easily replaced because they lack creativity and are easily simulated more accurately by computers.
Creativity is related to moral ethics and interpersonal processing, because artificial intelligence is difficult to replace in the emotional field in a short time.
Third, know your own characteristics.
1. Personality.
If you are extroverted, sociable and need it, you can consider dealing with the outside world more.
Such as management, lawyers, consulting, etc. Choose a major under this guidance.
If you are introverted and like to study alone, you can consider research and work that can be done by yourself.
Such as academics, design, creation, etc. Choose a major under this guidance.
2. Know what you really like.
Being able to treat hobbies as work is a lifelong happiness.
Only when people do what they like can they devote considerable enthusiasm. Working long hours not only makes them feel bored, but also enjoys it.
Only in this state can we go further and further on the professional road until we make achievements.
In the fun, unconsciously become the leader in the industry, and the success of the cause is only the natural result in the process of enjoying hobbies.
You can see that people who have made achievements in any field basically love the major itself.
In addition, what a person loves is often what he is good at.
People's talents and abilities vary greatly.
Some people have a talent for languages, some people have a talent for sports, and some people have a talent for music.
Maybe you will say that you have no talent and can't compete with the master.
In fact, everyone has talent, just the difference between strength and weakness.
Even if your talent for painting is not so strong, painting is easier for you than your talent for mathematics. Then choosing painting will make your life less difficult.
Remember a word, if you let a fish learn to climb trees, he will feel like a fool all his life.
Be sure to find something you love and are good at, and you will find that you will be more successful than others in this field.
Everyone is tiny, with all kinds of social resources, not so much.
You just need to find your own track, run in what you love and are good at, and compete with others.
Don't worry about your hobby being unpopular. No major needs to worry about employment and income, as long as it keeps learning and becomes a leader in the field.
No matter how popular the major is, if you are not good at it, even if opportunities are everywhere and there are many competitors, some of whom are very good at it, you will still be completely excluded from the position.
In the past twenty years, software technology has been a hot topic, but there are too many people studying this major, and the market is saturated. Not proficient and not good at it, always leading Weibo's salary to the bottom of the industry, and still feel that the task is very arduous.
However, even if you study archaeology, if you love it very much, you will learn it again. Although there are few opportunities in this field, there are also few competitors. If you are excellent, it is easy to get opportunities.
Therefore, it must be personal strength, not any professional hotspot, that determines future employment, income and career development.
Third, clarify the basic cognition
1. Abandon the cognition of "Do things when you are ready".
People's life experience before the college entrance examination makes us feel that everything is difficult at the beginning, so we must be fully prepared.
Because every exam is repeated study and practice before the exam, and finally go to the examination room.
This kind of cognition, in some people, will follow him all his life, and finally find that he always waits until he is ready. In fact, he will never be ready and waste time.
But in fact, this world is another set of logic.
Everything should be done first. In the process of doing, you keep learning and improving. When you master it completely, it's over.
After all, practice is the best teacher.
2. Know the position of "learning" in life.
If there are no accidents, the average person will live 100 years, and the skills and cognition learned in the previous 20 years are far from enough to cope with 100 years of life.
Especially after the emergence of the Internet and artificial intelligence, the human world has entered an era of constant innovation and rapid change.
The technology people use, their cognition of the world and themselves are all iterations every three to five years.
The outside world is updating iterations at an increasing speed. People's cognition will be eliminated if they don't follow the trend.
Therefore, we must establish such a cognition:
Be prepared for life-long learning iteration.
3. Recognize the position of "undergraduate stage" in learning career.
You can't expect to be able to cope with all your future jobs by studying science for four years, which is far from enough.
If you think of going to primary and secondary schools as learning to walk, you just walked out of the stadium and took a look.
All the professional knowledge you have learned is basic knowledge, but you haven't really entered the room yet.
What you really learn is in the master's and doctor's stages; Or what you started to learn when you graduated from college and joined a job.
People always complain that what they learn at school is useless after work, which is a wrong idea.
What the school learns is the foundation, and what the working process learns is the practical application. On the premise of having a foundation, you can learn to use it faster.
When the company recruits people, try to find students with professional counterparts, because they have a professional foundation and can get started quickly when training practical skills.
An art student and a software engineering student are doing blockchain technology in an Internet company. None of them learned it at school, but which one can get started faster?
Be clear at a glance.
Fourth, don't blindly follow your parents' advice, including mine.
Unless a few elite parents can keep pace with the times, don't be influenced by their parents' suggestions.
Everyone knows that parents are absolutely good to their children.
However, with good intentions, you may not have enough knowledge to give correct guidance.
The vast majority of the post-60 s and post-70 s have never been to college.
Even those who have gone to college, only a few people's cognitive ability has always kept up with the times.
This is an easy problem for all mankind. The older people are, the harder it is for them to accept new things.
Even when people reach middle age, most people are still using the cognition formed before the age of 30 to guide their present lives.
But today's society is changing rapidly, and the world today is completely different from that of 20 years ago.
It is basically out of touch to use the cognition of 20 years ago to guide the current action.
Fifth, the final summary.
All in all,
1. If I can't get the undergraduate score, unless my family is rich, I suggest that I try to repeat it for one year.
2. Make clear your hobbies and specialties, and choose a major within the scope of expertise.
3. Choose cities first, and be sure to go to first-tier and second-tier cities, or other advanced and open cities, and try to avoid closing backward areas.
4. Choose a school again, focusing on the school spirit, learning atmosphere and living atmosphere.
5. Try to avoid being influenced by parents.
Six, undergraduate course is not the end, but the starting point of life.
From the beginning of undergraduate study, the future of people, which direction to go, has gradually become clear, but only by continuous progress and continuous efforts can we continue to reap results.
There is nothing once and for all in the world. It is wrong to think that you can earn money lying on your back after graduating from college or undergraduate course!
If you study law, it is not easy for you to do well in the future. You also need to pass a very difficult law exam and have honed in the industry for nearly ten years.
If you study accounting, of course it is useful. Xingtian badly needs a real accountant. In addition to understanding the business of the industry, you must take the accounting certificate and certified public accountant certificate in the future to be competent for the task.
If you study in a normal college, you still need to take the teacher qualification certificate. After work, you can continue to study, publish papers and evaluate professional titles in order to gain a firm foothold in the industry.
If you study human resources, you still need to take the human resources teacher qualification certificate after graduation, especially in the workplace, to constantly hone and learn, understand human nature and industry characteristics, in order to be recognized by the industry.
Even if you study choreography, you still need to lay a solid foundation, accumulate diligently, and understand social needs. Only through ten or twenty efforts can you achieve something. ......
So, work hard.
You don't have to be too nervous. Think about how to apply for a university from a macro perspective.
After all, life is a process of dynamic adjustment, and going to college can't make the final decision on the future life.
We must keep learning and improving ourselves all our lives in order to walk on the road of harvest.
Going to college is the real beginning of your life.
Don't set limits for yourself, take a long-term view and make every choice at present.
Keep the pace of progress and wait for the unexpected gift of fate at any time.