For this kind of problems, I think many of them are plots in TV dramas and movies. In reality, it may be difficult for us to consider such a situation. Of course, this situation is not uncommon among us, but everyone has a different attitude. In fact, the key to this problem lies in the attitude of the parties and their handling of this situation. I'm not good at answering this question, so let's talk about the advantages and disadvantages of the two situations.

First of all, I want to say that it is best to like being together. Everything will be fine. All shall be well, jack shall have Jill. But after being together, our psychology may change greatly, which is a kind of psychological change that no one can tell clearly. After all, "like" and "love" are still philosophical problems that have puzzled many famous mathematicians since ancient times. Maybe we will all encounter such a situation, as parties or bystanders. When two people are friends, they will feel that the other side is good everywhere, even if there are bad places, they will feel that it is no big deal, because they have no right to interfere or even pay unconditionally; However, once you are together, you will feel that the other party should change for yourself and even stop accepting some shortcomings of the other party. These are all very likely to happen.

If you can't be together, it's really no big deal. Isn't there a saying that it's better to miss each other than to meet each other? It is a happy thing to hide a person in your heart and pray for him silently. Keep an idea in your heart that something can promote you and make you more energetic and hopeful when you work hard.

In fact, the most important thing is mentality, correct mentality, strive to be yourself, and refuse to be a "dog licker". What I'm saying here is not derogatory. Live the best of yourself and leave the best love to the best he or she you meet.