Chapter 8 of the principal's diary
I especially like what Roman Roland said. There is no shortage of beauty in this world, but the eyes that find beauty.
Over the years, I have been busy with my work, taking care of my family and raising my children, as if I were running and anxious all the way. When the child grows up, looking back, he finds that there is a lot of beauty and happiness around him. As for the understanding of the word busy, busy is equivalent to the death of the heart.
In fact, no matter what role you are, what environment, beautiful things are there. See if you can find it, appreciate it, feel it and be nourished by it.
Busy work often makes people tired, but there are still many moments worth cherishing. The mutual help between colleagues, the little progress of children, the pure care of teachers, the support and recognition of parents, and their own progress and growth are all happiness and beauty that can be held in their hands.
Family trifles often make people worry and worry, but there are still many touching places, such as disagreement between husband and wife, ruthless arguments, trivial matters in the process of raising children, and even irritate you from time to time, which will make you feel gratified from time to time ... Isn't it just a kind of scenery?
There are too many landscapes in life. Those that are visible to the naked eye and those that are invisible to the naked eye need to slow down, feel with heart and taste with heart.
It's a little late today and I want to be lazy. Just share the words written by the teacher!
What is the scenery in the teacher's eyes?
Teacher Han Lifen:
Today, I was awakened by the phrase "Yiyi, you haven't hugged me for a long time" from a good baby in grade four. I immediately gave my child a big hug and praised him for his conscious study recently. Although I am in the fourth grade, I still like to hug my teacher like the children in the fish swing class. After class, the teacher is like a tree. They are like monkeys, the one on the left should jump on the tree! At this moment, the "branches" are bent, and the teachers' eyebrows are bent with laughter, which warms our hearts of educating people.
Ao teacher:
This week, the class will hold a general election of the class Committee. The children were very excited when we released the news. Chatting between classes becomes what you are running and what I am running. The whole class seemed to be dragged together by an invisible force, and Qi Xin worked together to do the same thing. From the publication of the work list, everyone filling in two volunteers, scrutinizing their speeches, to the first stage of the campaign speech, everything is in full swing. From their campaign speeches, I heard every child's expectation for the class, made suggestions for the class construction, and told me what I was going to do for the election! I see the responsibility on the children's tender shoulders!
Principal Li Xingning:
The scenery in my eyes? After a busy day, how can I have time to see the scenery? But whether you watch it or not, the new learning path has scenery every day.
What I like best is the smiling faces of students, and what I like best is the sound of students reading. Today, I learned the last part of The Doctrine of the Mean with my students and spoke the most touching sentence. Everyone likes it unanimously-the poem says, "Respect is better than obedience." Confucius said, "If you are in love, you will be transformed into a human being." It means that my moral character is bright and I don't have to be harsh. Educating people in a shrill voice is the worst way. My classmates and I have reflected that neither teachers nor students like to "speak loudly", and both teachers and students will smile.
In the evening, these children, who usually don't like reciting, recited Li Daoyuan's "Three Gorges" in collective language documents after dinner, and some of them soon finished reciting it.
It is true that students may be frightened by bullying, but emotional singing can educate everything better.
I chose a few essays at random, and for me, each one is a touching scenery.
The principal's diary Chapter 9
After breakfast in the morning, I ran to the door of the second grade classroom and sneaked a look. Before the morning reading time, some children have taken out their tablets and started reading quietly and consciously.
I went to a children's desk and saw the books in the desk bucket. I was shocked. Well done! Books are like being cut with a knife, and the yards are very regular. "Wow, you scared me, how can you be neat!" The praised child's face lit up. When other children heard my words, they quickly began to tidy up their desks. Then several children called me: "President Liu, come and see me!" " "Others quickly blocked their desks and said shyly," Mine is not ready yet ... "
In this way, I went to several classrooms in a row and found many experts who sorted out and children who quickly rectified. We agreed that I would come quietly from time to time to see whose desk bucket was the neatest and scared me the most!
Out of the classroom, those children who consciously read classics every day have already sat on the small bench and started reading every day. I can't help feeling ashamed of my little accumulation. They have been telling me classics every day recently.
In this garden, you can see the beautiful scenery around the corner. Because children always pursue goodness and beauty.
The principal's diary article 10
Looking at the scenery in my eyes written by every teacher, I am moved and inspired from time to time ... there are too many scenery worth recording in one day!
Get up in the morning to manage the teacher Lu Lina who accompanies the children and ensures their safety; Director Hao, taking the initiative to cook for everyone, is quite a chef; Take the broken child to the podium to participate in the chorus, and guarantee Yan Huaduo; Liu He 'ao, teachers kneel on the ground to cheer for their children; Lulu and Tang Tang who lead everyone in front of the stage and improve the quality of the program; Xiang Juan behind design and organization; Liu Wei, a teacher who arranges clothes for children on the stage; Zhu Qingban's teachers and students who still encourage and comfort each other in the face of unsatisfactory chorus performances and sad tears; While watching the program, pay close attention to the anxious teacher Xing Xiao; Take photos for everyone silently, upload pictures in time, push WeChat on time, and pay the teacher behind; It is the class teacher who watches the children perform and enjoys the children, and is a loyal fan of the children; Principal Xingning who attended the meeting but could not get together; Ensure that the data is accurate and reported on time, and it is impossible to participate in the event Sophia Kao; After the performance, the class mothers who returned to the classroom to sort out; Every classroom is patrolled to ensure the classroom is clean; On the rostrum, the two hosts of "Beautiful Women" are practicing their lines repeatedly; A small conductor who is methodical and full of personality; A beautiful and wonderful parent choir on the stage; Flexible, lively and creative art and sports group teachers; Teachers under the camera, children's bright smiling faces; Director Liu and Director Hao continued to work overtime during the holidays, while Wang Bin and Shangguan continued to stick to their posts; Yajun Sun and English group who send new tablets to children in time and deal with problems in time; Choose to trust us and give our children to our parents. ...
There is love in the heart, light in the eyes and power in action! You, me, he is not only a part of the scenery, but also the creator of beautiful scenery. ...
The headmaster's diary article 11
As long as time permits, I prefer to take the high-speed train and follow it through cities, villages, mountains and Yuan Ye. I always feel more practical and steady.
Choose to sit by the window, the changing scenery along the way outside the window seems within reach, or you can lie on your seat half-way, choose your favorite posture, relax your body and mind, your drowsiness and fatigue will dissipate a little, and you won't feel boring and boring during the long journey.
Today is a rare double festival, and there seem to be a lot more people on the road. The originally deserted waiting hall and platform are also more lively than before. ...
People who are busy on the road are beautiful, and you seem to see the joy on the faces of homecoming people or travelers; The rolling mountains outside the window are beautiful, and you seem to see the traces of seasonal changes; The young mother with a baby in her carriage is very beautiful. It seems that the mother's true love for her children is mixed in her gestures. The train passed through the dark cave and gave off a buzzing roar, which was beautiful. You seem to think it is like a vibrant life running in the dark, rushing to the bright joy ahead. The picture of harmonious family interaction in the carriage is beautiful, and you seem to see the richness of life nourished by a happy family. ...
In this way, all the way forward, all the way to enjoy, want to reach the distance, unconsciously in front of you.
The principal's diary 12
I want to write about him today, because several teachers have told me excitedly that he suddenly woke up recently and always took the initiative to ask teachers for classes, questions and homework ... I was very happy to learn this news, knowing that this day would come sooner or later, but I didn't expect it to be so soon!
The first time I met him was three years ago, when the summer camp started. He was sent by his parents, but he didn't go to school. When I heard about this situation, I tried to do his work. I saw him holding a small tree in his arms, showing his back and looking rebellious. I thought I had been through many battles, so I walked across from him and greeted him confidently and cordially. But his immature face showed anger and disgust, and his eyes were full of panic and fear. "Go away, go away ..." He roared, and this reaction was greatly unexpected! Not only to me, but also to everyone's persuasion teacher, he is like a frightened little animal. All his friendly and well-intentioned responses to the outside world are verbal attacks and resistance. I don't remember how he got into school later, but I know that as time goes by, I can hardly see his anger.
The second time I was moved was a year ago. I went to his class and had a math class. The teacher who tried to speak asked him to answer the question with expectation. Judging from the state of listening, anyone present had reason to believe that he could answer smoothly, only to see that after repeated invitations from the teacher, he barely stood up and said shyly, "I am a scum." Language seems dull, but like a needle, it hurts my heart.
I met him for the third time a few months ago. In my math class, everyone actively discusses the math problems in the class, and then finishes the homework in full swing. He is the only one wandering in his own world, lazily crossing his legs, proudly looking at his partners immersed in learning, and posing as a Buddhist figure who "cares about you, but it's none of my business". How come? I don't listen in class, I don't know after class, I don't write my homework, and it affects others. Even if I have three heads and six arms, I won't recruit you! I suppressed my anger and pretended to be calm and said, "XX, I have always loved you, no matter yesterday, today or in the future, but at the moment your behavior makes me very angry." I don't feel your respect for me. I don't want to talk to you at the moment. " I don't know whether it is the power of words or the severity of eyes. He slowly lowered his legs, sat up straight and restrained his attitude.
The fourth in-depth communication with him was on the first day of this semester, and I learned that he would rather stay outside for a few hours in hot weather than step into the school gate. So I quickly took two bottles of mineral water to save him. I saw him under the tree, pouting reluctantly. I handed two bottles of water and said, "Are you thirsty?" He picked up the water in his hand and drank two bottles of water in one breath. Then I asked, "Didn't you eat at noon?" "Hmm" "Let's go and take you to dinner!" Little stubborn donkey obediently followed me to the restaurant. This time, the way we talked changed, from I asked him to answer, to he asked me to answer, and he said I listened. After dinner, he volunteered. Let's go to school! I haven't seen the new dormitory yet!
The fifth chat was a few days ago. He saw me in the corridor and asked, "President Liu, do you care about our grades?" "What do you think?" "Well, anything will do." "Tell the truth!" "I want you to be in charge of our grade." Say that finish, a little shy.
On the chorus stage before the National Day, I was gratified, happy and more excited to see him devoted and full of spirit.
It is fortunate and even more happy to witness his growth and change.
But it's more what he brings to me. What can make a child change internally? I don't think it is enough to rely on one person's strength and influence. It needs the edification of environment and atmosphere, the support and persistence of parents, and the acceptance and waiting of teachers.
The principal's diary 13
The graduating class group brought a few years ago has not been dissolved, and everyone seems to be tacit. On holidays, they will greet each other in the group from time to time.
In today's group, a student sent a message reminding us of the past.
I remember her as a clever girl. If I hadn't checked and monitored it repeatedly, no one would believe that she would take other people's things, let alone believe that she cried in front of you, but what she said was not true.
It is inconvenient to inform her family. I don't know how parents who are kept in the dark will face it. Which parent is willing to admit that his lovely daughter has accumulated bad habits for several years?
Let the girl's parents know the truth. Because what we adults need to face and be wary of is that children's behavior has deviated. When they can't express their inner desire in words, they call for their inner lack with their actions.
When the mother learned the truth, she burst into tears and repeatedly cursed her daughter's disappointment.
When the mother's mood is gradually stabilized, what she needs is to explore the reasons behind her daughter's behavior. Why did she choose this way to satisfy herself when the family conditions can completely meet the material needs? Why do you keep hiding when you know you are wrong? She is afraid to tell the truth. What is she worried about?
Understand the truth behind it, followed by guidance for children.
He who tied the bell must untie the bell. Mother began to be extremely reluctant. After persuasion, it is obvious that at this moment, children are worried that their behavior will be rejected or even abandoned by their parents. Losing your temper and scolding can't solve the fundamental problem. He still needs to give his daughter some spiritual support in time, and prepare for the solidification of children's behavior and how to deal with it.
When my daughter first knew the truth and saw her mother's anger, she was afraid to see her mother in the office and waited for her "ruling" in fear. My mother stood outside the closed door and said to her daughter, "I know you don't want to keep other people's things for yourself." You're just curious to have fun. My mother was sad to learn that you started doing this several years ago, because you didn't tell me in time. What do you want? Besides, although your father and I are very busy, we all love you as our younger brother. It hurts me to know your behavior. I don't believe you would do this. Although I am angry, we still love you very much. Let's return everything we took from others! Next time you meet something you want, or something you can't help but want, let me know in time and we will discuss whether it is really necessary and how to solve it. " The daughter opened the door, looked at her mother with a guilty face, looked at each other for a few seconds, and the mother and daughter cried bitterly.
I know that this mother's words have entered the child's heart.
When the dark corner shines into the sun, the whole heart will light up.
The precious thing about a mother is that when her daughter is about to slide down the bottom, when she needs help most, she is firmly supported by her own love and becomes a helper for her child's growth.
In July this year, I saw her again. Her smile was bright and her eyes were clear. A warm hug told me that that experience had become the mark of her growth.
The principal's diary 14
President Hao's talk about how to cultivate positive emotions is very enlightening. How to cultivate?
One of them is: write down three things that make you feel comfortable and happy today every day. This is in line with the scenery in my eyes that we write every day. When a person can see beauty and joy from every bit of life, perspective and way of thinking will exert a subtle influence.
The second is meditation. Meditation is the most effective form of exercise, lasting 27 minutes every day. Relax your brain and stimulate the increase of gray matter density and hippocampal gyrus folds. I once bought a meditation course, stuck to it for a few days, and then stopped. You need to pick it up again and stick to it.
So what does positive emotion mean to students?
A student who studies with positive emotions learns more easily and faster than those who are anxious and afraid of learning materials. Brain science also shows that when a person is in a positive mood, his brain is active and his ability to absorb knowledge will be stronger.
In addition, positive emotions can greatly promote a person's creativity, and a happy mood is a necessary condition for creativity.
When students are happy, classroom learning efficiency will be higher. As teachers, we need to have a clear understanding, cultivate and stimulate children's positive emotions and improve classroom efficiency. What is an efficient classroom? A classroom with thinking content, a classroom where everyone actively participates, and a classroom where you can feel happy and happy. ...
The premise for teachers and parents to cultivate children's positive emotions is to constantly cultivate their own minds in life. What kind of mentality do you choose as a teacher? From a dull or troubled life to a happy life, to a state of respecting heaven and loving others. The problem is mountain, and the thought is water. Constantly cultivate your own mind, so that the problems in life gradually become less.
I think when we see that children lack intrinsic motivation in learning and their life is not growing well, we should examine ourselves and see if our minds are not enough to nourish their lives, instead of pointing fingers at children, accusing them, complaining, hating them and getting angry.
When educators constantly improve and cultivate their own minds, they can discover, awaken and cultivate. Real education is possible.
As an educator, I deeply feel that there is still a lot of room for my spiritual growth, which needs to be improved. There is a long way to go in Xiu Yuan, and I will go up and down. Go all the way and continue to grow!